I'm trying to ascertain how often there is a sexual component in inflicting pain on bottoms.
Sadists/Dominants/Tops : Do you get sexually aroused when spanking, flogging, whipping, caning, etc?
05/01/2011
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I know my guy likes the idea of leaving marks. I think that's the main reason he does stuff that causes pain.
05/01/2011
My husband who is my Dom, loves our flogger, the feeling of it in his hand, the marks it leaves on me, the sound of it as it smacks against my skin. Yes, Im not the only one who gets aroused by such, he enjoys it very much.
05/14/2011
Yes, always.
05/14/2011
My partner is the dominant one in our relationship and he is very much a sadist.
It not only turns him on, it satisfies part of his sexual appetite that absolutely nothing else can.
It not only turns him on, it satisfies part of his sexual appetite that absolutely nothing else can.
07/19/2011
So far we're only into light play, but I always get turned on with being spanked. Love it!
07/20/2011
As a bottom I get sexually aroused. I know my partner enjoys sadism. I can't speak to the intricacies of his experience, but he does get pleasure out of it.
07/25/2011
I do love a good spanking! It's not so much the pain I enjoy, but seeing her reaction.
07/25/2011
I adore it.
07/25/2011
Sometimes it's just so exciting to see the surprise and pleasure in her face when she's having her hair pulled, being whipped, spanked, etc. It is definitely exciting.
04/03/2012
My partner enjoys it, and so do I.
04/04/2012
Loveeee itttt
07/07/2012
sometimes my partner likes to get slapped or spanked (in various areas, not just the butt), it's super hot. :0
07/07/2012
Pretty much every time, there have been a few times where it hasn't happened but 9 times out of 10.
07/07/2012
Kind of, though for me I think it's mostly about the control, rather than the pain
07/08/2012
We switch for each other. We both prefer to be bottoms actually. So I do not get a kick out of topping per se. I just get a kick out of seeing her enjoy it. Still lots of fun, just no added fun from say oral or fingering or massaging.
07/08/2012
I have always enjoyed a bit of spanking but not the kind that inflicts too much pain.
07/23/2012
Always. The feeling of control, my partner's reactions, and everything else are an incredible rush.
07/24/2012
My top says he loves to see me helpless. I think it's more my reactions than actually inflicting pain.
01/02/2013
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Usually, yes!
Originally posted by
CandidKinkster
I'm trying to ascertain how often there is a sexual component in inflicting pain on bottoms.
01/02/2013
I have a spanking fetish!
01/02/2013
Always to some degree, but not always to a really intense degree -- it depends on what I'm doing.
01/02/2013
My top loves to spank me.
01/02/2013
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Hah, this.
Originally posted by
chicagobearsfan
My top says he loves to see me helpless. I think it's more my reactions than actually inflicting pain.
01/02/2013
Depends on how much pleasure from the pain she is getting
01/02/2013
I have before, and if my partner is enjoying it then I am receiving pleasure.
01/03/2013
He seems to enjoy it (I certainly do) but I've never straight up asked - do you like this? He suggests that we do it though
02/12/2013
It turns me on, but in a background sort of way. I'm usually concentrating too much on making sure my sub is doing okay and enjoying herself and i don't think about if I'm aroused or not until afterwards.
02/16/2013
I absolutely love her little moans and whimpers when I flog her. Her moans are half enjoyment, half pain (that's just the right amount)
It does get me very aroused. As long as I'm in my dom mood. If I'm in a sub mood, it just makes me jealous!
It does get me very aroused. As long as I'm in my dom mood. If I'm in a sub mood, it just makes me jealous!
02/16/2013
Sometimes, it depends on how worked up I am before he starts laying into me. When I get to play dominant, it does turn me on a bit!
02/17/2013
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