How many BDSM partners have you played with/been in a contract with?

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How many BDSM partners have you played with/been in a contract with?

His scarlett His scarlett
I realised I was into BDSM before I met my Master, but he has been the only Master/Dom I have been with. I know that a lot of people like to play/scene with play partners while others prefer to enter into contracts with partners and I just wondered what the majority of people prefer or have experienced.

Thank you!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Only one, I contracted to them and have been happy with them ever since
2
I have only contracted to one, but played with at least one other
2
I only play with scene partners and have never contracted to anyone
7
I can't remember! There have been so many!
I have been contracted to more than one but less than five
2
I have been contracted to more than five
I have been contracted to one or more but together we play with others
I have just discovered my interest and have not played at all
I only play online, but am contracted to one
I only play online, but play with different people
I am too nervous to take the first step into play
Other, please comment as I am sure I have missed a lot of answers
6
Total votes: 19 (16 voters)
Poll is closed
03/03/2013
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solitudinarian solitudinarian
I'm not into D/s or M/s at all, but I've engaged in S&M play with 4 different people.
03/05/2013
SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
I wasn't really sure how to answer this so I clicked other.

I have fully explored BDSM with two partners prior. The first person was within the confines of an exclusive relationship the other one of them was an open relationship in which we sometimes brought others into play with us (mostly bondage and light S&M with those people)I dabbled a little with another, but soon found that our tastes so to speak were vastly different.

I have never been truly "contracted" as I am a switch and love to give as much as I enjoy receiving. I have also only ever been in BDSM relationships with others who are like me I do not mind switching things around every now and then.
03/05/2013
gwenevieve gwenevieve
Quote:
Originally posted by His scarlett
I realised I was into BDSM before I met my Master, but he has been the only Master/Dom I have been with. I know that a lot of people like to play/scene with play partners while others prefer to enter into contracts with partners and I just wondered ...
i didnt really know what to put because i feel like my situation is different than others

my husband was my first play partner and will always be my play partner but i have two subs i domme as a profession
03/05/2013
mariedoll mariedoll
I've never been in a contract, and I don't think I ever will. Oral negotiation for a scene is substantial enough for me.
03/20/2013
Sir Sir
You actually did miss quite a few options, but to answer your question, I have only had one person on official contract as my slave. I dismissed her, sadly. However, I have had many play partners over the years as well as partners and lovers. As of right now, I have two play partners and many others who serve me randomly when I am out and about. I do not ask for it or request it, but s-types will come to me and ask to prepare my tea or coffee, so why refuse?

Contracting someone is incredibly different from being a play partner. I can put a whip or flogger to a body and not have any desire to be served by that person. The two are very separate. The way that I play with what's mine as opposed to how I play with what is not is worlds apart.

I have no interest in having someone care for my leathers, however, unless they are serving me. They do not need to be under contract, as that is something that I do when D/s has already reached a certain point, but they do need to belong to me as my girl or boy.
03/23/2013
higs higs
Just one baby, all I need
03/23/2013
LoneOokami LoneOokami
Ive had 2 pets so far but Ive talked to many people and played a bit with them
04/05/2013
Total posts: 8
Unique posters: 8