Remember your first dates? When you kissed longer than you talked, and it was all you needed. Now it’s different, and making out inevitably leads to sex. Well, try holding on as long as you can, without letting your innocent making out session turn into something hotter. Tease and please, massage each other with hands or a powerful wand vibrator - and compete in not ripping each other's clothes off for longer than half an hour.
Your typical dinner date is romantic, sexually charged and, let’s be honest, may get boring. Even knowing that sex awaits when you get home, you can ruin the sexy mood by eating too much or starting a dull conversation. Spice up your night and start the foreplay while still at the restaurant. Make your lady wear a vibrating panty, maintain your poker faces and keep the remote close - you’ll see how much she will enjoy her appetizers.
Another memory of innocent days - a quickie so rapid you don’t even have time to undress. Now dare each other to recreate that spark, but remember - no stripping down!. Experiment with adding your clothes into the sexual equation and using them for sensory play or go for sexual lingerie, which has strategic holes in all the right places to keep the idea alive.
Looking your lover in the eyes while having sex - the most intimate thing in the world. Looking them in the eyes while they play with themselves - a special treat. Grab a revved up rabbit for her and a smooth sleeve for him and get cozy. No touching, no taking over each other’s toys until one of your climaxes - you just sit in front of each other and put on an orgasmic show. It liberates, strengthens the bond, and results in wild sexy time right after.
Imagine switching off the sounds of your sexy time. No grunts, no moans. You’ll have to “listen” to your SO with your body, catch their moves and facial expressions. It’s exciting to explore each other without tips or guidance - testing your knowledge and deepening the intimate bond. Wear a ball gag to ensure silence and add a little kink to your silent game.
Depriving your partner of one of their senses is an excellent idea that allows experiencing many additional fringes of pleasure. But why not take it to a whole new level and have fun with both of you wearing blindfolds? Your senses will peak, you’ll feel every breath or shiver ten times brighter, the body you know and love will seem new. Needless to say, the climax in the dark is a real burst of light.
If you’re living together, surprise oral is way more bonding and significant than an occasional love note on the fridge door. Make a deal that, throughout the week, morning after morning, each of you will wake the other up with a mouthful of pleasure. Keep a flavored lube and an oral vibrator by the bed to be sure your surprise goes smoothly and orgasmically. If one day you wake up at the same time, skip the oral play and go straight to the main course.