help? what do i do?
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Informative topic breakdown of Big vibrators:
Larger Sizes in Lingerie?
Does anyone know when EF Is going to have larger sized lingerie back in stock. Most items are sold out and have been for a while.
When will the G4 Big Boss be back in stock?
I've had the G4 Big Boss link on my wish list for a long time - maybe too long! My wife tells me that Orange is the big new color for spring - so...
What color Big Boss would you get?
Orange or black?
How many "big ticket" vibrators do you own?
I myself have one toy over seventy dollars... What about you guys? Any toys OVER 70 dollars?
G4 Big Boss
I'm really considering buying the Big Boss for myself but I heard that depending on who you buy it from that it may or may not come with the charger..
Larger Sizes in Lingerie?
Does anyone know when EF Is going to have larger sized lingerie back in stock. Most items are sold out and have been for a while.
When will the G4 Big Boss be back in stock?
I've had the G4 Big Boss link on my wish list for a long time - maybe too long! My wife tells me that Orange is the big new color for spring - so...
What color Big Boss would you get?
Orange or black?
How many "big ticket" vibrators do you own?
I myself have one toy over seventy dollars... What about you guys? Any toys OVER 70 dollars?
G4 Big Boss
I'm really considering buying the Big Boss for myself but I heard that depending on who you buy it from that it may or may not come with the charger..
12/12/2010
Use something smaller, and work your way up to being able to use it?
Offer it up to a friend?
Burn it in a vaginal cleansing ritual?
Offer it up to a friend?
Burn it in a vaginal cleansing ritual?
12/12/2010
I agree with using something smaller first, also use more lube than you normally would.
12/12/2010
Wait until you are 18, graduate High School (and English) then come back and ask?
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i am 18.. do i need to take a pic of my id?
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plus can't they check age by the card i used? i thought that's how most adult sites did the age check.
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Not a good idea. That has shit like your address on it.
Originally posted by
mariah
i am 18.. do i need to take a pic of my id?
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haah oh ya.. welll i guess the only way i can prove my age is.. the debit card i used. i have an adult card that is only signed by me. and when ur under 18 you need a parents name on the card but mine doesn't have that. i used to have that card. but not anymore since now i'm 18. so i'm pretty shure eden has some way to cheak to see if the card i used was a "Teen card' or the adult one
Originally posted by
fghjkl
Not a good idea. That has shit like your address on it.
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Lol.. we had the 18 conversation already, funny how you got this toy after you started that thread, you can prove you are 18 by talking like an adult and not a teenager.
Originally posted by
mariah
haah oh ya.. welll i guess the only way i can prove my age is.. the debit card i used. i have an adult card that is only signed by me. and when ur under 18 you need a parents name on the card but mine doesn't have that. i used to have that card.
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haah oh ya.. welll i guess the only way i can prove my age is.. the debit card i used. i have an adult card that is only signed by me. and when ur under 18 you need a parents name on the card but mine doesn't have that. i used to have that card. but not anymore since now i'm 18. so i'm pretty shure eden has some way to cheak to see if the card i used was a "Teen card' or the adult one
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Sorry if I come across bitchy, and if you are 18 then good. I don't want Eden getting shut down.. I just can't help but feel like you aren't 18 due to the conversations you have had and the fact that you type like a teenager. I'm being judgemental, but that's how I feel.
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i am a teenager... i don't get hurt by what people say on the internet. it's ok to think i'm not 18. but i know i am.. and eden knows i am. soo it's all good in my mind..
Originally posted by
cherryredhead88
Lol.. we had the 18 conversation already, funny how you got this toy after you started that thread, you can prove you are 18 by talking like an adult and not a teenager.
Sorry if I come across bitchy, and if you are 18 then good. I don't ... more
Sorry if I come across bitchy, and if you are 18 then good. I don't ... more
Lol.. we had the 18 conversation already, funny how you got this toy after you started that thread, you can prove you are 18 by talking like an adult and not a teenager.
Sorry if I come across bitchy, and if you are 18 then good. I don't want Eden getting shut down.. I just can't help but feel like you aren't 18 due to the conversations you have had and the fact that you type like a teenager. I'm being judgemental, but that's how I feel. less
Sorry if I come across bitchy, and if you are 18 then good. I don't want Eden getting shut down.. I just can't help but feel like you aren't 18 due to the conversations you have had and the fact that you type like a teenager. I'm being judgemental, but that's how I feel. less
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"i am a teenager"...
