How old were you when you first had anal?

Just Jen Just Jen
I know there is going to be quite a range on this one. Please explain if your answer is #3
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Same age as when I gave up my cherry.
56  (36%)
20 - 30
68  (43%)
31 or Hell No not for me!!
33  (21%)
Total votes: 157
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09/02/2010
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BJismyname BJismyname
lol funny question to ask a gay guy. that kinda *is* your "cherry"
09/02/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
Well, I was over 30, but I don't want anyone to think my answer was "Hell no." We love it, but just got to it older than many people. It really was not as common (at least not as far as I know) when I was in my teens and 20s. I remember seeing an anal scene in a porn, when My Man and I were in a sleazy hotel, when I was about 18 or so. I was like, "OMG, he he he he....put it in her....butt." I was clueless....

But, once we got into it. Ahhhhhh. I often wonder why it took us so long to really get into it. Really.
09/03/2010
Liz Liz
I lost my virginity at 16 but didn't have anal for the first time until I was 23.
09/06/2010
c0l3m4ntg4nn c0l3m4ntg4nn
I received a fisting from my wife when I was 20. I guess that can count.
09/22/2010
Kim! Kim!
I was 19, which wasn't the age I lost my virginity.
09/22/2010
SexyySarah SexyySarah
I think I was 19.
09/22/2010
ScottA ScottA
If you count personal toy play ("real size" dildos) it would be while I was still a virgin. I had plenty of fun on my own.
09/22/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
There isn't a choice for me up there.
09/27/2010
sexysweetieshan sexysweetieshan
Um.... other? I was 18. But it wasn't the same time as I gave up my cherry. That was not until I was 19.
09/27/2010
mllebeauty mllebeauty
I gave up my cherry quite a bit sooner than I had anal.
09/27/2010
Armsjlove Armsjlove
I was in my mid-30's somewhere. I can't really remember my specific age. ~ Arms
09/27/2010
snflwrchick snflwrchick
I did anal before I lost my cherry. I was 16 and still thought that didn't count as losing my virginity.
09/28/2010
lamira lamira
It's was around the same time as I lost my cherry, but I'd say maybe a year or two afterward.
10/04/2010
Danielle915 Danielle915
Quote:
Originally posted by Just Jen
I know there is going to be quite a range on this one. Please explain if your answer is #3
It was very recent for me. I lost my virginity when I was 17, didn't do it till after I was married. I never was able to anyone enough to know they would stop if I asked them to. My husband was the first man I could trust. And he even waited 5 years for it. Now I love it.
10/09/2010
ReadyAllTheTime ReadyAllTheTime
I was like 14. I love the way it felt
10/14/2010
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
I think I was about 14 or 15... I lost my virginity when I was 12. I'm just now starting to enjoy anal sex though, it's only taken me about 10 years, lol...
10/22/2010
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Other-37. I have always had trust issues with men and it took me being married to my husband 17 years to realize I could really truly trust him. The day of that epiphany I gave my ass to him. Wow, what an experience for the both of us! It is certainly was more of an emotional experience than either of us expected.
11/18/2010
Fannybutts Fannybutts
19, a few months ago actually. Didn't really want to but it made him happy and I like him being happy.
11/20/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Just Jen
I know there is going to be quite a range on this one. Please explain if your answer is #3
Why is "31 or Hell no, not for me!" in the same group?

My Man and I didn't really start having anal sex (the proper way, not just the "OOPS, I missed!" variety.) until I was in my 30s and he was even older.

Better late than never,

I really don't have any idea why we waited so long. When we were dating, I was a virgin when we met, so everything was new to me. Kids came along and that kind of slows things down for a bit. But, I need to say, we are pretty enthusiastic about it and probably have made up for all the years we never did it.

11/20/2010
Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
Quote:
Originally posted by Fannybutts
19, a few months ago actually. Didn't really want to but it made him happy and I like him being happy.
If you don't really want to you probably shouldn't. Your man should respect your wishes. I think if a guy pushes for it when he knows you don't want to then he is showing that he doesn't really care how you feel about it.
That being said, if it is more a question of being intimidated, but curious, and you are ok with trying it out, GO FOR IT.

I had my first experience when I was 19 and I was of two minds at the time... ew thats my butt and poop comes out of it! and ..... how does it feel though?
The guy I was with was a douche and not really considerate about it, which turned me off of it for a long time.
11/20/2010
cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
Mine is hell no. I have been curious about it but not enough to actually try it yet.

Well, I did try it once with my ex but it wasn't very pleasant because we had no idea what we were doing and he just stuck it in with a little bit of lube... lol
11/20/2010
Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
Quote:
Originally posted by cherryredhead88
Mine is hell no. I have been curious about it but not enough to actually try it yet.

Well, I did try it once with my ex but it wasn't very pleasant because we had no idea what we were doing and he just stuck it in with a little bit of ... More
Yeah that was the way my first time went, but it wasn't my x's first time, he was just a jerk.
11/20/2010
Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
Quote:
Originally posted by cherryredhead88
Mine is hell no. I have been curious about it but not enough to actually try it yet.

Well, I did try it once with my ex but it wasn't very pleasant because we had no idea what we were doing and he just stuck it in with a little bit of ... More
Yeah that was the way my first time went, but it wasn't my x's first time, he was just a jerk.
11/20/2010
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
16.
11/20/2010
SexyTabby SexyTabby
Right around 20ish - right before we went to meetings with the pastor prior to getting married (got married at 21). I distinctly remember the pastor explaining what types of sex were unacceptable even in the marriage bed - anal being on that list. As hubby and I left he put an arm around me and said, "You do realize we're going to Hell right?" We laughed for the longest time
11/20/2010
DustBunny DustBunny
O_O There's no life or chance after 31? Oh noes!. Nah just kidding. I haven't yet, want to try it and be well prepared for it.
11/21/2010
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I picked same age.
11/21/2010
Tart Tart
The first time I had anal I was 19 or 20. I really liked it.
11/26/2010
sbon sbon
Haven't had it. Not sure it's for me.
11/26/2010
Total posts: 85
Unique posters: 77