I might just be putting my foot in my mouth here, so sorry if it's not the advice you're looking for, but . . .
having read this and your previous post I'm guessing this friend really is "just a friend" and is female. As far as I know, it's more common for women to get off from clitoral stimulation than penetration alone, so if she does end up using this gift, I suspect something that vibrates would be more useful. Picking out a gift if you don't know anything about their sexual style is tough, but knowing that may help.
If you're dead-set on a dildo, I agree with the poster above me that something that looks more like an art piece would be better.
Either way, good luck!