Originally posted by
mariah
i am a teenager... i don't get hurt by what people say on the internet. it's ok to think i'm not 18. but i know i am.. and eden knows i am. soo it's all good in my mind..
I'm not trying to be malicious to you. Those are my feelings. I apologize if I come across rude.
You just send up red flags to me. Also, why aren't you buying things from Eden if you are 18 and have a debit card? We practically get shit for free on here.
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and i did the 18 thing becuase i used to be under 18 and wanted sex toys. and i also said i don't think 18 year olds should be on the fourms and if you reamber i posted something about what is the age to be on this site in oregon. because some sites require you to be 21. but people said it was 18 in oregon.. if i was breaking the rules in ANYWAY i would get off. trust me i would. but.. i'm not. so.
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Well, she IS a teenager if she is 18. And most 18 year olds are idiots. Come to think of it, most of my peers are still pretty immature.
Originally posted by
cherryredhead88
Lol.. we had the 18 conversation already, funny how you got this toy after you started that thread, you can prove you are 18 by talking like an adult and not a teenager.
Sorry if I come across bitchy, and if you are 18 then good. I don't ... more
Sorry if I come across bitchy, and if you are 18 then good. I don't ... more
Lol.. we had the 18 conversation already, funny how you got this toy after you started that thread, you can prove you are 18 by talking like an adult and not a teenager.
Sorry if I come across bitchy, and if you are 18 then good. I don't want Eden getting shut down.. I just can't help but feel like you aren't 18 due to the conversations you have had and the fact that you type like a teenager. I'm being judgemental, but that's how I feel. less
Sorry if I come across bitchy, and if you are 18 then good. I don't want Eden getting shut down.. I just can't help but feel like you aren't 18 due to the conversations you have had and the fact that you type like a teenager. I'm being judgemental, but that's how I feel. less
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i did buy something.. why do you mean "why arn't you" haha i did buy it.. haah
Originally posted by
cherryredhead88
"i am a teenager"...
I'm not trying to be malicious to you. Those are my feelings. I apologize if I come across rude.
You just send up red flags to me. Also, why aren't you buying things from Eden if you are 18 and ... more
I'm not trying to be malicious to you. Those are my feelings. I apologize if I come across rude.
You just send up red flags to me. Also, why aren't you buying things from Eden if you are 18 and ... more
"i am a teenager"...
I'm not trying to be malicious to you. Those are my feelings. I apologize if I come across rude.
You just send up red flags to me. Also, why aren't you buying things from Eden if you are 18 and have a debit card? We practically get shit for free on here. less
I'm not trying to be malicious to you. Those are my feelings. I apologize if I come across rude.
You just send up red flags to me. Also, why aren't you buying things from Eden if you are 18 and have a debit card? We practically get shit for free on here. less
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yes.. thank you..
Originally posted by
Adriana Ravenlust
Well, she IS a teenager if she is 18. And most 18 year olds are idiots. Come to think of it, most of my peers are still pretty immature.
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AREN'T = ARE NOT = Why are YOU NOT buying things from here, if you are on here? If you are here, on the forums, then you would be getting points, which is basically free money, to buy toys, from here. SO , if you are 18 + a debit card then that equals practically free toys.
Originally posted by
mariah
i did buy something.. why do you mean "why arn't you" haha i did buy it.. haah
Also, you ARE being watched and most likely very closely.
Honestly I could care less because Eden will take care of it if you shouldn't be on here. Other than that I'm sick of reading your typos.
@ adrianna- touche.
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i allready proved my age.. sooo? this makes no sence to me why you all hgkadrhgleahtfwaei at me haha. and i could prove my age again.. soo. this is kinda like.. ummm ok? haha i have every right to be here at much as you do.
Originally posted by
cherryredhead88
AREN'T = ARE NOT = Why are YOU NOT buying things from here, if you are on here? If you are here, on the forums, then you would be getting points, which is basically free money, to buy toys, from here. SO , if you are 18 + a debit card then that
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AREN'T = ARE NOT = Why are YOU NOT buying things from here, if you are on here? If you are here, on the forums, then you would be getting points, which is basically free money, to buy toys, from here. SO , if you are 18 + a debit card then that equals practically free toys.
