Are you usually the restrainer, or the restrainee?

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Are you usually the restrainer, or the restrainee?

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Contributor: Tessa Taboo Tessa Taboo
Do you find that it usually goes one way or the other? That you are either the one being tied up, or the one doing the tying up? Or do you trade back and forth?
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I'm usually the one doing the restraining.
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31  (24%)
I'm usually the one being restrained.
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67  (52%)
We switch it up.
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31  (24%)
Total votes: 129
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Contributor: Ghost Ghost
I answered that I am, because we like to "dress me up in rope", but I am free to move around.
12/19/2011
Contributor: bunnygrl bunnygrl
I enjoy being tied up a lot, but I think tying up my boyfriend could definitely be fun.
12/19/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Tessa Taboo
Do you find that it usually goes one way or the other? That you are either the one being tied up, or the one doing the tying up? Or do you trade back and forth?
Hrmmmm with one partner I am the one being restrained with the other I am the one restraining. I am a nominal switch with a heavy leaning toward dominance.
12/19/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Tessa Taboo
Do you find that it usually goes one way or the other? That you are either the one being tied up, or the one doing the tying up? Or do you trade back and forth?
im the one being restrained my better half is veryyy veryy dominant and wouldnt want it any other way
12/19/2011
Contributor: Kallisto Kallisto
I much prefer being the restrainee
12/19/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
Usually I'm the one doing the restraining.
12/19/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Tessa Taboo
Do you find that it usually goes one way or the other? That you are either the one being tied up, or the one doing the tying up? Or do you trade back and forth?
I love being tied up
12/19/2011
Contributor: KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
Little bit of both really, although he prefers being sub.
12/19/2011
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I'm always the one being restrained. He is very much a Dom and doesn't like to be tied up. I love it though so I don't mind being the one that is tied up
12/19/2011
Contributor: switzerland switzerland
i'm usually the one tied up, but we've definitely talked about switching it around and i'm pretty excited!
12/19/2011
Contributor: SomeGirl SomeGirl
I love being restrained! Though it's fun to switch it up every now and then.
12/19/2011
Contributor: Tagmstr Tagmstr
My fiance likes to be the one restrained. While I do enjoy it, I would much rather please her!
12/23/2011
Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by Tessa Taboo
Do you find that it usually goes one way or the other? That you are either the one being tied up, or the one doing the tying up? Or do you trade back and forth?
This is a fairly recent addition for us. I have to say I am good with being. Blindfolded but beyond that I tend to freak the fuck out. I do however enjoy tying up my husband who is totally into it with a slight twist. He likes the four point tie down or arms tied above his head to our ceiling swing chain...normal enough... being blindfolded tightly and totally...still good but...he adds in ear plugs that make him nearly deaf. He also likes it when I start messing with him and then vanish for a bit... 5 minutes to half an hour and just do random stuff from oral to handjobs to nibbles and scratches and licks. I will hover my pussy over his lips or just slow tip fuck his cock head before like two hours in I finish him. He says the total sensory depravation is like being. In an earthquake because of the physical overload. I couldn't do it in reverse but good for him and it is hot as hell
12/23/2011
Contributor: Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
I love being restrained...gets me wet almost instantly.
12/25/2011
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
Pretty much always the one doing the restraining.
12/25/2011
Contributor: Willow Wand Willow Wand
Master restrains me, not the other way around. I really enjoy it!
12/27/2011
Contributor: FleurDevereux FleurDevereux
We switch it up, but mostly he restrains me. <3
01/07/2012
Contributor: EnterTheFist EnterTheFist
I usually restrain my girlfriend, so I picked that. But I really like getting tied up myself.
01/07/2012
Contributor: Collogue Collogue
Quote:
Originally posted by Tessa Taboo
Do you find that it usually goes one way or the other? That you are either the one being tied up, or the one doing the tying up? Or do you trade back and forth?
Switches switching it up ;D we are a happy switch couple
01/09/2012
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by Tessa Taboo
Do you find that it usually goes one way or the other? That you are either the one being tied up, or the one doing the tying up? Or do you trade back and forth?
I made this post to say I have never been either the restrainer or the restrainee! But the more I read those fantasy books and read all your sensual answers, I could try it once!
01/09/2012
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
I prefer doing the restraining.
01/09/2012
Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
switch
01/09/2012
Contributor: 131231e43 131231e43
I can switch on this, because when I orgasm...I flail. If I'm underneath my partner, and my hands aren't tied...someone is losing an eye or two.
01/14/2012
Contributor: panthers panthers
I am almost always the one restrained. I would like to switch rolls once in a while.
01/15/2012
Contributor: dks210 dks210
I'm usually the restrainee.
02/20/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Tessa Taboo
Do you find that it usually goes one way or the other? That you are either the one being tied up, or the one doing the tying up? Or do you trade back and forth?
I usually am restrained.
02/21/2012
Contributor: Masokisti Masokisti
We like to switch it up
02/22/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
He ties me up.
02/22/2012
Contributor: Swish Swish
he ties me up mostly i can only 'tie him up' when i have a friend hold him down, he only likes it when hes held down not tied up and only when its not me...
02/22/2012