I need help the Ella curve is doing me in.

SamsDelight SamsDelight
Ella
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I am not sure what I am doing wrong. I have read every review and some twice. I can not figure this girl out. I want to write a review but, how can I write a review on something I do not get. Any ideas would be wonderful. Please help me enjoy this beautiful toy.
04/16/2011
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Ella71 Ella71
What do you not get about it? Not every toy works for every woman. Does it hurt to use? Maybe your vagina is too small for it yet or maybe you just need some lube. Do you not feel anything? Again, nothing is for everyone. Try sqeezing the toy by doing kegels when you use it. Some women say that makes things feel better. Or maybe try tilting it up towards your g-spot. That works for me with other toys.

I haven't used it yet. Just recently purchased a white Ella. And I can't wait! We've got the same name!
04/17/2011
liilii080 liilii080
If you don't get it you can still write your review from that perspective. I'm sure you wouldn't be the only one who had that experience with it. I have the Ella and she's nice but she's not fireworks for me and that's ok. We all have different experiences with toys and that is what makes these reviews so valuable.
04/17/2011
SamsDelight SamsDelight
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Originally posted by Ella71
What do you not get about it? Not every toy works for every woman. Does it hurt to use? Maybe your vagina is too small for it yet or maybe you just need some lube. Do you not feel anything? Again, nothing is for everyone. Try sqeezing the toy by ... More
I am not trying to be dumb I know what the g-spot is and I think we have found it but it never seems to get me anywhere when my husband is using his fingers. So I got the Ella. Now the first time I was not ready for her and she hurt a lot. So the next time we tried after I had already reached orgasm and this time it was not painful but uncomfortable. No real pleasure. I got this toy as a buy out so I need to write the review but I can not seem to get her to work for me and I hate to write a review saying that. She is beautiful and smooth and well made but not working for me. And I really want her to work for me. If you have any ideas what I am doing wrong please tell me. She was hitting behind the bone that you can feel. Is that too far? I read where you would feel a difference in the skin but my husband did not feel this. And I mean we tried for a long time. Like I said any ideas would be appreciated.
04/17/2011
NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
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Originally posted by SamsDelight
I am not trying to be dumb I know what the g-spot is and I think we have found it but it never seems to get me anywhere when my husband is using his fingers. So I got the Ella. Now the first time I was not ready for her and she hurt a lot. So the ... More
There is nothing wrong with a toy not working for you, everyone prefers different sensations just elaborate on what you just wrote.
04/19/2011
SamsDelight SamsDelight
I wanted to thank everyone for their help. I have finally written a review and I am hopeful it will help others to understand why we did not see eye to eye.
05/14/2011
bethd1708 bethd1708
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Originally posted by liilii080
If you don't get it you can still write your review from that perspective. I'm sure you wouldn't be the only one who had that experience with it. I have the Ella and she's nice but she's not fireworks for me and that's ok. ... More
very nicely put
05/16/2011
Jobthingy Jobthingy
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Originally posted by SamsDelight
I am not trying to be dumb I know what the g-spot is and I think we have found it but it never seems to get me anywhere when my husband is using his fingers. So I got the Ella. Now the first time I was not ready for her and she hurt a lot. So the ... More
The spot is a couple of inches up (1-2), on the belly wall, and feels like a spongy walnut.
05/16/2011
SamsDelight SamsDelight
I wanted to say thank you all for your suggestions. I am still trying new ways to see if she can give me the fireworks. All ideas are truly appreciated I am just too stubborn to let her sit in a box. Of course she does have a beautiful box.
05/16/2011
ToyGurl ToyGurl
If it is the insertion that is bothering you, you really need to insert it in a curved way. Please look up the anatomy of your vagina online, and insert it accordingly. It will feel "in place" once you do. Give it some time before you write a review!
05/16/2011
SamsDelight SamsDelight
I received Ella on April 1st so it was not a hastily written review. I did read every review on EF before buying her and then reread many of them after my first experience. My husband was out of town after the first week so I tried many times to figure out a way to make her work for me. Taking everyones thoughts and ideas and trying them out for myself. Like my review stated we are a work in progress. She is beautiful but making her work for me is going to be a challenge. I also am not sure she will ever work for me honestly but I will keep trying. I have another toy the Jopen Vr3 that does not cause any problems and she hits the spot right off.
05/16/2011
kaykau09 kaykau09
did you figure it out?
05/18/2011
Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
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Originally posted by SamsDelight
I received Ella on April 1st so it was not a hastily written review. I did read every review on EF before buying her and then reread many of them after my first experience. My husband was out of town after the first week so I tried many times to ... More
I don't think you're doing anything wrong. Some toys just don't match up with some anatomy. Vaginas are not stamped one-size-fits-all.