Also, you ARE being watched and most likely very closely.
Honestly I could care less because Eden will take care of it if you shouldn't be on here. Other than that I'm sick of reading your typos.
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Also, you ARE being watched and most likely very closely.
Honestly I could care less because Eden will take care of it if you shouldn't be on here. Other than that I'm sick of reading your typos.
@ adrianna- touche. less
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Yes you do, as long as you are 18. How did you prove your age again? hfdssjflksdjflkds= intelligent conversation.
Originally posted by
mariah
i allready proved my age.. sooo? this makes no sence to me why you all hgkadrhgleahtfwaei at me haha. and i could prove my age again.. soo. this is kinda like.. ummm ok? haha i have every right to be here at much as you do.
I'm sorry if my words are too big for you, I wuLL trI anD make it so Yu can undrstind me.
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i said eden should have a way to see if i'm useing an adult debt card to buy my toy i bought. or if i had to have a co signer sign for it.. becuse you can't have an adult card intill your 18. if you not 18 you need a parent to sign for it.
Originally posted by
cherryredhead88
Yes you do, as long as you are 18. How did you prove your age again? hfdssjflksdjflkds= intelligent conversation.
I'm sorry if my words are too big for you, I wuLL trI anD make it so Yu can undrstind me.
I'm sorry if my words are too big for you, I wuLL trI anD make it so Yu can undrstind me.
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Let's try to keep things respectful and relevant here, folks. Have a good night
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Cherry's snark seems to have gone over your head. I think she is left concerned with what the company thinks and more concerned with how you appear as a person and, sometimes, that appearance may be young, naive, etc. I could be wrong, though (about her concerns).
Originally posted by
mariah
i said eden should have a way to see if i'm useing an adult debt card to buy my toy i bought. or if i had to have a co signer sign for it.. becuse you can't have an adult card intill your 18. if you not 18 you need a parent to sign for it.
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I believe it was already stated in another thread that EF doesn't verify age via your credit or debit card. Also, one could very easily purchase a Visa giftcard from a bank, or even a Simon mall and use it online. I've done it.
As for your original question about the toy being too big, use a lot of lube, and make sure YOU are warmed up as well. It might take some time and some getting used to, and even then you may find that it isn't something you enjoy. Just be sure to look at the product descriptions and know your limits next time.
As for your original question about the toy being too big, use a lot of lube, and make sure YOU are warmed up as well. It might take some time and some getting used to, and even then you may find that it isn't something you enjoy. Just be sure to look at the product descriptions and know your limits next time.
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This isn't a personal attack here, just making a statement based on experience. (Just FYI, I don't want anyone to think I'm attacking)
You can actually have a debit card that isn't cosigned when you're under 18. I had a debit card at 16 with no one's name on it except my own, and no one cosigned for it. My mother was indeed on my bank account as a partner, but there was nothing on my debit card, and I had bought things online at 16 (IE, one of my first vibrators) and was not given any check into about my age. So you don't have to have an adult on the card nor does it have to say anything about you being underage, because mine didn't. I did, when I turned 18, go close my bank account and open a new one without my mothers name, and they gave me a new debit card, that looked exactly the same. I also don't believe that you can verify through a debit card, and if you can, it's expensive and very tedious to do. But yeh, cards don't have to have anything like that on it
OH AND. On topic:
Lots of lubricant, lots of foreplay, and you may want to work your way up. There are vaginal dilator kits available on EF also, that will help you work up to that.
You can actually have a debit card that isn't cosigned when you're under 18. I had a debit card at 16 with no one's name on it except my own, and no one cosigned for it. My mother was indeed on my bank account as a partner, but there was nothing on my debit card, and I had bought things online at 16 (IE, one of my first vibrators) and was not given any check into about my age. So you don't have to have an adult on the card nor does it have to say anything about you being underage, because mine didn't. I did, when I turned 18, go close my bank account and open a new one without my mothers name, and they gave me a new debit card, that looked exactly the same. I also don't believe that you can verify through a debit card, and if you can, it's expensive and very tedious to do. But yeh, cards don't have to have anything like that on it
OH AND. On topic:
Lots of lubricant, lots of foreplay, and you may want to work your way up. There are vaginal dilator kits available on EF also, that will help you work up to that.
