Feeldoe stout sex toy review
If this is one of your first cocks, you may get used to it easier than I did, as I already know what I like. It is nice to have the option to just slide it in and start fucking, without all the fanfare and preparation of a harness - but frankly, I like the ritual of the harness these days.Give it a try, if you're willing to play with the specifics of this cock - it's got some quirks, but it could be great trade-offs, if the benefits that this cock has seem fun or valuable to you!
Published: April 16, 2008
Pros:
Strap on without a harness! Also, the bulb & a vibrator in the base stimulates the wearer.
Cons:
Lack of control and precision; it slips out unless the wearer is on the bottom or wearing a harness.
I used to have the purple Feeldoe (Feeldoe violet), which is smaller, but I lost it in a breakup - ever since, I've wanted to replace it with the upgrade: the black one, the largest size. I had good memories of the convenience of the cock that didn't need a harness.
When it arrived I was ecstatic, and wore it around the house a bit, trying to get used to the internal PC muscles contracting to keep it strongly gripped. I jacked off, turning on the bullet vibe in the base and rocking it against my clit and labia; it was impressive.
But... when I finally used it with a girl, I was disappointed. I'm used to being able to control my strapped-on cock precisely from my hips, to have specific control over thrusting, speed, circling, depth - everything - and I just couldn't move the way I wanted to without losing the hold on the Feeldoe Stout, since the only way I can keep it gripped is with my own PC muscles.
I was definitely disappointed, and switched after just a few minutes to a different cock.
Now, there are a few things I've done since to make this cock much more useable:
1. I used it with a harness, which of course kept it in place better, but it was a little awkward of an angle, and I found having something inside of me while fucking was actually a little distracting and not something I seek.
2. I stayed on the bottom, with my legs together, and she straddled me - that was quite efficient, though it was still a little inconvenient to have to worry about it slipping out. I'm just not quite used to the angle.
Probably most of the reason this cock is difficult is because it's just different than what I'm used to. I could get used to a few things - the angle, the ways to keep control over it - but what are the benefits? Sex without a harness, and stimulation of the wearer -- neither of which, honestly, are worth the trade-off.
When it arrived I was ecstatic, and wore it around the house a bit, trying to get used to the internal PC muscles contracting to keep it strongly gripped. I jacked off, turning on the bullet vibe in the base and rocking it against my clit and labia; it was impressive.
But... when I finally used it with a girl, I was disappointed. I'm used to being able to control my strapped-on cock precisely from my hips, to have specific control over thrusting, speed, circling, depth - everything - and I just couldn't move the way I wanted to without losing the hold on the Feeldoe Stout, since the only way I can keep it gripped is with my own PC muscles.
I was definitely disappointed, and switched after just a few minutes to a different cock.
Now, there are a few things I've done since to make this cock much more useable:
1. I used it with a harness, which of course kept it in place better, but it was a little awkward of an angle, and I found having something inside of me while fucking was actually a little distracting and not something I seek.
2. I stayed on the bottom, with my legs together, and she straddled me - that was quite efficient, though it was still a little inconvenient to have to worry about it slipping out. I'm just not quite used to the angle.
Probably most of the reason this cock is difficult is because it's just different than what I'm used to. I could get used to a few things - the angle, the ways to keep control over it - but what are the benefits? Sex without a harness, and stimulation of the wearer -- neither of which, honestly, are worth the trade-off.
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I have the purple one now...still trying to get used to keeping it in. While it's meant to give the possibility of harness-free play, I think it's best with a harness.
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i love my purple one, and use it w/a harness most of the time. i love having one end inside me, as i like penetration, too, like knowing we are connected that way, that we can feel the action internally at the same time. i prefer it over "regular" dildos most especially because i am happy not to have a sore pubic bone by the end of it all. i particularly like her blow jobs on me wearing this - yummy!
I've found rope-harnesses sometimes work with the feeldoe better since you can fine-tune the angles a bit more. It takes a bit more time to get it right, but then it's really secure.
I like the part about "jacking off". I've heard a lot of people say they use that technique with the toy and it sounds like a very interesting idea. Thanks for the great review!
great review
thanks for the review :3
Sinclair! My partner and I read your blog all the time. Thank you so much for the review. I am totally interested in getting one of these someday, though our Vac-u-Lock style harness works pretty well, too. Any recommendations for one that is harnessed, but still lets the wearer feel whats going on?
thanks great review
Oh! Sugarbutch! Hello
If it has so many problems falling out, they should make the end bigger then.
Great review, thanks!
Thank you!