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Last update Votes Topic # of posts Started by Started
08/29/2023 Needle play
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sugarOne 08/28/2010
08/31/2022 What exactly are the benefits of having a master slave relationship outside of sex.
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Kenneth Fort 10/22/2012
12/09/2021 Have you ever wanted to read a REAL BDSM contract?
25
Tessa Taboo 10/26/2012
05/15/2021 Have you ever cum from impact play alone?
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spineyogurt 05/19/2012
10/03/2020   (59) When did you first have kinky sex?
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Zandrock 07/18/2012
07/10/2020   (61) Sadists/Dominants/Tops : Do you get sexually aroused when spanking, flogging, whipping, caning, etc?
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CandidKinkster 05/01/2011
04/18/2020   (119) Does anyone else have a problem with 'Fifty Shades of Grey'?
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Aesenthia 09/29/2014
03/03/2020 who introduced you to bdsm?
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xcapricax 05/16/2013
02/23/2020   (39) Safe Words
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TheToyGuy 09/11/2015
02/10/2020   (24) Do you like to wrestle/play-fight your partner?
23
mxmx 05/11/2016
02/06/2020   (24) Bells or no bells on nipple clamps?
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Eeyore 11/25/2012
02/02/2020 Pain and Pleasure
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chicmichiw 12/17/2012
12/26/2019 What are your Hard Limits?
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mailroomorder 04/18/2013
12/10/2019   (21) Even if you are not into bondage. Do you think you would enjoy being bound arms and legs and. than given a orgasm? Not sex just you getting a orgasm via toys, mouth. Hands etc
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Mistress Stefana 02/08/2017
12/05/2019   (131) What is your pain pleasure level?
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Darklyvan 11/25/2011
11/06/2019   (77) Do you do wax play?
64
HisLittleFiend 01/12/2013
06/19/2019   (24) Have you ever tried Tantric Sex?
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Bittenflame 05/28/2012
02/14/2019 what names are some submissives called?
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babypinecone 05/08/2011
10/08/2018 Dirty Talk...
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Horny & Holy 03/19/2010
10/04/2018 Is sissy and offensive word?
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Modern^Spank^Anthem 05/30/2012
10/03/2018 Looking for Dominatrix ideas
7
scarlettbear 06/05/2013
09/01/2018   (10) What is more common being a top (dominant/sadist), Bottom(submissive/maso chist) or Switch(sadomasochist)?
7
Mistress Lizzie 02/13/2018
02/07/2018   (108) Have you or would you ever try fisting?
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kaykay0427 01/17/2013
01/30/2018 Dominate/Submisive
5
merc41 12/28/2017
01/16/2018 Spanking
10
DownTheRabbitHole 12/04/2017
01/16/2018   (82) Do you identify as Dominant or submissive?
56
ToriMae 03/12/2015
01/01/2018 Help! Restraint newby!
4
Sexual bliss 12/30/2017
01/01/2018   (19) What is your favorite types of after care?
5
missymery 09/18/2016
12/30/2017 Are there any fetishes that bother you?
49
sillylilkitten 02/23/2013
12/22/2017 Sensory deprivation...
7
Mama88 11/03/2017
12/22/2017 Spitting on?
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kristenxoxo13 02/17/2015
12/22/2017 depression after orgasam
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Super Pink Cheeks 04/23/2016
12/16/2017 Did anyone learn BDSM may be for them because they need an "outlet" to relax
7
Vnessa 11/25/2014
12/13/2017 Bottoms: Would you top for a partner?
27
Billie Bones 07/22/2012
12/04/2017 Electrical safety
5
Mistress Lizzie 11/21/2017
12/04/2017 Dom or sub?
16
Madi2013 02/12/2017
11/21/2017 Golden Showers?
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Sugarfina 09/20/2016
07/28/2017 BDSM what it means to you.
20
TheToyGuy 09/26/2015
03/25/2017   (427) Have you cried during sex? Have you had sex while the other person cried? You can select only one. Private voting.
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Nickisonehere 05/13/2009
03/24/2017 Topping from the bottom
5
Aesenthia 10/07/2014
02/26/2017 Is it safe/ok to introduce something new as a gag for humor and see what a partner thinks of it?
6
GingerMeggie 02/25/2017
01/30/2017 erotic asphyxiation
6
Jmo2280 09/23/2014
12/30/2016   (199) When is it to much?
42
TwatMockery 04/11/2014
08/23/2016 How do you let a new sex partner know you are into BDSM?
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CS2012 11/24/2014
08/13/2016 Resources for introducing a partner to BDSM
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phoenixrising28 02/08/2016
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