Are there any "Daddies and Littles" here?

kendra30752 kendra30752
On another forum I am active in, there was huge discussions about daddies and littles. I read some very... unique things about it and learned that some take it very seriously. They are the child/daughter and their husband/boyfriend is their father. It's no different from a relationship you have with your own father for them, well, except for having sexual relations with them. Are you into this? What are your thoughts about it?
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Yes, I am a little.
24
NO WAY!
76
I am a daddy.
4
No, but I wish I had this kind of relationship.
6
I have had a relationship (daddy/little) in the past.
11
Other.
11
Just let me explain my thoughts in the comments. :)
12
Total votes: 144 (127 voters)
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09/10/2011
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Peggi Peggi
For me, this wouldn't be my cup of tea, I think it would make me feel weird, but I have heard of this, although I don't know much about it.
09/10/2011
Naughty Student Naughty Student
It is not my thing at all. A father daughter relationship with my guy is not our thing at all. I wouldn't feel comfortable, it would be like a weird form of incest to me. Not sure how to describe my overall perspective on it.
09/10/2011
Kkay Kkay
I can't say I'd never try it if I found the right person, but I can't see it working with my current relationship.

It's also not the true thrust of what I want. I think the reason that I find the idea somewhat appealing is because I'm very submissive.
09/10/2011
Ansley Ansley
We've role-played the scenario a few times, but that's about it.
09/10/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
Age regression play is not something that works, psychologically for me. I think it's perfectly fine for people who enjoy it and can deal with it. But, although I have healed from past trauma, I don't really want to play "daddy and little girl" in any way. (FTR, my real father NEVER hurt me, (he's a fine man) but it was someone his age when I was a child.)

We play hard, but we're always adults in our play. But, that's us. Every person is different. NOTHING is wrong if it's safe, sane and consensual.
09/10/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
It's not my thing, but I think it's cause I'd be thinking too much of my father who is an ass.
I just feel more comfy with a Master instead.
09/10/2011
Sir Sir
I am a Daddy. Yeah, I was in a relationship with a little for four years.
09/10/2011
Ryuson Ryuson
Not my thing, but to each their own!
09/10/2011
Illusional Illusional
I have been a Little in a past relationship.
09/10/2011
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
not my thing personally, but i think it's a cool concept for those that make it work
09/10/2011
Sir Sir
Also, let me add, not all Daddy/little dynamics include sex. Some are just that - father and daughter/son, mother and daughter/son. I, however, did engage in sex with my little girl, but that's not always the case.
09/10/2011
Annemarie Annemarie
Quote:
Originally posted by kendra30752
On another forum I am active in, there was huge discussions about daddies and littles. I read some very... unique things about it and learned that some take it very seriously. They are the child/daughter and their husband/boyfriend is their father. ... More
My significant other is 18 years older than I am, meaning he is, in fact, old enough to be my father. We've discussed this a lot, and it skeeves him out intensely. He has 3 daughters, which makes it even creepier to him. Our age difference isn't that big of a deal to either of us, but it does pose some issues sometimes.

I'm a daddy's girl, and I'm very close to my father, but not in that way. So, the idea of having a sexual relationship with a father figure creeps me out too. I already have a father, why do I need another father figure?

So, basically, no, this doesn't interest me in the slightest. If it's your thing, have at it.
09/10/2011
arewehavingfun? arewehavingfun?
When I was 23 I met a man who was 42 at the time. 3 years later we had a son, lived together for 5 more years and then it seemed that we were going nowhere so I told him (once again) that I REALLY wanted to make it legal. Short story long or long story short, we broke up but we do have the cutest little boy!!

OOPS--just realized I misunderstood the question--NO WAY--never with my biological Daddy!!! EWWWW>...
09/10/2011
arewehavingfun? arewehavingfun?
Quote:
Originally posted by Sir
Also, let me add, not all Daddy/little dynamics include sex. Some are just that - father and daughter/son, mother and daughter/son. I, however, did engage in sex with my little girl, but that's not always the case.
How old are you, how old was/is your daughter does it continue and how did it work out/come about? Before we put this sort of thing down, I would like to know more.
09/10/2011
Pixel Pixel
Quote:
Originally posted by arewehavingfun?
When I was 23 I met a man who was 42 at the time. 3 years later we had a son, lived together for 5 more years and then it seemed that we were going nowhere so I told him (once again) that I REALLY wanted to make it legal. Short story long or long ... More
Actual incest isn't what the post is about.

