How often in week do you normally have sex? By Age Groups.

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How often in week do you normally have sex? By Age Groups.

TitsMcScandal TitsMcScandal
I'm in the 18-25 range and I voted 30+. While there are days where we don't have sex, the majority of days we do and I'd say that about 3 days a week we do it more than once a day. So it evens out to about 35-40 times a month.
02/03/2010
Jul!a Jul!a
I'm 22 and I like to think we're actually averaging 15-22 times a month. There was a period of time where we were averaging 10 -14 times a week, but we both got real jobs and we both work in the mornings, so we've had to cut back
02/05/2010
Sassybunny85 Sassybunny85
It varies for us both being 24 & 25, but since we are trying to get pregnant, we at least have sex 5 times a month, no sweat. We aim for every weekend morning. Always a nice way to start off your Saturdays and Sundays.
02/16/2010
Alyjazz Alyjazz
I voted for 2 - 6...most months fall into that category for us but Some months it will only be 1 time and others it's 15 or 20 times. I guess it just really depends.
03/03/2010
Alyjazz Alyjazz
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Originally posted by Sassybunny85
It varies for us both being 24 & 25, but since we are trying to get pregnant, we at least have sex 5 times a month, no sweat. We aim for every weekend morning. Always a nice way to start off your Saturdays and Sundays.
When we decide to get pregnant, the boyfriend's going to want to be doing it 5 times a day. :/

Good luck with getting pregnant, that's pretty exciting! I hope you guys succeed soon
03/03/2010
xchairitycasex xchairitycasex
I am 21 and i only get it about twice a week i wish it were more but what can you do?
03/04/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
22
30+ times a month.

Daily or if we skip days we usually make up for it later.
03/16/2010
Pouncing Panther Pouncing Panther
Age 40 - about 35 times a month. Way more than when I was a young 20 something kid. Still got the action - refactory period of about 5 - 10 minutes depending on how hot I am. Think that's pretty good for a 40 year old.

Have noticed that drinking effects the hardness of my erection. This was never true when I was younger.
03/25/2010
GNGenie GNGenie
I had to think about this a bit since we don't always have sex every day, but fairly often when we do, we have sex multiple times. I figure the average is probably more than 30 a month (together) Still in the first 10 years, though, so maybe it'll die off after a while.
04/12/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by GNGenie
I had to think about this a bit since we don't always have sex every day, but fairly often when we do, we have sex multiple times. I figure the average is probably more than 30 a month (together) Still in the first 10 years, though, so maybe ...
Heh hopefully not! We're in the second 10 years and still go at it like rabbits We are in the over 30 times a month range as well.
04/21/2010
TechyDad TechyDad
We used to be 2 times a week. Then we had our first child and it went down to once a week. Then we had our second child and it went down to once every 10-15 days or so. Mainly, my wife is so tired after a day of taking care of the kids that she just wants to pass out. My drive's gone down too, but not as much as hers has.
04/21/2010
dorlamoorehouse dorlamoorehouse
Quote:
Originally posted by Josmoseph
I am looking for results to see if people at certain ages have more or less sex than others.
I cast my vote based on partner sex, although if you include masturbation as well, that would change things.
04/24/2010
sweet sally sweet sally
I voted for myself being 33 and 30+ times a month, but I should note my bf is in a different age category..he's 48
05/11/2010
Kim! Kim!
Full-time job, full-time school, a 4 year old, and we don't live together (30-45 minutes away) make our 2ish times per week about all we can manage. Sadly. I would happily go for 2 or more times per day despite my schedule.
I'm 27.
06/10/2010
kck kck
I voted 7-14 times a month within the 18-25yo option. But I want to note that this is only because my boyfriend doesn't go to my college--we aren't even in the same states during the school year--so our sex is limited to three-day vacation visits.

However, if we weren't separated so often, the number would be much higher ;P
06/10/2010
BoomersGirl BoomersGirl
I'm 37. Hubby is 40. Even with 6 kids, we manage to usually 2-3 times a week except "that week of the month". But sometimes more, sometimes less. Depends on our moods. When we get new toys, it's definitely more!
06/17/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
I'm slightly over 40 and My Man is 50. In a month, we usually manage about 30 to 50 times. (about 7 to 10 times a week.) We have sex more often than when we were in our 30s or 20s or even in our teens (we had very small children in our 20s, so that's the reason, and had an other baby when I was in my 30s and he was in his 40s, so there was a dip there, too.)
06/21/2010
joja joja
Hmm, it seems frequency doesn't vary much with age. Good to know I have something to look forward to!
06/21/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
I'm slightly over 40 and My Man is 50. In a month, we usually manage about 30 to 50 times. (about 7 to 10 times a week.) We have sex more often than when we were in our 30s or 20s or even in our teens (we had very small children in our 20s, so ...
I'm jealous - I couldn't do that anymore if I tried.

Sad thing is that when men are at their prime (physically) many women are using sex as a lure for commitment. Once the hook is set they seem to turn off the charm for a while - kids come along and they don't re-emerge until the late 30s or even later.

