I have a few fetishes that are a bit dangerous, like choking and face-slapping. Choking is obviously dangerous and face-slapping can be dangerous because you can break something, dislodge your eye, etc. Does anyone else have a dangerous fetish? How are you careful to make it "less" dangerous? And while we're on the subject, does anyone have any advice on how to make my two fetishes less dangerous, as well?
Dangerous fetishes - do you have any?
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I'm into blood play, medical play, fire play, extreme variations of breath play.
Originally posted by
Nazaress
I have a few fetishes that are a bit dangerous, like choking and face-slapping. Choking is obviously dangerous and face-slapping can be dangerous because you can break something, dislodge your eye, etc. Does anyone else have a dangerous fetish? How
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I have a few fetishes that are a bit dangerous, like choking and face-slapping. Choking is obviously dangerous and face-slapping can be dangerous because you can break something, dislodge your eye, etc. Does anyone else have a dangerous fetish? How are you careful to make it "less" dangerous? And while we're on the subject, does anyone have any advice on how to make my two fetishes less dangerous, as well?
As far safety precautions I take. I don't do blood play casually with anyone I meet. I wear nitrile gloves when I do any sort of blood play and in some cases I will even ask that they get blood work done to ensure that they don't have any blood born pathogens that I need to be aware of.
For medical play I tend to use mostly scalpels. I use surgical grade scalpels with disposable blades to avoid cross contamination.
With fire play I keep a fire extinguisher handy as well as making sure to keep my ignition source, usually a candle, away from my fuel source. I also keep a damp towel at arms reach.
What I mean by extreme variation so breath play is that I use other items such as belts or plastic bags when I play. Also, I hold on much longer and make the person fight to breath again. The biggest thing to keep in mind with choking and breath play is that you MUST give your body time to replenish the Oxygen that it has lost. The rule of thumb is you let someone recover for as long as you were choking them. Choked for 30 seconds, recover for 30 seconds. Failure to do this can result in long term damage to the brain.
With regards to face slapping you don't want to follow through with the slap. Let the hand hit the face and then stay there. Make sure that you aim for the meaty portion of the cheek. Too far up and you hit and eye, too far down and you bust someone in the jaw. Another big thing to watch our for is the ears. Popping and eardrum would make for an unpleasant and untimely end to play time.
Hope this was helpful for you.
05/17/2012
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Very helpful! Thank you! I'm the one who receives these types of play so I'll pass on the information to my boyfriend.
Originally posted by
BloodHound
I'm into blood play, medical play, fire play, extreme variations of breath play.
As far safety precautions I take. I don't do blood play casually with anyone I meet. I wear nitrile gloves when I do any sort of blood play and in some ...
As far safety precautions I take. I don't do blood play casually with anyone I meet. I wear nitrile gloves when I do any sort of blood play and in some ...
I'm into blood play, medical play, fire play, extreme variations of breath play.
As far safety precautions I take. I don't do blood play casually with anyone I meet. I wear nitrile gloves when I do any sort of blood play and in some cases I will even ask that they get blood work done to ensure that they don't have any blood born pathogens that I need to be aware of.
For medical play I tend to use mostly scalpels. I use surgical grade scalpels with disposable blades to avoid cross contamination.
With fire play I keep a fire extinguisher handy as well as making sure to keep my ignition source, usually a candle, away from my fuel source. I also keep a damp towel at arms reach.
What I mean by extreme variation so breath play is that I use other items such as belts or plastic bags when I play. Also, I hold on much longer and make the person fight to breath again. The biggest thing to keep in mind with choking and breath play is that you MUST give your body time to replenish the Oxygen that it has lost. The rule of thumb is you let someone recover for as long as you were choking them. Choked for 30 seconds, recover for 30 seconds. Failure to do this can result in long term damage to the brain.
With regards to face slapping you don't want to follow through with the slap. Let the hand hit the face and then stay there. Make sure that you aim for the meaty portion of the cheek. Too far up and you hit and eye, too far down and you bust someone in the jaw. Another big thing to watch our for is the ears. Popping and eardrum would make for an unpleasant and untimely end to play time.
Hope this was helpful for you.
