I'm not just a doll!!!

rockme69 rockme69
I know men like foreplay...SELFISHLY! They love when a woman goes down south on them before, during and or after sex. But sometimes when I want some foreplay done on me, it doesn't happen!! My partner obviously thinks I am a doll that will get wet with the snap of the fingerS and will get after it right away! Anyone else have the same problem??? WHY DO GUYS THINK WE CAN JUST GET TO BANGING LIKE RABBITS RIGHT AWAY?!
05/16/2013
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Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
You're obviously dating the wrong men - really they sound like boys. Up grade your standards and ditch the selfish macho types that currently inhabit your world.
05/16/2013
llellsee llellsee
I would make sure my partner knows how much foreplay is expected from him. Best way of doing that would be to not go along with his selfish approach and have sex only for when you are warmed up and ready.
05/16/2013
Fluke Fluke
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Originally posted by rockme69
I know men like foreplay...SELFISHLY! They love when a woman goes down south on them before, during and or after sex. But sometimes when I want some foreplay done on me, it doesn't happen!! My partner obviously thinks I am a doll that will get ... More
"WHY DO GUYS THINK WE CAN JUST GET TO BANGING LIKE RABBITS RIGHT AWAY?! "

Because that's how men work, we get aroused in the drop of a hat. We'll never fully understand the need of foreplay.

But that doesn't mean that we are allowed to ignore foreplay. If you have a partner that doesn't fulfill your needs after you spell it out for them (as a guy I need very specific, easy to understand instructions) then you need to get a new partner.
05/17/2013
Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
You're obviously dating the wrong men - really they sound like boys. Up grade your standards and ditch the selfish macho types that currently inhabit your world.
LOL!! That's the first thing I thought when I read the post!

Really rockme69, they're not all like that. Some are very good at foreplay and eager to show you just how nice they can make you feel. I call those men Power Trippers, but it's still good. Others actually care enough about their partners that they aren't happy until the other is satisfied (you might think about keeping one of those.) But yes, there are some who are just in it to get their rocks off, and it's best not to indulge them if they can't or won't learn to be more respectful of your needs.

~M
05/17/2013
Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
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Originally posted by Fluke
"WHY DO GUYS THINK WE CAN JUST GET TO BANGING LIKE RABBITS RIGHT AWAY?! "

Because that's how men work, we get aroused in the drop of a hat. We'll never fully understand the need of foreplay.

But that doesn't mean ... More
When you try to go down a waterslide before turning the water on, you'll fully understand the need for foreplay
05/17/2013
Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
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Originally posted by Lildrummrgurl7
When you try to go down a waterslide before turning the water on, you'll fully understand the need for foreplay
LMAO! Perfect comparison!
05/17/2013
Pandora'sBox Pandora'sBox
I have to agree. You're dating the wrong kinds of men. There are men who not only care about your needs, but will actually get turned on by seeing them fulfilled. Stop dating the kinds that only care about themselves and don't bother to reciprocate with you.

Don't be afraid to tell them what you need or want. If he doesn't want to reciprocate or doesn't care even after you tell him, then he's not worth your time.

Have you tried to communicate how you feel about this with your partner? He might not know that you feel this way if you just go along with him each time.
05/23/2013
DixieDoo DixieDoo
My man will do that occasionally, but only when he can't wait or we have to rush for some reason or another. I'm like you, I very much love my foreplay.
05/25/2013
SourAppleMartini SourAppleMartini
It is unlikely that can change your partner's lack of foreplay unless he is a teenager and is new to sex. I suggest to find a new guy... or buy lube at least.
05/25/2013
edeneve edeneve
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Originally posted by rockme69
I know men like foreplay...SELFISHLY! They love when a woman goes down south on them before, during and or after sex. But sometimes when I want some foreplay done on me, it doesn't happen!! My partner obviously thinks I am a doll that will get ... More
I've always had that experience except 1 lover I had many years ago and my latest lover is an exception too.
06/17/2013
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