Bottoms: Would you top for a partner?

Contributor: Billie Bones Billie Bones
If they asked you real nice...or real mean.
07/22/2012
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Contributor: Vanille Vanille
Sure, the control dynamic would still be there regardless.
07/23/2012
Contributor: Boyqueen Boyqueen
I'd be willing to, sure. Like Vanille said, even if I'm on top I can still be the sub in the relationship/in the act.
07/23/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
Sure, but not CONSTANTLY.
07/23/2012
Contributor: AriaRN AriaRN
I would!
07/23/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
I do occasionally. It's sexy seeing him enjoy pain.
07/23/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
I have when asked because, well, I was asked so I kinda have to. Hate doing it though. I make a shitty top. I don't know what to say or do and can't get in that headspace or whatever to dominate someone in the bedroom. I try my best, but just meh. Plus I don't get much of anything out of seeing my husband tied up. I'm even worse at dishing out pain. If he flinches I get all "OMG are you okay?!" Luckily I don't get asked to top very often. LOL
07/23/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
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Originally posted by - Kira -
I have when asked because, well, I was asked so I kinda have to. Hate doing it though. I make a shitty top. I don't know what to say or do and can't get in that headspace or whatever to dominate someone in the bedroom. I try my best, but ... more
Lol, I'm a bit like this too, but I'm getting better at it... I think.
07/23/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
I consistently do.
07/23/2012
Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
i would Top my Mistress if She told me to, however, i wouldn't be totally comfortable. And, let's make a clear distinction here between Topping and Dominating. i would not be willing Dominate my Mistress. i would have to consider that a hard limit, i would have to safeword if She made that request. i like O/our power dynamic and wouldn't want to disrupt it. Hitting Her or using some toy or otherwise giving a sensation(s) that She desires and requests would not disrupt O/our dynamic. If i asserted Dominance or Control with Her, it woud. In O/our relationship, at times i do penetrate Her or wear a strap on with Her so some would consider that Topping, though it's not in my head. In any more serious play, i would be more comfortable Topping someone else, with my Mistress's consent and permission, of course. Though, my skill set as a Top is minimal so i would require some instruction and practice and would be very careful to stay at my skill level.
07/23/2012
Contributor: John E W John E W
Sure I would! I'm a top but I would bottom as well. I love the feeling
07/23/2012
Contributor: remember.me remember.me
I am not sure that I could... I might try but I am just not into that really...
07/23/2012
Contributor: Faeya Faeya
Not only would I, but I have. Dragon, while normally the Dom in our relationship, is a sometimes switch, as am I. So, sometimes, when the mood strikes, I 'serve' him by Topping him.
07/24/2012
Contributor: HippieFeet HippieFeet
Yes I would
07/25/2012
Contributor: Kaleb Kaleb
I could try my hand at it. And I may have to soon. My boyfriend is on the submissive side of switch, but he tops for me.
07/25/2012
Contributor: A Good Girl A Good Girl
Quote:
Originally posted by Billie Bones
If they asked you real nice...or real mean.
Yes, I would..
02/08/2013
Contributor: WordsmithingImp WordsmithingImp
Oh certainly. My favorite version of topping for a partner, actually, is when a dominant/toppy partner sends me to top someone else for them. It's like being a viscious attack pet.
02/09/2013
Contributor: novanilla novanilla
I'm a switch, so yeah
02/10/2013
Contributor: hall5885 hall5885
I would
02/11/2013
Contributor: Genderfree Genderfree
I'm a switch. Sometimes I'm in a sub mood and she is, too, so I'll sacrifice and top.
02/16/2013
Contributor: palindromic palindromic
I generally bottom with my boo, but I'm technically a switch. Topping is also goodtimes!
02/16/2013
Contributor: Dear Ruby Dear Ruby
Sure, I do all the time. I'm more about the activities involved, not so much about who's controlling things during any given encounter.
02/19/2013
Contributor: lolisadist lolisadist
My sub won't but that doesn't bother me anyways. But i'm sure there are some who will
03/10/2013
Contributor: subrosa873 subrosa873
Quote:
Originally posted by Billie Bones
If they asked you real nice...or real mean.
I would. I'm not asked often, but I do if it's what my partner needs.
11/19/2017
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by subrosa873
I would. I'm not asked often, but I do if it's what my partner needs.
This is pretty true for me as well. When we first started to play with D/s roles - we switched a lot. But soon it became clear that I prefer the s role, so my girl has been honing her D skills - and I'm happy to say gets better at it every time.

She has occasionally tried to switch - but it didn't work out too well. But if she wants to switch - I do my best.
11/19/2017
Contributor: Geography Geography
I am dealing with this now in my relationship. My SO wants me to do things that are more dominant than I typically like. It's interesting exploring the power dynamic, but I always feel like an impostor when we switch. It doesn't come naturally to me in the bedroom.
12/06/2017
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Geography
I am dealing with this now in my relationship. My SO wants me to do things that are more dominant than I typically like. It's interesting exploring the power dynamic, but I always feel like an impostor when we switch. It doesn't come ... more
I can understand your point of view. I suspect that many times my wife feels the same.

One way we cope with the dichotomy - is that she's learned to use her D role to command that I 'service' her. The result is typically that she can lay back and let me 'do my job' and enjoy repeated orgasms. So even though she starts out as the D - she doesn't have to 'drive' all night long.
12/13/2017