Having read your review, I'm grateful for your honesty. More power to you if you're willing to put time and effort into the Ella, but from where I sit, any toy that requires that much work is a definite no-go for me.
05/18/2011
SamsDelight SamsDelight
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Originally posted by Petite Valentine
I don't think you're doing anything wrong. Some toys just don't match up with some anatomy. Vaginas are not stamped one-size-fits-all.

Having read your review, I'm grateful for your honesty. More power to you if you're ... More
I wanted to say thank you for reading my review. I really do appreciate and love feedback on all my reviews. I work hard to be honest and to give as much detail as possible. I have not given up on her completely but as stated above my husband got me the Vr3 for Easter and she is a favorite. I am going to write a review on her as soon as I have time to do her justice. Thank you again.
05/18/2011
SamsDelight SamsDelight
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Originally posted by kaykau09
did you figure it out?
I have found that using her alone is the best. She is just not a wam bam thank you ma'am kind of gal. I have to say most toys I own are that kind of toy. I did find the rocking motion that was suggested it worked well to make me hot but still not the feeling I am working towards. Also just letting her sit inside without any movements, and then placing the Hitachi against the end make for a very pleasurable experience. It gives me the pressure feeling, but I am still only climaxing from the Hitachi. Hope this helps. I will update if I am able to figure out more.
05/18/2011
oldman oldman
I agree with liilii080. A lot of reviews are negative and suggest other items.
09/01/2011
All His All His
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Originally posted by Petite Valentine
I don't think you're doing anything wrong. Some toys just don't match up with some anatomy. Vaginas are not stamped one-size-fits-all.

Having read your review, I'm grateful for your honesty. More power to you if you're ... More
I agree that I don't think you are doing anything wrong. And not every vagina is the same. Its great to be so willing to make it work but I'd have already called it quits so kudos to you!
11/24/2011
SamsDelight SamsDelight
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Originally posted by All His
I agree that I don't think you are doing anything wrong. And not every vagina is the same. Its great to be so willing to make it work but I'd have already called it quits so kudos to you!
I have given up on her. I have found a new toy made similar with less edges and it works wonderfully. Review to come shortly.
11/24/2011
bayosgirl bayosgirl
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Originally posted by SamsDelight
I have given up on her. I have found a new toy made similar with less edges and it works wonderfully. Review to come shortly.
Great! Glad you found one that works for you. I was considering the ella, but decided to go with something else instead.
11/24/2011
Lizzy Lizzy
Not every woman has pleasurable G spot stimulation
01/25/2012
RoughToughCocoaPuff RoughToughCocoaPuff
I like that you're not willing to give up even though there is a learning curve to this toy! Good luck!
07/23/2012
chicmichiw chicmichiw
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Originally posted by Ella71
What do you not get about it? Not every toy works for every woman. Does it hurt to use? Maybe your vagina is too small for it yet or maybe you just need some lube. Do you not feel anything? Again, nothing is for everyone. Try sqeezing the toy by ... More
Aw! Same name, that's too cool!

Samsdelight, sometimes toys don't work for you. Every woman is so unique, the toy might just not be made for you. It's not your fault.

Personally, I love some penetration during my play, but I just won't orgasm alone from it and certainly, I get the same sensation you described -- just kind of uncomfortable at best, sometimes painful if I wasn't completely ready. Adding a clit vibrator at the same time to get into the groove is usually my plan of action, then trying alone with the Ella (or any other dildo) to get a sense of what it's like.

Your review should be honest! Just try to track down why it doesn't work for you and that's a totally legitimate point of view. I'm sorry it didn't work out.
04/17/2013
quackbuster quackbuster
I thought I was alone! I got this as a buy-out & it's definitely not working for me at all. I was really excited to try it out because I love g-spot stimulation, but this wasn't pleasurable. I tried using it a few times & found it to be quite painful. I had to take some ibuprofen just now because my insides were hurting from it. :-x

Currently working on a review--I almost feel a little guilty speaking ill of it since most people seem to find this a wonder toy! It's definitely gorgeous to look at, but it doesn't work for all anatomies, that's for sure.
05/01/2013
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