Do you mind if your spouse watches porn and masturbates while you are at home in another room?

BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
just wondering if this makes anyone feel bad. or good tell me all you want.
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Yes
ejrbrndps , - Kira - , solitudinarian , hhh , MidnightStorm , sexxxkitten , NavyDoll87 , married with children , emiliaa , Neotigress , funluvinmama , Upyourreviews , no longer here , PropertyOfPotter , Babylove09 , Rossie , Redweird , Oriens Angelic
18  (33%)
No
Boyfriend , squire , Harpina is gone , js250 , Jesyra , FlipMode , Supervixen , damnbul12 , <3BF , BlooJay , CaseyDeuce , deltalima , Lady of the Lab , Alyxx , Missmarc , MzGreenEyedLady , Sammi , MrsHouseWife , Xarien , Zandrock , hem , Nurse Katie , butts , rom323 , Geogeo , Incendiaire , Ansley , Kat and Aaron(aaron) , amazon , Petite Valentine , Kentpachi , Aishiteru , Bignuf , xMila , KrissyNovacaine
35  (64%)
sometimes (why?)
CollegeFun2014 , Lioncub
2  (4%)
Total votes: 55
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10/29/2012
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Boyfriend Boyfriend
I wouldn't mind at all
10/29/2012
squire squire
I wouldn't mind, but my partner would.
10/29/2012
ejrbrndps ejrbrndps
i want to be included
10/29/2012
- Kira - - Kira -
If I'm home, I'm always available for sex. If he's masturbating when I'm home, there's some breakdown occurring. I consider it my job to satisfy his needs when I'm home. If I'm not home, whatever.
10/29/2012
Jesyra Jesyra
He doesn't, but I wouldn't have a problem if he did.
10/29/2012
spineyogurt spineyogurt
I want to watch!
10/29/2012
FlipMode FlipMode
nope
10/29/2012
Supervixen Supervixen
If I were in this situation, and our sex life is healthy and mutually satisfying, I wouldn't mind. I masturbate and don't expect my SO not masturbate because we are together. Sometimes you've just got an itch to scratch, and you want to scratch it. If it happened a lot, or it seemed to happen more than actual sex, then it would be a problem, and we'd need to talk.
10/29/2012
damnbul12 damnbul12
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Originally posted by BrittaniMaree
just wondering if this makes anyone feel bad. or good tell me all you want.
She can masturbate to porn as often as she likes.
10/29/2012
solitudinarian solitudinarian
I'd be kind of shocked if he did this. He doesn't have a great deal of interest in porn.

I do this myself, but I have a higher sex drive than my partner and I often get horny when he's busy playing video games. Unless I couldn't/didn' t want to have sex for some reason (which very rarely happens), I would rather he have sex or engage in mutual masturbation with me. He has 5 days of the week to masturbate when I'm not around.

I wouldn't mind it if we lived together though because I think that masturbation is important.
10/29/2012
<3BF <3BF
As long as you aren't being ignored. I don't see why it would be worse than watching any other TV unless their masturbating prevents you both from having fun together.
10/29/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
I don't mind
10/29/2012
CollegeFun2014 CollegeFun2014
If I was busy and didn't have time to satisfy them then it wouldn't bother me. If I was just watching tv and it happened then I might be a little peeved but nothing major.
10/29/2012
sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
I think it would bother me a little. For some reason, I would feel like he preferred it over me.
10/29/2012
deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by BrittaniMaree
just wondering if this makes anyone feel bad. or good tell me all you want.
He's never done it with me around but I wouldn't care.
10/29/2012
luvslukin luvslukin
I would just love it if my partner watched porn at all. If I was there though and she was watching it I would prefer to watch it with her because hey ... I like watching porn, but if she told me she needed some alone time I would understand.
10/29/2012
NavyDoll87 NavyDoll87
Unless we're watching it together, there is no point in him watching it at home when I'm there.
10/29/2012
Alyxx Alyxx
It wouldn't bother me, although I'd rather watch. Neither one of us watches much porn, though. But usually if we are both home, we'll have sex rather than one of us masturbating, but we do both enjoy a little fun time to ourselves in the shower or bath. We also enjoy catching each other at it, it has led to some very hot sex.
10/29/2012
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by BrittaniMaree
just wondering if this makes anyone feel bad. or good tell me all you want.
nope, I don't mind. I'd offer to join though
10/29/2012
MzGreenEyedLady MzGreenEyedLady
Psh, I wouldn't mind really. But it is a habit, then it might.
10/29/2012
married with children married with children
I would mind. not that she was watching porn or playing with herself, but that she did not invite me to join in.
10/29/2012
emiliaa emiliaa
If I weren't home, whatever. If I were in the other room...come on, at least ask me if I'm in the mood. I also wouldn't date someone who tends to watch porn. Visual doesn't do it for me so we'd be rather incompatible.
10/29/2012
Neotigress Neotigress
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Originally posted by BrittaniMaree
just wondering if this makes anyone feel bad. or good tell me all you want.
I said yes, and this is why...
link
10/29/2012
funluvinmama funluvinmama
I do have a problem with it happening when I am home because I am always open and ready for sex. If he feels he needs to instead of asking me, then he has a problem because I have never denied him. He gets it whenever he wants it.
Even 6 years ago when hubby worked swing shift, I would either wait up for him or wake up when he climbed into bed.
10/30/2012
Xarien Xarien
Quote:
Originally posted by BrittaniMaree
just wondering if this makes anyone feel bad. or good tell me all you want.
I personally don't see a problem with it. Masturbating is fun regardless of whether or not you're in a relationship. A person shouldn't have to wait until their significant other isn't in the house at all if they want a little alone time with themselves.
10/30/2012
MrsHouseWife MrsHouseWife
M sex drive is a lot higher than my husband's, which is something he understands so he has no problem if I masturbate while he is home. On the other side of the coin, because my husband's sex drive is lower, I would be disappointed if he used that drive to masturbate instead of making love with me. BUT I completely understand the desire to masturbate, it is rather personal and sometimes you just need "you" time, so I would never deny him the opportunity.
10/30/2012
Zandrock Zandrock
Nope
10/30/2012
Upyourreviews Upyourreviews
Quote:
Originally posted by BrittaniMaree
just wondering if this makes anyone feel bad. or good tell me all you want.
Yes, because if it's hard I want to ride it!
10/30/2012
butts butts
I don't mind at all! In fact I encourage him to, I bought lube especially for him to keep in his office room and make sure he has toys like his Fleshlight and corn starch for dusting. He can look at all the porn he wants, as long as he shares once in a while Masturbation is healthy, I really do encourage him to do it guilt free any time he feels the need. We've discussed and agreed that sometimes we crave masturbation instead of sex, it's a different experience, or sometimes you just want to get it out of the way and not deal with the process of sex. We're pretty open and fine with it all.
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