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Cherry, no offence but are you pmsing or something? Most of us are irritated by bad grammar and typos. People have repeatedly asked Mariah to be more careful when she types and if it hasn't already made a difference, it most likely will not change any time soon. Your berating her again is not likely to solve any problems and I am sure that you know this.
Whether you believe she is 18 or not, she is here, and you might as well make the best of it. If you really hate reading her typos that much just stop reading the threads she has started. It wont eliminate her posts all together but it will cut down on what you have to read. Nobody likes being patronized, and as a learning tool it generally yields poor results. You might want to keep that in mind.
As far as size goes, lube is generally a good idea. Like everybody else has mentioned, if that doesn't work you can always work your way up to it.
Whether you believe she is 18 or not, she is here, and you might as well make the best of it. If you really hate reading her typos that much just stop reading the threads she has started. It wont eliminate her posts all together but it will cut down on what you have to read. Nobody likes being patronized, and as a learning tool it generally yields poor results. You might want to keep that in mind.
As far as size goes, lube is generally a good idea. Like everybody else has mentioned, if that doesn't work you can always work your way up to it.
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they didn't give me that.. they made me wait till i was 18 to not have a co signer
Originally posted by
Midway through
This isn't a personal attack here, just making a statement based on experience. (Just FYI, I don't want anyone to think I'm attacking)
You can actually have a debit card that isn't cosigned when you're under 18. I had a ... more
You can actually have a debit card that isn't cosigned when you're under 18. I had a ... more
This isn't a personal attack here, just making a statement based on experience. (Just FYI, I don't want anyone to think I'm attacking)
You can actually have a debit card that isn't cosigned when you're under 18. I had a debit card at 16 with no one's name on it except my own, and no one cosigned for it. My mother was indeed on my bank account as a partner, but there was nothing on my debit card, and I had bought things online at 16 (IE, one of my first vibrators) and was not given any check into about my age. So you don't have to have an adult on the card nor does it have to say anything about you being underage, because mine didn't. I did, when I turned 18, go close my bank account and open a new one without my mothers name, and they gave me a new debit card, that looked exactly the same. I also don't believe that you can verify through a debit card, and if you can, it's expensive and very tedious to do. But yeh, cards don't have to have anything like that on it
OH AND. On topic:
Lots of lubricant, lots of foreplay, and you may want to work your way up. There are vaginal dilator kits available on EF also, that will help you work up to that. less
You can actually have a debit card that isn't cosigned when you're under 18. I had a debit card at 16 with no one's name on it except my own, and no one cosigned for it. My mother was indeed on my bank account as a partner, but there was nothing on my debit card, and I had bought things online at 16 (IE, one of my first vibrators) and was not given any check into about my age. So you don't have to have an adult on the card nor does it have to say anything about you being underage, because mine didn't. I did, when I turned 18, go close my bank account and open a new one without my mothers name, and they gave me a new debit card, that looked exactly the same. I also don't believe that you can verify through a debit card, and if you can, it's expensive and very tedious to do. But yeh, cards don't have to have anything like that on it
OH AND. On topic:
Lots of lubricant, lots of foreplay, and you may want to work your way up. There are vaginal dilator kits available on EF also, that will help you work up to that. less
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This is correct, as I said I am aware that I am being judgemental and it isn't really my place to worry about this, but yes I am concerned. Mostly for the fact that I don't feel like a teenager would benefit from being on here, it could go either way, but I don't feel like there are appropriate things on here for someone with a certain maturity level.
Originally posted by
Adriana Ravenlust
Cherry's snark seems to have gone over your head. I think she is left concerned with what the company thinks and more concerned with how you appear as a person and, sometimes, that appearance may be young, naive, etc. I could be wrong, though
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Cherry's snark seems to have gone over your head. I think she is left concerned with what the company thinks and more concerned with how you appear as a person and, sometimes, that appearance may be young, naive, etc. I could be wrong, though (about her concerns).
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Then again, as you stated before, I know plenty of people well over 18 who have lower mentalities than I feel they should.
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I am indeed pmsing lol.
