Just wanting to give a guy's perspective here...
Lips on a woman are like balls on a guy. Does the size, shape, hang of a guy's testicles really matter to you? How would you feel if your guy tried to hide his parts because he didn't like the way his balls looked?
Small lips, large lips, lopsided lips...they're all beautiful in their own way. In fact, the "perfect" lips are less appealing because it is the uniqueness that makes them so appealing. Besides, if you love/care about your partner, you're going to appreciate/learn to like the differentness that they have.
I wouldn't spend a mili-second worrying about the exterrior look of your lady parts.
As for the inner parts...tightness and length...I'm a small guy, and it is extremely tuff at times to deal with, but there is someone for everyone.
I'm preaching to the choir here, but vaginas can stretch, lengthen and even tighten. Women are lucky like that adn it pisses me off!!!
Seriously, just mainly wanted to make the point that cosmetically us guys appreciate anything in front of us...and that's not to say we're just happy to have somethign in front of us, it's that small, thin, long, fat, large, lopsided, etc...it all, truly, is beautiful...and it is what's inside that counts, anyway (physically and emotionally).
With that said, this entire thread is worthless without pics.