What do you recommend the best way to start anal is?
You have to warm up to it like with a finger and good lube. Make sure your SO is in a comfortable position and ready and loose, if they are tight you are going no where. Then you can work up to a vibe that is the size of ur finger then a little bigger to the size you want. But remeber to go slow and make sure they are relaxed or they will lock up like Fort Knox.