Is it safe/ok to introduce something new as a gag for humor and see what a partner thinks of it?

Is it safe/ok to introduce something new as a gag for humor and see what a partner thinks of it?

GingerMeggie GingerMeggie
I have wanted to try a crop for ages. I would prefer to be on the receiving end of this but I doubt my boyfriend would go for it right off the bat so to speak. Has anyone ever tried implementing something like this as a humorous gag just to sort of have the item around and then been able to suggest playing with it? I just want to get one. Just looking at them is exciting. But I don't know if he would run the other way or call me crazy when I got it home. I think if I got a softer one that mostly just made noise it would be better to introduce it to him but for myself, I want something that stings because I am odd like that and I like it. I used to work as a cook/chef/kitchen help. I burned my hands grabbing hot pots and pans so many times, the sting became really exciting.
Feb 25, 1:01 pm
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OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by GingerMeggie
I have wanted to try a crop for ages. I would prefer to be on the receiving end of this but I doubt my boyfriend would go for it right off the bat so to speak. Has anyone ever tried implementing something like this as a humorous gag just to sort of ...
I think yes. People test the waters all the time. You maybe you could do something wrong or burn dinner. Then hand him the crop and bend over. If he doesn't react, pull your pants down
Feb 25, 2:07 pm
GingerMeggie GingerMeggie
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
I think yes. People test the waters all the time. You maybe you could do something wrong or burn dinner. Then hand him the crop and bend over. If he doesn't react, pull your pants down
LMAO I don't know yet. I don't feel like I could just go up to him like that. I would have to bring it in as a joke and pretend it was a gag first. I am gonna start shopping for one again soon.
mwahahaha I would not go out of my way to burn dinner. But I will be starting a new job as a security guard next week and I will probably work late and be scatterbrained and do something dumb to wreck it again. earlier this week I was supposed to make him chicken tacos. he got breakfast burritos instead cuz I was exhausted and wrecked the chicken and we didn't have any more for me to fix it. I make enough mistakes Ill find something too easily. Mwahahaha
Feb 25, 6:10 pm
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by GingerMeggie
I have wanted to try a crop for ages. I would prefer to be on the receiving end of this but I doubt my boyfriend would go for it right off the bat so to speak. Has anyone ever tried implementing something like this as a humorous gag just to sort of ...
When I wanted to ease in to floggers with my husband, but wasn't sure how he would react, I found some very thrilling YouTube posts demonstrating how to use them. Then I texted them to him to get a sense on how willing he would be to trying it. The message read: Time to start practicing (or something like that lol). When I didn't get any discouraging comments I ordered one right up
Feb 25, 9:26 pm
GingerMeggie GingerMeggie
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Originally posted by Vnessa
When I wanted to ease in to floggers with my husband, but wasn't sure how he would react, I found some very thrilling YouTube posts demonstrating how to use them. Then I texted them to him to get a sense on how willing he would be to trying it. ...
my dearest is sort of prude in a lot of ways. He doesn't watch porn and I don't think he would be very happy if I did or started sending him videos like that. yes I know it sounds strange. guy not being big into porn. I am not crazy about it but I haven't been around much porn since hanging out with friends in highschool. lol. I was more fun back then. Him being so prude is part of why just suggesting it or asking for it is difficult. if it were anyone else even just a friend I think I could ask for it no problem. with my friends in highschool, we would do the dorky teen thing and just go scrounge for enough change to pool together to see a movie or loiter and wander around the mall unattended. we made a habit of about five or six of us just going into a certain adult gift store, getting their cheap paddles crops floggers and ticklers off the shelves and doing some product testing standing in a circle by the store window. I had one friend we had been besties since elementary school and she had same red hair as me. we were never attracted to each other but in those times she had an amazing technique for spanking with her bare hand and was awesome with the crop and paddles. it was mostly to be obnoxious for shock value but usually the people working in the store would laugh at us a little while and then ask us to stop when some of us seemed to be enjoying it too much.
Feb 26, 10:23 am
GingerMeggie GingerMeggie
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Originally posted by Vnessa
When I wanted to ease in to floggers with my husband, but wasn't sure how he would react, I found some very thrilling YouTube posts demonstrating how to use them. Then I texted them to him to get a sense on how willing he would be to trying it. ...
But then, in regards to your mention of the videos, maybe they're not exactly porn if its just demos/tutorials. I don't want him to catch me with stuff like that on my phone. However, Maybe he would be more fun with a crop if he did.... I have asked if I /We could make a porn before for fun for us and that was a hard no. His answer was you can bye. As for a crop, I already ordered one thru eden this morning when he left for work. Now I'm just worried what he's gonna say when it shows up in the mail. Hey Mr.John, this is what happens when your girlfriend lands a new job, leaves the old one and has a whole week off before the work starts: she gets a whole slew of new sex toys you usually don't want to play with. Hooray! Most of the time I sneak off with new toys before he sees the package in the mail but he's seen them show up a couple times. its always awkward. Toys of most sorts are not usually his thing. would love to just crouch on the floor with it in my mouth after it gets here and wait for him to walk in from work but for some reason I am not sure how he would respond to that. probably too much too fast for him.
Feb 26, 10:41 am
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