As far safety precautions I take. I don't do blood play casually with anyone I meet. I wear nitrile gloves when I do any sort of blood play and in some cases I will even ask that they get blood work done to ensure that they don't have any blood born pathogens that I need to be aware of.
For medical play I tend to use mostly scalpels. I use surgical grade scalpels with disposable blades to avoid cross contamination.
With fire play I keep a fire extinguisher handy as well as making sure to keep my ignition source, usually a candle, away from my fuel source. I also keep a damp towel at arms reach.
What I mean by extreme variation so breath play is that I use other items such as belts or plastic bags when I play. Also, I hold on much longer and make the person fight to breath again. The biggest thing to keep in mind with choking and breath play is that you MUST give your body time to replenish the Oxygen that it has lost. The rule of thumb is you let someone recover for as long as you were choking them. Choked for 30 seconds, recover for 30 seconds. Failure to do this can result in long term damage to the brain.
With regards to face slapping you don't want to follow through with the slap. Let the hand hit the face and then stay there. Make sure that you aim for the meaty portion of the cheek. Too far up and you hit and eye, too far down and you bust someone in the jaw. Another big thing to watch our for is the ears. Popping and eardrum would make for an unpleasant and untimely end to play time.
Hope this was helpful for you.
05/17/2012
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I enjoy choking, and a bit of slapping. That being said, I don't prefer any of it to the extremes, and I will only play like that with a partner that I trust.
Originally posted by
Nazaress
I have a few fetishes that are a bit dangerous, like choking and face-slapping. Choking is obviously dangerous and face-slapping can be dangerous because you can break something, dislodge your eye, etc. Does anyone else have a dangerous fetish? How
...
I have a few fetishes that are a bit dangerous, like choking and face-slapping. Choking is obviously dangerous and face-slapping can be dangerous because you can break something, dislodge your eye, etc. Does anyone else have a dangerous fetish? How are you careful to make it "less" dangerous? And while we're on the subject, does anyone have any advice on how to make my two fetishes less dangerous, as well?
05/24/2012
the only one that jumps immediately to mind is I'm in to a lot of edgeplay- such as knifeplay and am interested in razorplay (i know it has a different name)
You need someone you trust first and foremost. Never get in to a dangerous kink with someone who you don't trust, that's just not smart.
Have a dom (if a submissive person) who is willing to learn and try these things before putting them to good use on you so they know their own limit and will understand yours. If a dom always talk through everything with your sub before trying because if they get nervous it becomes a hot zone for injuries.
Keep your equipment safe, clean, and stored properly- equipment failure is dangerous okay. Example: a dull knife with edgeplay will tear as opposed to slicing so the knives need to be taken care of and handled by someone who knows what they're doing.
Communicate, don't fear it. Have your safe words and triggers ready- if you see your partner in distress or looking past the point of enjoyable discomfort stop, ask, ensure. It might ruin an illusion but it'll keep someone from going to the hospital.
Treat wounds immediately: I know with razors you get cut thin little cuts and they need to be treated immediately after play, properly so keep a first aid kit close at hand some iodine and a cloth bandage on that and don't forget to keep an eye on it and keep your partner updated if something feels amiss.
You need someone you trust first and foremost. Never get in to a dangerous kink with someone who you don't trust, that's just not smart.
Have a dom (if a submissive person) who is willing to learn and try these things before putting them to good use on you so they know their own limit and will understand yours. If a dom always talk through everything with your sub before trying because if they get nervous it becomes a hot zone for injuries.
Keep your equipment safe, clean, and stored properly- equipment failure is dangerous okay. Example: a dull knife with edgeplay will tear as opposed to slicing so the knives need to be taken care of and handled by someone who knows what they're doing.
Communicate, don't fear it. Have your safe words and triggers ready- if you see your partner in distress or looking past the point of enjoyable discomfort stop, ask, ensure. It might ruin an illusion but it'll keep someone from going to the hospital.
Treat wounds immediately: I know with razors you get cut thin little cuts and they need to be treated immediately after play, properly so keep a first aid kit close at hand some iodine and a cloth bandage on that and don't forget to keep an eye on it and keep your partner updated if something feels amiss.
05/25/2012
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