What is more common being a top (dominant/sadist), Bottom(submissive/maso chist) or Switch(sadomasochist)?

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What is more common being a top (dominant/sadist), Bottom(submissive/maso chist) or Switch(sadomasochist)?

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Contributor: Mistress Lizzie Mistress Lizzie
Please feel free to add any comments or personal opinions Id love to hear them about the different characteristics of BDSM
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02/13/2018
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Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Originally posted by Mistress Lizzie
Please feel free to add any comments or personal opinions Id love to hear them about the different characteristics of BDSM
Hey, a good post here!
I can say that earlier I'd rather prefer the second option. Today I like to switch.

How about you?
02/14/2018
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I am really mostly a bottom - but my wife deserves a break from being in control, so I take over - mostly to give her some 'stress free' orgasms during the week!

Side joke - anytime she didn't sleep well, I tease her about needing more orgasms. And anecdotally it's true. After giving her a good session multiple orgasms - there's no way she doesn't sleep like a lamb!
02/14/2018
Contributor: Luna Reign Luna Reign
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Originally posted by Lena Eden
Hey, a good post here!
I can say that earlier I'd rather prefer the second option. Today I like to switch.

How about you?
I prefer option one and my bf prefers option 2 so we go with option 3 and decided who has the most energy that day and who needs to be top or bottom. LOL
02/15/2018
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Luna Reign
I prefer option one and my bf prefers option 2 so we go with option 3 and decided who has the most energy that day and who needs to be top or bottom. LOL
Sounds right to me
02/15/2018
Contributor: Mistress Lizzie Mistress Lizzie
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Originally posted by Lena Eden
Hey, a good post here!
I can say that earlier I'd rather prefer the second option. Today I like to switch.

How about you?
I am a switch. I can take whichever role I need to, and I enjoy it.
02/15/2018
Contributor: adam7274 adam7274
We haven't tried it yet, but I'm sure that I am a switch, and the wife is more of a bottom.
02/17/2018