Hitachi is tried, tested, and true. I think I'd actually be quite prone to using it as a body massager (it's intended purpose?) so I don't mind the strength. Relying on it as a clitoral stimulator would be way too intense, but do-able... just use sheets or towels to buffer the buzz. Also, so fun to lay on your abdomen when he's inside of you, he can feel the vibrations right through your pelvis!