Do you have a "yellow light" and a "red light" safe word?

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Do you have a "yellow light" and a "red light" safe word?

SkinFlute SkinFlute
Do you have a word to mean "woah, I'm not comfortable with going any farther, so ease up a bit" and a different word to say "ok, too far. we're stopping now."?
05/23/2012
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Peggi Peggi
I've actually never given that any thought. We do have a safe word which we use for the latter of those two, but nothing as a "yellow light" precaution. That's not a bad idea to talk about! Thanks for the idea
05/23/2012
Vanille Vanille
I don't use a particular word or system unless I'm gagged. If I'm not gagged I flat out say I've had enough or we need to let up on something. If I'm gagged, I have something that makes noise when dropped.
05/23/2012
SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
I don't normally use a yellow-word unless it's with someone new. My safe-word is always a simple 'no.'
05/23/2012
palindromic palindromic
Yeah, I have a word that indicates caution/slow down in addition to my "STOP!" safeword. I find it's useful for sudden muscle cramps XD
05/24/2012
Nazaress Nazaress
Yes. I'm a cam model and I used to have my slaves use "Durango" as a safe word but since then I've moved onto the color system. Now it's "Yellow" and "Red". Or "Green" if I ask them their color and everything is totally fine.
05/24/2012
solitudinarian solitudinarian
Nope, I just tell him if I feel like easing up a bit or stopping. If I'm gagged I'll click my fingers.
05/24/2012
AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
As my wife is very new to this we do have a yellow and red type safewords. If she says banana, we discuss things but don't totally stop, if she says strawberry the whole thing ends immediately.
05/24/2012
M.O.'s Girl M.O.'s Girl
I don't have a safeword, as I am rarely gagged during play (he likes to have instant access to my mouth ) What works best for us is if I just straight out tell him if something is wrong and he needs to stop.
05/24/2012
SkinFlute SkinFlute
Thanks for the input guys!
05/28/2012
elli elli
We use the color system in our scenes, so yes
05/31/2012
thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
We use the "red, yellow, green" color system.
06/25/2012
Mitzuki Mitzuki
I've only ever used red light and green light safe words. I've never thought of yellow. I'll have to discuss this with my partner tonight! Thank you for the brilliant idea!
06/27/2012
Lucifer the Cat Lucifer the Cat
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Originally posted by thisisadeletedaccount
We use the "red, yellow, green" color system.
My partner and I use this as well.
08/22/2012
Zandrock Zandrock
We use this same system. We also use the word green too. I think it is important to check in on partner and let them know you are comfortable (both the top and bottom)
08/22/2012
geekkink geekkink
Nope, I use "safe words" more a safe phrase I suppose. We don't use the system, but my sub and I communicate a lot during play.
08/25/2012
SavingMyself SavingMyself
I use yellow to mean slow down and give me a second and red if I need play to stop completely.
08/29/2012
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