Are there any fetishes that bother you?

Contributor: sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
Not including any illegal fetishes, are there any that just the thought of them makes you uncomfortable? While I know that YKINMK and that what happens between consenting adults is up to them, there are certain kinks that just thinking about them makes me shudder. For example, any breeding or pregnancy fetishes, erotica about slave markets, and anything involving needle play, burning, or drawing blood make me really uncomfortable. What about you, are there fetishes that disturb you?
02/23/2013
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Contributor: deltalima deltalima
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Originally posted by sillylilkitten
Not including any illegal fetishes, are there any that just the thought of them makes you uncomfortable? While I know that YKINMK and that what happens between consenting adults is up to them, there are certain kinks that just thinking about them ... more
I hate feet fetishes.
02/23/2013
Contributor: Mitzuki Mitzuki
Pregnancy fetishes really make me cringe. I just don't understand them. There's a BABY in there. -shudder-
02/24/2013
Contributor: LexiKitten LexiKitten
Pregnancy and bodily excrement play. Like, stop. Just stop.
02/24/2013
Contributor: hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
I don't get excrement at all. It's so unsanitary at the very least.

And bondage masks. They're so creepy.
02/24/2013
Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
Pregnancy,excrement and bodily fluids that are not semen or spit and feet fetish. Those make me shudder.
02/25/2013
Contributor: glassdoll glassdoll
I try very hard to live by the YKINMK motto but needles, blood stuff, feet touching, hoods, etc, just make my skin crawl and while it's awesome that someone else gets off on it, I'd just rather not discuss it, y'know?
02/25/2013
Contributor: Rub My Ducky Rub My Ducky
Blood and scat... Ack! Not big on hoods either, or anything creepy really. BDSM can be intense and enjoyable without reenacting a horror movie.
02/26/2013
Contributor: GONE! GONE!
No, only fetishes I'm not into.
02/26/2013
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Blood, poop, pee, pregnancy and probably more I can't think of.
02/26/2013
Contributor: phoenixfire phoenixfire
Scat, water sports, vomit and--probably needles, now that I think about it. (Shrugs). I have a tattoo now, and getting it didn't bother me at the time, but all I can say is I was a different person then.
02/26/2013
Contributor: kdlt kdlt
Illegal ones bother me. Aside from that, I can pretty much understand and be okay with all of them. Scat and vomit are the most off-putting ones though.
02/26/2013
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
Pregnancy ones bother me. During the time I was pregnant I took time off the sites I was on because I know how people get with that. I did not want to deal with it. Illegal ones bother me and scat and vomit. As for any of the others they don't bother me and I have seen some crazy stuff being on the sites.
02/26/2013
Contributor: gwenevieve gwenevieve
No fetishes bother me. Illegal ones, obviously, but I try to never kink shame.

It's just that, nobody can control what they are attracted to, it's just written in your DNA like that. Nobody can help it, a lot of people don't even like that they're attracted to some things.
02/26/2013
Contributor: falalena falalena
Quote:
Originally posted by sillylilkitten
Not including any illegal fetishes, are there any that just the thought of them makes you uncomfortable? While I know that YKINMK and that what happens between consenting adults is up to them, there are certain kinks that just thinking about them ... more
pregnancy, bodily fluids not naturally produced via arousal.
02/26/2013
Contributor: Tigerlily808 Tigerlily808
pregnancy, needles, and those hoods. More power to those who get off on it though. Do your thing
03/08/2013
Contributor: AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
I think I will ALWAYS be uncomfortable around needles. The breeding one makes me nervous too.
03/08/2013
Contributor: sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
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Originally posted by gwenevieve
No fetishes bother me. Illegal ones, obviously, but I try to never kink shame.

It's just that, nobody can control what they are attracted to, it's just written in your DNA like that. Nobody can help it, a lot of people don't even ... more
Exactly. As I said, I have no interest in kink shaming and find the idea of doing so to be rude and unnecessary, and I know that YKINMK, but people can't help being disturbed by some things that disturb them. Just like people can't really control what they're attracted to, they also can't really control what they're disturbed by. There's a difference between admitting that something bothers you and trying to shame someone for liking something you don't.
03/09/2013
Contributor: Roz W Roz W
Penis-in-vagina sex, receiving anal, having someone else dress me up, calling someone Master...these are all things that I have no desire to do, personally, and if someone wanted me to do them, I'd be really uncomfortable.

