Is it weird for a perosn in their 20s to date someone in highschool thats just turned 18?

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Is it weird for a perosn in their 20s to date someone in highschool thats just turned 18?

 
 
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spineyogurt spineyogurt
A girl from my neighborhood wants to begin a relationship with me, im in my 20s and shes still in highschool (18) is this very wrong?
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Yes, sicko
1  (3%)
Nah
31  (97%)
Total votes: 32
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02/01/2012
Do-Re-Mi Do-Re-Mi
As long as the both of you are legal and want to be together then no.
02/01/2012
JustLikeHeaven JustLikeHeaven
It's only a 2 year difference and they are of age.
02/01/2012
Nazaress Nazaress
She's legal. That's all that matters.
02/01/2012
Cookie Monster Mike Cookie Monster Mike
Yay for legal, otherwise don't worry about what others think as long as you guys are happy!
02/01/2012
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
I'm going to have to add to what everyone else is saying. Nope!
02/01/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
18 = legal in U.S.
02/01/2012
Ryuson Ryuson
18 and 22 isn't that big a difference. If the feelings are mutual, why not?
02/01/2012
JessCee JessCee
I don't think it's weird.... at all!
02/01/2012
punkstar283 punkstar283
Quote:
Originally posted by spineyogurt
A girl from my neighborhood wants to begin a relationship with me, im in my 20s and shes still in highschool (18) is this very wrong?
nope
02/01/2012
Lucky21 Lucky21
No. If someone was in there 30s or 40s I'd find it a bit more weird, but really from what I've seen, if it's actually a loving, honest relationship, it really doesn't matter what age people are.
02/01/2012
biancajames biancajames
Quote:
Originally posted by spineyogurt
A girl from my neighborhood wants to begin a relationship with me, im in my 20s and shes still in highschool (18) is this very wrong?
It depends...are her parents violent?
02/01/2012
winterseve winterseve
I was 17 when I met my 23 year old ex. We didn't have sex until I was 18, but it was fine. I told my parents he was 2 years younger and it was no biggie. We were together for 4 years. As long as parents are ok with it and it's completely consensual it's ok.
02/01/2012
Rossie Rossie
It's OK if the guy is a "mature" eighteen years old.
02/01/2012
samanthalynn samanthalynn
its ok
02/02/2012
married with children married with children
although it is not sick, because she is 18. I would wait until she was out of school.
02/03/2012
Stormy Stormy
Definitely ok, if your maturity levels match. Sometimes the only way to figure that out is to jump head first and see what comes up. The more important question is, do you like her?
02/03/2012
Lisa72 Lisa72
thats not weird...
02/06/2012
sktb0007 sktb0007
Quote:
Originally posted by Do-Re-Mi
As long as the both of you are legal and want to be together then no.
I agree with this.
02/06/2012
Boink Boink
That's not that weird, I started dating my partner in high school and when she went off to college (while I was still in high school) there wasn't any weirdness at all.

As long as both of you are happy that's what really is important.

Of course, if you are an administrator at her school or something you might want to reconsider.
02/06/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
Not weird
02/06/2012
El-Jaro El-Jaro
I don't see anything wrong with it.

From my own experiences, I wouldn't count on it to last. This is for you two personally, just in general. At eighteen, there's still a LOT of life to be lived.
02/06/2012
slynch slynch
It depends on where in the 20's (28-29, or 20-21) they are.
02/06/2012
urhappybunnie urhappybunnie
definitely not. she's 18 so she's legal in most countries. definitely an adult who can make her own decisions.
02/10/2012
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I proposed to my wife when she was 18 and I was 22.
02/10/2012
dbm6907 dbm6907
Definately not weird!
02/14/2012
Swish Swish
me and my boyfriend are about 2 years apart, i started dating him i was 15 he was 17 hes now 21 and i am 19 its not bad at all
02/14/2012
amandaco2011 amandaco2011
There is nothing weird about this.
02/14/2012
MamaDivine MamaDivine
Quote:
Originally posted by spineyogurt
A girl from my neighborhood wants to begin a relationship with me, im in my 20s and shes still in highschool (18) is this very wrong?
Not weird at all
03/19/2012
MamaDivine MamaDivine
Quote:
Originally posted by MamaDivine
Not weird at all
My husband was 19 and I was 16...Well, my ex husband anyways.
03/19/2012
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