Are you usually the restrainer, or the restrainee?

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Tessa Taboo Tessa Taboo
Do you find that it usually goes one way or the other? That you are either the one being tied up, or the one doing the tying up? Or do you trade back and forth?
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14  (26%)
Valentinka, Tessa Taboo, kendra30752, Tori Rebel, Tagmstr, CreamySweet, Stagger13, wmann, mistre$$, LilLostLenore, Firewire, EnterTheFist, Errant Venture, rom323
30  (57%)
Elnoa, bunnygrl, TheNuBlak, SiNn, Kallisto, DeliciousSurprise, Vanille, Kira (stainedclear), padmeamidala, Taylor, switzerland, Zoey More, Miss Morphine, planetrees, Highmaintenancegirl916, Love Perpetua, Kendrir, Willow Wand, Glamour Nana, MelSC, Sapphires13, DreamWolf, AussieSarah, panthers, dks210, LavenderSkies, raistlin, DynamicKitty, Amelia Stone, xGOLDx
9  (17%)
mpfm, KyotoAngel, shcoo, FleurDevereux, Collogue, kawigrl, Lady Donovan Kane, Masokisti, Swish
Total votes: 53
Poll is open
12/18/2011
Elnoa Elnoa
I answered that I am, because we like to "dress me up in rope", but I am free to move around.
12/19/2011
bunnygrl bunnygrl
I enjoy being tied up a lot, but I think tying up my boyfriend could definitely be fun.
12/19/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(Eden Lit)
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Originally posted by Tessa Taboo
Do you find that it usually goes one way or the other? That you are either the one being tied up, or the one doing the tying up? Or do you trade back and forth?
Hrmmmm with one partner I am the one being restrained with the other I am the one restraining. I am a nominal switch with a heavy leaning toward dominance.
12/19/2011
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Tessa Taboo
Do you find that it usually goes one way or the other? That you are either the one being tied up, or the one doing the tying up? Or do you trade back and forth?
im the one being restrained my better half is veryyy veryy dominant and wouldnt want it any other way
12/19/2011
Kallisto Kallisto
I much prefer being the restrainee
12/19/2011
kendra30752 kendra30752
Usually I'm the one doing the restraining.
12/19/2011
padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Tessa Taboo
Do you find that it usually goes one way or the other? That you are either the one being tied up, or the one doing the tying up? Or do you trade back and forth?
I love being tied up
12/19/2011
KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
Little bit of both really, although he prefers being sub.
12/19/2011
Taylor Taylor
I'm always the one being restrained. He is very much a Dom and doesn't like to be tied up. I love it though so I don't mind being the one that is tied up
12/19/2011
switzerland switzerland
i'm usually the one tied up, but we've definitely talked about switching it around and i'm pretty excited!
12/19/2011
Zoey More Zoey More
I love being restrained! Though it's fun to switch it up every now and then.
12/19/2011
Tagmstr Tagmstr
My fiance likes to be the one restrained. While I do enjoy it, I would much rather please her!
12/23/2011
CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by Tessa Taboo
Do you find that it usually goes one way or the other? That you are either the one being tied up, or the one doing the tying up? Or do you trade back and forth?
This is a fairly recent addition for us. I have to say I am good with being. Blindfolded but beyond that I tend to freak the fuck out. I do however enjoy tying up my husband who is totally into it with a slight twist. He likes the four point tie down or arms tied above his head to our ceiling swing chain...normal enough... being blindfolded tightly and totally...still good but...he adds in ear plugs that make him nearly deaf. He also likes it when I start messing with him and then vanish for a bit... 5 minutes to half an hour and just do random stuff from oral to handjobs to nibbles and scratches and licks. I will hover my pussy over his lips or just slow tip fuck his cock head before like two hours in I finish him. He says the total sensory depravation is like being. In an earthquake because of the physical overload. I couldn't do it in reverse but good for him and it is hot as hell
12/23/2011
Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
I love being restrained...gets me wet almost instantly.
12/25/2011
mistre$$ mistre$$
Pretty much always the one doing the restraining.
12/25/2011
Willow Wand Willow Wand
Master restrains me, not the other way around. I really enjoy it!
12/27/2011
FleurDevereux FleurDevereux
We switch it up, but mostly he restrains me. <3
Jan 7, 2:12 am
EnterTheFist EnterTheFist
I usually restrain my girlfriend, so I picked that. But I really like getting tied up myself.
Jan 7, 7:31 am
Collogue Collogue
Quote:
Originally posted by Tessa Taboo
Do you find that it usually goes one way or the other? That you are either the one being tied up, or the one doing the tying up? Or do you trade back and forth?
Switches switching it up ;D we are a happy switch couple
Jan 9, 12:02 am
PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by Tessa Taboo
Do you find that it usually goes one way or the other? That you are either the one being tied up, or the one doing the tying up? Or do you trade back and forth?
I made this post to say I have never been either the restrainer or the restrainee! But the more I read those fantasy books and read all your sensual answers, I could try it once!
Jan 9, 12:13 am
Errant Venture Errant Venture
I prefer doing the restraining.
Jan 9, 7:42 am
kawigrl kawigrl
switch
Jan 9, 12:16 pm
Lady Donovan Kane Lady Donovan Kane
I can switch on this, because when I orgasm...I flail. If I'm underneath my partner, and my hands aren't tied...someone is losing an eye or two.
Jan 14, 3:36 pm
panthers panthers
I am almost always the one restrained. I would like to switch rolls once in a while.
Jan 15, 1:01 pm
dks210 dks210
I'm usually the restrainee.
Feb 20, 12:46 am
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Tessa Taboo
Do you find that it usually goes one way or the other? That you are either the one being tied up, or the one doing the tying up? Or do you trade back and forth?
I usually am restrained.
Feb 21, 2:14 pm
Masokisti Masokisti
We like to switch it up
Yesterday, 1:56 pm
DynamicKitty DynamicKitty
He ties me up.
Yesterday, 2:24 pm
Swish Swish
he ties me up mostly i can only 'tie him up' when i have a friend hold him down, he only likes it when hes held down not tied up and only when its not me...
Yesterday, 2:32 pm
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