A question for the gentlemen (or dudes) about what sex feels like on your end

P'Gell P'Gell
I was reading the latest Stephen King novel, 11/22/63 and during a sex scene (which Stephen is actually fairly new to, being too shy to write sex scenes until recently) he mentioned he missed sex (as the character's wife had died) and he really missed the "gripping feeling" that went along with PIV.

Not being a man, I don't know what this is or what is about. I asked My Man and he said, "Yeah, the pussy grips your cock." Oh, well then, thank you. Not much help from his end. (He's not much of a talker.) I wish I could have gotten more out of him, but he actually gets embarrassed when sex talk gets serious. (He has no problem being crude and rude or teasing me or with "dirty talk," but if I get serious, he gets all embarrassed like a kid.)

So, what is this "gripping" sensation? Anybody want to elaborate? Does it happen all the time? Only at certain times? Can the woman cause it or control it by clamping or even having an orgasm herself? I have no idea.

Just trying to get as much knowledge about what he is going through as possible, in order to make the experience better for us both.
12/23/2011
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Peggi Peggi
I'm curious about this as well!
12/24/2011
Antipova Antipova
I like that you only have responses from girls so far? Anyway,

I haven't really had a sit-down-serious-conve rsation about this either, but generally when a partner says "squeeze my cock," the correct thing for me to do is to squeeze my kegels as hard as I can. It happens involuntarily during orgasm, and if I'm focusing / about to have an orgasm (and sometimes my kegels start top-down instead of bottom-up or all-at-once and then forces his cock out) , but generally as long as you don't squeeze in an evicting direction, I imagine it feels like squeezing.

If you can reach, slide a finger up in yourself and grip it with your kegels. I assume it feels like that?
12/24/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Well, to answer the first question, it feels like warm apple pie.

Sorry could not resist.

I guess the best way to explain the gripping would be to lube up your hand and finger and penetrate your fist. Very the pressure of your fist (think Kegels), loose when the finger is going in and tighten it pulling out. While not exact you will get the idea. Also the angle affects the feel as well, missionary feels quite different than doggie. In missionary, I feel less gripping than when she is on top, this could be an angle deal as well. Of course the vagina is tighter at the entrance but I do not notice an "opening up" further in, the feeling is still there just not as tight.

Hope that helps a bit.
12/24/2011
Lucky21 Lucky21
Well... it's warm and consuming, and IMO the best feeling type of sex that exists. And I may be discounted by others, but I'll say that vagina feels like vagina. It's soft, plush and warm, a slick. I'm sure there are differences in texture based on anatomy, but I've never been like, that one feels so much better or different than a different one. I think the things that change the difference in feel are shape/angle of anatomy and muscle strength and then everything else about the woman. Body shape, scents and pheromones. Willing to interact, do different things, say things, etc. Ultimately, what makes one woman better than another is mostly the chemistry between the couple.
12/24/2011
Kendrir Kendrir
Oddly, I don't know that I've ever really felt much in the way of anything I'd describe as a "gripping" sensation. Or maybe that's what I fell, and I just don't describe it that way. The main thing for me is feeling a more "enveloping" sensation than a hand or mouth could provide. The only way I could try to describe it would be to think of the difference between running one or two fingers across your cheeks and having someone give you a facial massage with their palms, running fingers through your hair, caressing your head. Then transfer that to your sensitive regions.

Odd, I know, but about the best I can think at the moment.
12/24/2011
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