By then although the mans skills have been improved - his capacity has likely diminished. I don't really know if this just my experience or that of others - maybe there is way to turn that into a question?
07/23/2010
Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
I voted 23-30 but that is based on when he is here..He is only here a few days a month right now so it's really more like 2-6 but it is temporary.
07/24/2010
Alura Une Alura Une
It really depends. We do it anywhere from twice a month to 4 days a week. Lately, it's been maybe twice a week. Our hobbies actually get in the way more than work! I'm 28, he's 25.
07/29/2010
PassionQT PassionQT
2-6 times a month here too, well more like 3 but lately since my surgery, it's be ZERO in the last 5 weeks. Nice thing is that when I'm ready, it's gonna be good!
09/07/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
The good news is that with one away at college and the other working & dating - there's a lot more opportunity so our average is probably up to 2-3x per week.
09/07/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I'm jealous - I couldn't do that anymore if I tried.

Sad thing is that when men are at their prime (physically) many women are using sex as a lure for commitment. Once the hook is set they seem to turn off the charm for a while - kids ...
Yeah, sometimes I would like him to still have the drive and the constant hard ons he had in his 20s and 30s. My drive is very high, and I think even though he's always had an incredibly high drive, mine is probably stronger than his at the moment. Don't get me wrong, he is trying to keep up with me. (Witness my whining a few weeks ago, when he was falling asleep during sex. I was NOT a happy woman!)

We keep trying new things (you'd think there'd be nothing new left, but we still find new things) and since we've gotten into sex toys, there is always something new to "review" and that keeps it interesting.

Yes, I think both of us have certainly improved our skills in the last 2 decades (unlike my first few attempts at blow jobs, when I accidentally bit him OW!) but, I keep pushing him, and he often surprises me with renewed vigor.

I had a prescription for Viagra, I was having orgasm problems and the doctor gave it to me. (It didn't really work for me, orgasm wise, but it sure makes you even more horny.) We only bought a few, because our insurance wouldn't pay for it because I'm a woman. But, he took a few, and WOW! I really wish now he'd get his own prescription, I wouldn't want to use it every time but damn, it was like being with a very young man......I'd almost forgotten.....

So, we just keep trying. And the need to please the other one, plus the endorphins keeps us going.
09/07/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
Yeah, sometimes I would like him to still have the drive and the constant hard ons he had in his 20s and 30s. My drive is very high, and I think even though he's always had an incredibly high drive, mine is probably stronger than his at the ...
P'Gell, I have only used Viagra a couple of times - and the same for Levitra. My choice is Cialis because I'm always playing a guessing game - will we have sex or not? If we don't, Cialis is good for 36 hours - so we're good for the next night - a nice perk. I find that Cialis also helps prevent PE.

I have often thought about giving my wife a Cialis tablet to see what happens - but if the Viagra didn't work for you - it probably won't do much for her.

Since all ED drugs increase blood flow to smooth muscles - and natural lubrication is somewhat dependent on blood flow - did you notice any increase in lubrication?
09/07/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
P'Gell, I have only used Viagra a couple of times - and the same for Levitra. My choice is Cialis because I'm always playing a guessing game - will we have sex or not? If we don't, Cialis is good for 36 hours - so we're good for the ...
I didn't have it prescribed for a problem with libido, though. My doctor thought it might make it easier for me to have an orgasm, since it has become more difficult since I got into heavy peri-menopause.

My libido it high, but the Viagra actually made me more aroused. My Man said he was gong to lock that stuff up, because it made me dangerous. I think women have to be already SOMEWHAT aroused for it to work (I could be wrong about that, because I don't have any issue in that area) but it definitely contributed to some heavy horniness. It didn't really make it any easier to Come though. I am just glad I DID come when we used it, because it wold have been scary if it hadn't. Maybe it did help. The orgasm issue is so intermittent it's hard to tell.

I didn't notice any increase in lubrication, but I again, have little problem in that area, so it's usually a pretty juicy "down there" between the two of us, so I can't really tell.

It's just so damn expensive, and our insurance will pay for at least 6 tabs a month if HE gets a prescription, but he hates going to the doctor. *sigh*

As long as your wife doesn't have any blood pressure issues, she should be fine. I usually give my man a half of a 25 mg one, and I take the other half and we're good to go. Only at $20.00 a pop, we've only used it a half a dozen times. I wouldn't want to use it every time, but it's fun when we do.
09/07/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
I didn't have it prescribed for a problem with libido, though. My doctor thought it might make it easier for me to have an orgasm, since it has become more difficult since I got into heavy peri-menopause.

My libido it high, but the Viagra ...
Thanks for the update - I use the generics they're much more affordable.
09/07/2010
Destri Destri
Quote:
Originally posted by Josmoseph
I am looking for results to see if people at certain ages have more or less sex than others.
somewhat taken aback by your grouping the over 55 folks into a lump as if we aren't very sexual anymore....

My hubby and I have sex a minimum of every other day. We have done it 7 times in one day... we are both very highly sexual beings.
09/30/2010
null null
18-25 30+ times a month, and I've had to cut back a lot since I'm no longer actually living with my SO. Last year's spring semester had us going at it at least 3 times a day...I miss those days...
10/11/2010
Lonewolf Lonewolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Josmoseph
I am looking for results to see if people at certain ages have more or less sex than others.
And that's a bad month
10/11/2010
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