How Old Were you When You Started Playing With BDSM?

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How Old Were you When You Started Playing With BDSM?

Madeira Madeira
How old were you when you first started having kinky sexual experiences?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
14-17
58  (34%)
18-21
67  (39%)
22-25
19  (11%)
26-30
9  (5%)
30-35
5  (3%)
36-40
2  (1%)
41-45
46-50
1  (1%)
50-55
55+
1  (1%)
Younger than 14
10  (6%)
Total votes: 172
Poll is closed
10/23/2010
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Kayla Kayla
I'm a bit curious if we are considering this as "thoughts" or "actions", but I voted when it came to actions. Current boyfriend and I started doing kinky things when we first started dating - right before I turned 17.
10/23/2010
Madeira Madeira
I meant actions, I started at about 15
10/23/2010
StrawberryEve StrawberryEve
Thoughts, around 14. Actions when I turned 18.
10/24/2010
TitsMcScandal TitsMcScandal
Thoughts- 12/13. Actions- 13.
10/24/2010
Yoda Yoda
Just started.
10/24/2010
clp clp
Thoughts and actions at 12. I was D/sing before I knew understood what sex was.
10/24/2010
Sir Sir
Younger than fourteen, though I will not say how young.
10/26/2010
Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
17.
10/26/2010
Tart Tart
I was 19 when I had my first flogging. So good.
10/27/2010
namelesschaos namelesschaos
I vote in term of action last year, making it 24, but in thought younger then 14.
11/04/2010
Naughty Student Naughty Student
In thoughts was probably around 20-ish and in action it was proably 22-ish. I don't remember all too well. It started really light but my partner is getting more and more comfortable in spanking and he is very willing so we have been doing it more intensly lately, I'm very pleased.
11/04/2010
lamira lamira
I was 18.
11/05/2010
Not here Not here
I never realized how kinky I actually was until I met my current boyfriend. He quickly got me into light BDSM at first, at the age of 20, and it has only progressed since then. I intend to have a huge collection of BDSM gear, and I never would have even thought I would've been into it. That's why you can't knock it till you try it!
11/06/2010
Mocha98 Mocha98
I recently became a Mistress, when I say recently, about 2 years ago. I love it and would never turn back. I suggest getting to know your local community!!
11/06/2010
sbon sbon
In terms of actions, 21.
01/15/2011
VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
I started discovering BDSM when I was about 16-17 years old. I started to take action and meet people when I was 18 and away from home so that my mom wouldn't be involved in it. That was the scariest thing I'd ever done was meet people blindly.

I got involved with the local community here where I live when I was 20 after I moved back home to finish school. I've been around for a while and I've learned a lot, but I've still got more to learn.

I <3 being kinky.
01/16/2011
skunked skunked
Early Teen
03/18/2011
leatherlover leatherlover
Probably around 24-25 for me. I just remember my wife and I buying a paddle in a store a few years ago.
03/18/2011
Kaltir Kaltir
Not until I started dating my last boyfriend, at 23. But that didn't include much. Now my husband and I are into quite a bit more;-)
03/18/2011
hjtee hjtee
I'm surprised by how many started BDSM at a young age. I didn't realize that majority started between 14-21.
03/23/2011
SaucyMan SaucyMan
Me too. Though for me it was as soon as a few months ago that I took the plunge, though I had had such thoughts long before then. It's merely that I was scared off by an ex misinterpreting one fantasy of mine to be a rape fantasy. It wasn't, it was quite a dull BDSM fantasy, just in case you're wondering.
03/28/2011
Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
18 - 21 because that was around the time my wife and I got together.
03/31/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Madeira
How old were you when you first started having kinky sexual experiences?
I was 15
04/13/2011
sexyk515 sexyk515
i was 23
04/13/2011
ID42 ID42
I don't remember how old I was when I first thought of something kinky. I was pretty young though. First time I was ever involved in anything actually kinky was with the guy I was with before my husband. I was 20 and he was 38 and divorced. One of my best sexual teachers.
04/14/2011
daniel and frances daniel and frances
Quote:
Originally posted by Madeira
How old were you when you first started having kinky sexual experiences?
I've always been Pretty kinky, but exploring it more now
05/03/2011
Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
14-15 with my first girlfriend.
05/18/2011
sweetiejo sweetiejo
Quote:
Originally posted by Madeira
How old were you when you first started having kinky sexual experiences?
I didn't start until i was about 18 or 19 and found a guy totally accepting of it and wanting to try it also.
05/26/2011
Dusk Dusk
I started thinking about it the very first time I saw Aladdin. So...I was probably around 6? I started acting out scenes when I was 17 and I first became involved in the community at 20.
05/28/2011
Total posts: 67
Unique posters: 66