What do YOU do to make sure your sex is safe?

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What do YOU do to make sure your sex is safe?

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Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
Some people wear condoms, others feel like it isn't important as long as they are on birth control. What are your views?
05/22/2011
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Contributor: married with children married with children
My wife has a IUD. And neither one of us has been with someone else, so we dont have to worry about STD's. I believe we are as safe as you can get, the only safer way would to go and get fixed.
05/22/2011
Contributor: Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
We only shag each other, and we have a vasectomy.
05/22/2011
Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
I use condoms, only because I want to wait to have a child for a while. I also take birth control, but my medications lower their effectiveness. My partner and I also both have cold sores. I got mine from my ex boyfriend, and my fiance got his from his mother. She still terrorizes him about it today. So when either of us get one, we refrain from oral sex so we don't end up with actualy herpes on our genitals.
05/22/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
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Originally posted by Alan & Michele
We only shag each other, and we have a vasectomy.
Same here! It is as safe as it can get!
05/22/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I use birth control - hate condoms!
05/23/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
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Originally posted by ToyGurl
Some people wear condoms, others feel like it isn't important as long as they are on birth control. What are your views?
Vasectomy 16 years ago. Completely monogamous.
05/23/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
I only have sex with my wife, and she only has sex with me. It's not absolutely foolproof since you can get things from contact with other body fluids, but it does make STIs very unlikely.
05/23/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyGurl
Some people wear condoms, others feel like it isn't important as long as they are on birth control. What are your views?
We are poly but haven't had any lovers in a long time. We are very careful when we are with others. I get checked regularly from the Doctor. And he's had a vasectomy so we don't worry about birth control now.
05/23/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
condoms and my birth control.
09/05/2011
Contributor: Ahatmadeofshoes12 Ahatmadeofshoes12
To prevent STI's I always wear condoms with new partners even for oral sex. I make a date out of going to get an STI test with a new partner so we can confirm we are both clean before we stop using condoms and diaphragms for oral sex. For penetrative sex I always use both condoms and the Nuvaring. As effective as the ring is I'm pretty paranoid about pregnancy so I always have a back up method.
02/12/2012