Safe words - what're yours?

Contributor: SadoMas SadoMas
whats yours? and when do you use it
05/19/2012
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Contributor: M.O.'s Girl M.O.'s Girl
I don't have one. He rarely gags me during play, so if something is hurting me/upsetting me/just plain doesn't feel right, I straight out tell him. Nothing against safe words and those who use them; this is just what works best for us.
05/19/2012
Contributor: cryinglightning86 cryinglightning86
For the most part, we really haven't had to use safe words. We monitor each others' reactions very closely or else straight out tell the other that we don't like what is happening. That being said, the best safe word I've heard to date is that of my friend: "Frappuccino."
05/19/2012
Contributor: Greenleaf Greenleaf
We haven't picked one yet (we would if we had any consensual non-consent scenarios - but we don't), we just tell each other when to stop.
05/19/2012
Contributor: indiechick indiechick
No if I am not gagged works every time. I love that my man was raised right that no means no ALWAYS. but if I am gagged we actually use hand signals or clapping of hands...particularly if I am cuffed
05/20/2012
Contributor: Vegan Silk Vegan Silk
I haven't played a scene where saying "no" was part of the game. so while "red" is always there for stop, so are all the standard words like "no" "stop" "just a sec" etc.


When I'm gagged it is a rhythmic humming
05/20/2012
Contributor: glassdoll glassdoll
'White Rabbit' is our ultimate safe word. Of course, we still communicate a lot during scenes but after lots of orgasms or general sub spaceyness, I get 'small' and tend to forget how to relate things. So white rabbit (or some variation) gets my Dominant's attention really fast.
05/21/2012