Which one is better for a novice

momma22js momma22js 09/26/2011

Trying to figure out which of these would be better for someone who isn't really all that familiar with vibrators

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momma22js momma22js
Which one of these do you think is better for someone that has never really used a lot of sex toys (I have two toys already and I am looking to add another to my collection) I have read the reviews but I am kinds torn.

I will be using this for solo play as well as with my husband if that information helps any thank you!
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Dillicious , Isreah , KaraSutra , LaLaLouise
4  (31%)
Bro's Wife , alwaysready , kadytheredpanda , Wild Orchid , Callisto , Officer Oddy , kendra30752 , haley730 , darthkitt3n
9  (69%)
Total votes: 13
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Bro's Wife Bro's Wife
Quote:
Originally posted by momma22js
Which one of these do you think is better for someone that has never really used a lot of sex toys (I have two toys already and I am looking to add another to my collection) I have read the reviews but I am kinds torn.

I will be using this for ... More
I recommend the pink Butterfly Kiss because I own it, and I love it. I would say its a good beginner piece. The insertable length is relatively short and not at all girthy. The exterior clit vibe/butterfly antennae is large enough to likely hit you right where you need it and the speeds range from barely noticeable (to me anyway), to more powerful but it might take a few minutes, to ohmygodorgasm in less than 20 seconds. The material is good and very flexible. I think its an awesoms toy. I've had mine for I would say about 6 months and it is for sure my favorite, of the 2 dildo and I think 5 or 6 vibrators we own.

Good luck!!!
09/27/2011
Dillicious Dillicious
Quote:
Originally posted by momma22js
Which one of these do you think is better for someone that has never really used a lot of sex toys (I have two toys already and I am looking to add another to my collection) I have read the reviews but I am kinds torn.

I will be using this for ... More
The platnium edition is a great toy. My wife still loves it and uses it everytime. With the many different vibration settings youll find the right one to make you squirm with ecstasy

Note they are both the same toy basically.. The platnium just has more settings
09/27/2011
kadytheredpanda kadytheredpanda
I've only used the original kiss, but it's a great beginner toy on its own. I don't really see much difference between the platinum and original just by looking at them.
09/27/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Do I really have to pick one of these? I have had both. I liked them at the time, but the shaft was not long enough , the clitoral stimulation part was too short and I like to use vibrators during intercourse as well, and the ball placement irritated my husband's shaft and put pressure in the wrong place for me.

Having said that, my butterfly kisses now live at the city dump. I developed a terrible reaction to jelly toys , since then I only use 100% body safe materials and prefer 100% silicone or stainless steel.

Hope this helps.
09/27/2011
Wild Orchid Wild Orchid
The only difference appears to be the patterns - if you like them or would like to try them - pick the Platinum. I usually don't use patterns on my other toys so the standard suits me better - less clicks to cycle through before the toy is off.
09/27/2011
Callisto Callisto
Yeah.. This toy is kind of a hit or miss. It doesn't work with all anatomy configurations.. didn't work with me cause it was too short. It kinda turned me off of other g-spot vibes.
09/27/2011
Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
They''re really the same. You cvould go with either
09/27/2011
wetone123 wetone123
Well, I have the regular Butterfly Kiss and I did not enjoy it at all. It was weak, the clitoral stimulator was awkward and did not fit properly. The shaft was too short...on and on.

I think you will be disappointed if you waste your money on these 2 toys.
09/27/2011
darlingnikkie darlingnikkie
I have tried both and the only difference I saw and felt were the patterns. I think either one would be good for a novice. I personally like more longer and firm toys but the butterfly kiss is a good first toy to start with.
09/27/2011
kendra30752 kendra30752
I have the pink one and honestly it was the worst toy I have ever had! There are so many flaws and issues. It would be an amazing vibe if it weren't for some flaws.

To me, the vibrations are weak and are more for someone who doesn't need any kind of strong stimulation. The biggest problem I had was with the butterfly not reaching any where near the clit during use. Now the idea of the design was awesome and this has a ton of potential, but I doubt many people will be able to have both clitoral and g-spot stim at the same time.

If you're looking for the rabbit style stimulation then this is terrible. But just for a beginner or someone who wants to play around it could be good. Honestly, I couldn't even get turned on with it. It could make a good teaser toy for someone who likes very light play. I liked the feeling of the bulb, but it's so flimsy/bendy that it will not go anywhere near the G-spot.

Also, this is a small toy, I believe both purple and pink are nearly the exact same if not identical (besides in color) and instead of making 2 toys that are both the same just with different names, cal exotics should've worked on fixing the bad product rather than just making another piece of junk. I truly hated mine and even months later am still highly disappointed.

I have the butterfly kiss platinum edition in pink, but the reason I voted was because I prefer the pink. I would never recommend this to anyone though. I hope maybe there's something with a little more promise. If you're looking for the rabbit style without intense G-spot stim a good choice in my opinion, is the Doc Johnson Cliterrific Cup. It's good for beginners or advanced and is very cheap, especially to be such a great toy. I've yet to have a toy I like better than it. It's simple and not very big at all and does provide good G-spot stim for me, but I wouldn't recommend it to someone who has trouble finding their G-spot. Still, maybe that one would be a better choice?
09/27/2011
KaraSutra KaraSutra
I'd say grab the Platinum one, considering it's basically the same design - but with a bunch of added vibration settings - you'll get more bang for your buck and if you really like the basic settings, you won't waste your money upgrading to the next one.
09/27/2011
LaLaLouise LaLaLouise
I have the Platinum and work in a sex shop and sell both. They are the exact same except the platinum has 6 more functions. There is a small button on the bottom. On the regular, it goes Low Constant, Medium Constant, High Contant, Off. On the platinum, it starts off with the exact same first three then does 6 other patterns of vibration, escalation, pulsation, etc before turning off. I have read that the platinum is also made of a slightly better material. I feel that for the small price difference, go with the platinum because it can be used both as a beginner toy and you can progress to the other functions if you start to get bored with the constant ones. Hope I was helpful <3
09/27/2011
Daisy Mae Daisy Mae
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Originally posted by Redboxbaby
Do I really have to pick one of these? I have had both. I liked them at the time, but the shaft was not long enough , the clitoral stimulation part was too short and I like to use vibrators during intercourse as well, and the ball placement ... More
I agree I have the just the butterfly kisses one and it really didn't do ANYTHING for me!
09/30/2011
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Unique posters: 14