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Emma (Girl With Fire)
Cherry, no offence but are you pmsing or something? Most of us are irritated by bad grammar and typos. People have repeatedly asked Mariah to be more careful when she types and if it hasn't already made a difference, it most likely will not
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Cherry, no offence but are you pmsing or something? Most of us are irritated by bad grammar and typos. People have repeatedly asked Mariah to be more careful when she types and if it hasn't already made a difference, it most likely will not change any time soon. Your berating her again is not likely to solve any problems and I am sure that you know this.
Whether you believe she is 18 or not, she is here, and you might as well make the best of it. If you really hate reading her typos that much just stop reading the threads she has started. It wont eliminate her posts all together but it will cut down on what you have to read. Nobody likes being patronized, and as a learning tool it generally yields poor results. You might want to keep that in mind.
As far as size goes, lube is generally a good idea. Like everybody else has mentioned, if that doesn't work you can always work your way up to it. less
Whether you believe she is 18 or not, she is here, and you might as well make the best of it. If you really hate reading her typos that much just stop reading the threads she has started. It wont eliminate her posts all together but it will cut down on what you have to read. Nobody likes being patronized, and as a learning tool it generally yields poor results. You might want to keep that in mind.
As far as size goes, lube is generally a good idea. Like everybody else has mentioned, if that doesn't work you can always work your way up to it. less
Like I said above, I'm really not trying to be malicious here.
I have already decided not to read these threads anymore, and I already stated what else I have to say.
No offense taken! It is pretty hard to offend me lol
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Thank you. I was going to mention this, I'm glad someone did.
Originally posted by
Midway through
This isn't a personal attack here, just making a statement based on experience. (Just FYI, I don't want anyone to think I'm attacking)
You can actually have a debit card that isn't cosigned when you're under 18. I had a ... more
You can actually have a debit card that isn't cosigned when you're under 18. I had a ... more
This isn't a personal attack here, just making a statement based on experience. (Just FYI, I don't want anyone to think I'm attacking)
You can actually have a debit card that isn't cosigned when you're under 18. I had a debit card at 16 with no one's name on it except my own, and no one cosigned for it. My mother was indeed on my bank account as a partner, but there was nothing on my debit card, and I had bought things online at 16 (IE, one of my first vibrators) and was not given any check into about my age. So you don't have to have an adult on the card nor does it have to say anything about you being underage, because mine didn't. I did, when I turned 18, go close my bank account and open a new one without my mothers name, and they gave me a new debit card, that looked exactly the same. I also don't believe that you can verify through a debit card, and if you can, it's expensive and very tedious to do. But yeh, cards don't have to have anything like that on it
OH AND. On topic:
Lots of lubricant, lots of foreplay, and you may want to work your way up. There are vaginal dilator kits available on EF also, that will help you work up to that. less
You can actually have a debit card that isn't cosigned when you're under 18. I had a debit card at 16 with no one's name on it except my own, and no one cosigned for it. My mother was indeed on my bank account as a partner, but there was nothing on my debit card, and I had bought things online at 16 (IE, one of my first vibrators) and was not given any check into about my age. So you don't have to have an adult on the card nor does it have to say anything about you being underage, because mine didn't. I did, when I turned 18, go close my bank account and open a new one without my mothers name, and they gave me a new debit card, that looked exactly the same. I also don't believe that you can verify through a debit card, and if you can, it's expensive and very tedious to do. But yeh, cards don't have to have anything like that on it
OH AND. On topic:
Lots of lubricant, lots of foreplay, and you may want to work your way up. There are vaginal dilator kits available on EF also, that will help you work up to that. less
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Come now, was that entirely called for?
Originally posted by
cherryredhead88
Wait until you are 18, graduate High School (and English) then come back and ask?
Really, I do not think this is like you, your above this kind of stuff. There is no need to be blatantly mean. If you have a concern it is best to just PM Kristi, she is wonderful, she will handle it. Being mean is just not going to solve anything and all it serves is to degrade yourself. Lets be civil my friend!
We need to be welcoming new members and not insulting them. Lets say she is 18, if Eden verified it, maybe if someone offered to be her mentor (Maybe you!), would that not be the helpful thing to do?
Insulting someone is just about the worst thing we can do.
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