And group sex of any kind makes me REALLY uncomfortable.

But to each their own, I guess :p

[Note: these things are true, but also meant to be ironic, k?]
03/10/2013
Contributor: lolisadist lolisadist
nothing is worse than scat fetish imo
03/10/2013
Contributor: novanilla novanilla
piss, shit, vomit...basically the gross ones.

I'm also really creeped out by school girl. I won't say anything to anyone who does it, but it really weirds me out. I know it is a common fantasy, but I think that's because it has been socialized as sexual, and the fact that that happened is really screwed up to me. High school girls are not sexy to me nor should they be to anyone else who is not in high school!
03/11/2013
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
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Originally posted by LexiKitten
Pregnancy and bodily excrement play. Like, stop. Just stop.
I agree LexiKitten!!!! EWWWWWWWWWW!!!
03/11/2013
Contributor: bettyboom bettyboom
I think the bodily fluids ones mostly. And illegal ones. Of course, lol
03/12/2013
Contributor: fizzygato fizzygato
None really. Maybe people + animal play. Not that I've ever seen it done, but I've read about it, and it seemed bad
03/12/2013
Contributor: Silverwinds Silverwinds
I only just found out what vore is, and I'm pretty sure I cringed for a full minute.
03/12/2013
Contributor: potstickers potstickers
Lolita fetishes bother me.
03/12/2013
Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
If it's consenting adults, i don't have an issue with it. There's some things i can't watch and am not into but i'm not necessarily bothered. And i certainly would never judge someone for being into it. If i see something on a site or at a party that i don't like, i just pass by it. Face fucking, by which i mean full on forcing a cock (real or fake) down some one's throat, for example, is something i can't really stomach watching. There was a scene of just this at a BDSM play party i attended and i had to walk away. The two people involved in the scene are lovely people who both had a grand old time with the activity and were very happy and i wish them all the best, just couldn't watch. Incidentally, since attending more parties, there's fetishes that i thought i wouldn't have been able to watch that, when i saw people really enjoying them, were better than i thought they would be. Might still not be my cup of tea, still might not actually engage in it myself, but i have been able to watch and appreciate things i wouldn't have expected to.
04/30/2013
Contributor: Pierced Blaqk Skies Pierced Blaqk Skies
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Originally posted by bettyboom
I think the bodily fluids ones mostly. And illegal ones. Of course, lol
Basically these. And the pregnancy one because that scares me. I also can't get into needle play or blood play.

To each their own.
04/30/2013
Contributor: sunflower sunflower
Scat and needles. I have a fear of both?

Human feces grosses me out more than anything for some reason. To the point that I do not want to unclog someone else's toilet or get near or look at their shit in a toilet. Poop is gross and not in a hot taboo way. More like a 'oh god how unsanitary gross get it away' thing.

I've been scared of needles all my life and I will literally pass out if I have to watch someone get their blood drawn. Yeah, that happened once. It isn't even the blood part because I'm down with blod, it's just the fact that it's coming out of a needle and into a tube. Cringe. Just seeing a needle breaking skin is enough to make me shudder. I freak out when I have to get shots and stuff. I can get them done fine if I'm not looking at it though. I am neurotic?


Those are my major squicks but other things are usually ok. The pregnancy thing is just kind of puzzling to me and the slave market thing is kind of questionable and I don't enjoy it but that's a YKINMK thing. Pretty much everything else except those 2.
04/30/2013
Contributor: joolie joolie
Scat,vomit, illegal stuff skeeve me out. I've become uncomfortable with the school girl and Lolita fetishes because my daughter was victimized as a child and she is having a hard time of things. I have never heard of a breeding fetish and not sure I want to know. Breast milk fetishes are baffling,I mean, an infant needs that stuff,what kind of person would take a baby's nourishment?
05/01/2013