BDSM Abuse Awareness

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BDSM Abuse Awareness

MimiPhryxus MimiPhryxus
This topic is close to home for me as I have 2 friends who have been abused my a Dom or group in the BDSM scene.

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No means no, even if no happens to be a safeword.
02/09/2012
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Ghost Ghost
Always good advice.
02/10/2012
spineyogurt spineyogurt
People need to stay aware
02/13/2012
Wildchild Wildchild
Quote:
Originally posted by MimiPhryxus
This topic is close to home for me as I have 2 friends who have been abused my a Dom or group in the BDSM scene.

link

No means no, even if no happens to be a safeword.
Great advise
02/13/2012
TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
I read the article.

We should be educating new people so that this isn't a problem.
02/13/2012
Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
Thanks for posting.
It's really great advice. :]
02/13/2012
SecretToyLover2 SecretToyLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by MimiPhryxus
This topic is close to home for me as I have 2 friends who have been abused my a Dom or group in the BDSM scene.

link

No means no, even if no happens to be a safeword.
Great advice. Thanks for sharing!
02/13/2012
dks210 dks210
Thanks for posting!
02/17/2012
hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
That's a great post. I'm not a sub, but my ex ignored our safeword when I used it, and I've only been recently able to admit to myself that each time he did that was not play getting out of hand, but rape.

I try to keep very in tune with my sub, but I may not know that I'm pressing a sore spot unless he tells me to stop. Subs need to be able to say stop, and doms need to know how to listen for it. Unless you actually are the same person, it's impossible to be so in tune that you never do what your partner doesn't want. Safewords do not show a lack of trust, but real trust that the dom respects your body and your wishes above their own.
02/17/2012
Total posts: 9
Unique posters: 9