Spanking

Spanking

DownTheRabbitHole DownTheRabbitHole
Hi guys I've never tried spanking or anything like that before, but I was curious about something and was wondering if any other ladies out there would satisfy my curiosity? For those of you that do enjoy being spanked, do you prefer it with nothing inside you, something inside your vagina, and/or something in your ass? I just thought that the different places would have different sensations, and I wanted to know which ones you guys prefer so I can make a more informed decision later on if the opportunity presents itself.
12/04/2017
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Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Originally posted by DownTheRabbitHole
Hi guys I've never tried spanking or anything like that before, but I was curious about something and was wondering if any other ladies out there would satisfy my curiosity? For those of you that do enjoy being spanked, do you prefer it with ...
Spanking is one of my favorite things to do in bed (or in the kitchen/bathroom/almos t anywhere it can be done legally, lol )

Like many other people, we've started with the bare hand. Now we're always adding something more special, like crops and floggers. I recently bought kegel balls and they really add to the whole experience, making me ready for the main action as fast as 1-2-3. They are weighted so when my BD spanks me they jiggle inside...Such an ah-mazing feeling!
12/06/2017
MissKee MissKee
I prefer to be the one delivering the spankings, but I've been on the bottom end (heh) quite a few times. If you're eliciting spankings from a partner that's new to impact play/spanking, please start with the hand only! This gives the spanker a much better understanding of how much force they are imparting on the bum. Their hand will sting much less than your tush, but it helps bridge the gap of understanding.

Egg-style vibrators are a good pairing with spankings, as are buttplugs - if you're in the mood for more intensity. A swift smack on it can be very intense though, so start easy! I would strongly suggest going with an external wand-style vibrator, with the recipient laying on their stomach.

Hands-free panty-style vibrators would also be a great fit if you are really looking for that over-the-knee spanking~
12/06/2017
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Nothing inside and gentle barehanded. Don't mind a little red but don't want it to hurt. Best part is when he kisses my cheeks to make it all better
12/07/2017
Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Nothing inside and gentle barehanded. Don't mind a little red but don't want it to hurt. Best part is when he kisses my cheeks to make it all better
Passionate & Gentle - a perfect mix, imho
12/12/2017
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
This is definitely a balance. My wife only rarely wants any impact play - but when she does, I know to be gentle.

As for me - I prefer it harder - red skin and maybe a few marks.

However, neither of us like the bare hand approach. Paddles, floggers, slappers all enter the picture. IMO it isn't that difficult to figure how hard is too hard or not enough.

The simple formula is to start light then add or subtract force in response to your partner's clues - or even overt requests. As always, communication is the key to success - with spanking or any other human endeavor.
12/13/2017
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
he came a little too soon last night just when I was getting close.
This morning I gave him a few smacks ykw. .

He promised to do better tonight. I told him, he better. Otherwise I would show him how it's done. The Boss might have to come out to play this weekend
12/15/2017
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
he came a little too soon last night just when I was getting close.
This morning I gave him a few smacks ykw. .

He promised to do better tonight. I told him, he better. Otherwise I would show him how it's done. The Boss might have ...
Sounds like fun will be had by all

Give'm what for

As for me, I plan to be drenched by my gushing queen

Obliging D that she is, I should have a few marks to remember her generosity tomorrow
12/15/2017
dominatrixNY dominatrixNY
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Originally posted by DownTheRabbitHole
Hi guys I've never tried spanking or anything like that before, but I was curious about something and was wondering if any other ladies out there would satisfy my curiosity? For those of you that do enjoy being spanked, do you prefer it with ...
Sometimes i love to get spanked over the knee but he has to play with me at the same time. Sometimes i like when he is inside my vagina and than spanking my butt
Jan 16, 11:23 am
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by dominatrixNY
Sometimes i love to get spanked over the knee but he has to play with me at the same time. Sometimes i like when he is inside my vagina and than spanking my butt
With the latter, so do we. Especially in doggie. ..for both of us.
Do you ever paddle him in missionary? Uk, for slowing down or taking a break
Jan 16, 1:11 pm
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