The type of Daddy/girl relationship they are talking about is roleplay, focusing on a male partner and his 'little girl'. Both parties are consenting adults engaging in fantasy, not actual family members engaging in abuse/incest.
09/10/2011
Yaoi Pervette (deleted) Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
My husband is older than me. I was very young when I met him, and people would sometimes mistake him for my father. As a result, I started jokingly calling him "Daddy". I still call him Daddy sometimes. I wouldn't say we actively role play the daddy/little girl thing though.
09/10/2011
Ansley Ansley
Quote:
Originally posted by arewehavingfun?
When I was 23 I met a man who was 42 at the time. 3 years later we had a son, lived together for 5 more years and then it seemed that we were going nowhere so I told him (once again) that I REALLY wanted to make it legal. Short story long or long ... More
I think what Kendra is trying to say is that the dynamics of the relationship are the same as bio-dad/bio-daughter. It's not an actual incestuous relationship between bio-dad/bio-daughter.
09/11/2011
Chaotic Rantings Chaotic Rantings
It would still come off as awkward I would think. That's just me though, to each their own.
09/11/2011
married with children married with children
no way
09/12/2011
JessCee JessCee
I've wanted a relationship like this and always thought I was weird for thinking about it.
09/12/2011
Sir Sir
Quote:
Originally posted by Pixel
Actual incest isn't what the post is about.

The type of Daddy/girl relationship they are talking about is roleplay, focusing on a male partner and his 'little girl'. Both parties are consenting adults engaging in fantasy, not ... More
It's not roleplay. It's a lifestyle/dynamic.

And also, to arewehavingfun: my physical age versus my partner's age is not of importance. It didn't work out, but not because of the dynamic. Mental age was more what mattered, me being in my early to mid-forties, her around eight to thirteen years old. But as Pixel said, she was not my biological child.
09/13/2011
vanillaSpice vanillaSpice
I'm not interested in this at all, but I can sort of understand why people would be. It's just another dynamic of control, being taken care of...
09/17/2011
Anjulie Anjulie
Quote:
Originally posted by Ryuson
Not my thing, but to each their own!
Agreed
09/17/2011
Pixel Pixel
Quote:
Originally posted by Sir
It's not roleplay. It's a lifestyle/dynamic.

And also, to arewehavingfun: my physical age versus my partner's age is not of importance. It didn't work out, but not because of the dynamic. Mental age was more what mattered, me ... More
I misspoke, sorry.

It's been my experience that with the few Daddy/girl dynamics I've seen, most have been an 'every so often' type thing, not something that defines their relationship.
09/17/2011
hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
Not my thing at all. I've got a very strong relationship with my real father, though definitely nothing even remotely incestuous. His wife (my mother passed away when I was little) has sometimes accused me of being his "other wife", but both of us find that idea beyond disgusting. The inherent repulsion I felt when my stepmother suggested that there was anything inappropriate between my actual father and me would probably still be there with someone I was only pretending was my father.

Also, I wasn't a little girl mentally even when I was physically, so I'd be a very bad little.
09/17/2011
cheetahpita cheetahpita
not my thing... I would find it very awkward.
09/18/2011
geliebt geliebt
Not my thing. The idea of anything somewhat incestuous definitely turns me off, personally.
09/19/2011
carenautilus carenautilus
Not my thing, though I do understand the appeal of the dynamic. But I would like to point out that there are also Mommies and littles.
09/19/2011
DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
Quote:
Originally posted by Pixel
Actual incest isn't what the post is about.

The type of Daddy/girl relationship they are talking about is roleplay, focusing on a male partner and his 'little girl'. Both parties are consenting adults engaging in fantasy, not ... More
Daddy/girl doesn't necessarily have to be a male partner and a female partner.

There are many ways to engage in the D/g dynamic, and a male-bodied/female-bod ied partner is not required.



And, as spockface said, there are other dynamics that are similar, like Mommy/boy, Mommy/girl, Daddy/boy, etc.
09/19/2011
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