Feeldoe stout by Tantus

I used to have the purple Feeldoe (Feeldoe violet), which is smaller, but I lost it in a breakup - ever since, I've wanted to replace it with the upgrade: the black one, the largest size. I had good memories of the convenience of the cock that didn't need a harness.

When it arrived I was ecstatic, and wore it around the house a bit, trying to get used to the internal PC muscles contracting to keep it strongly gripped. I jacked off, turning on the bullet vibe in the base and rocking it against my clit and labia; it was impressive.

But... when I finally used it with a girl, I was disappointed. I'm used to being able to control my strapped-on cock precisely from my hips, to have specific control over thrusting, speed, circling, depth - everything - and I just couldn't move the way I wanted to without losing the hold on the Feeldoe Stout, since the only way I can keep it gripped is with my own PC muscles.

I was definitely disappointed, and switched after just a few minutes to a different cock.

Now, there are a few things I've done since to make this cock much more useable:

1. I used it with a harness, which of course kept it in place better, but it was a little awkward of an angle, and I found having something inside of me while fucking was actually a little distracting and not something I seek.

2. I stayed on the bottom, with my legs together, and she straddled me - that was quite efficient, though it was still a little inconvenient to have to worry about it slipping out. I'm just not quite used to the angle.

Probably most of the reason this cock is difficult is because it's just different than what I'm used to. I could get used to a few things - the angle, the ways to keep control over it - but what are the benefits? Sex without a harness, and stimulation of the wearer -- neither of which, honestly, are worth the trade-off.