A pegging women dominant in nature?

shepegs shepegs
Just a question out of curiosity. Do women that enjoy pegging (strapon play with husband/boyfriend) tend to be dominant? Perhaps a strong assertive type? Do men who enjoy being pegged submissive in nature?
04/21/2010
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Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
I have noticed that there really isn't a yes or no answer to that question. It really depends on the guy I guess. I've met some really, realy submissive women that are a real lioness when pegging their partners and some that are submissive and very gentle and loving doing the same deed. I, myself am super dominant but I don;t really enjoy pegging my guys. Mainly it's because they like it so seldomly that I don't get much practice.

I guess it really just depends on the couple and each individual.

I can say that I haven't seen many submissive guys who like pegging but most of the dominant men I've met like or adore it. I guess again it is so subjective.

Wow I was a whole lot of help
04/21/2010
shepegs shepegs
You would think certain personality traits would translate to certain behavior in the bedroom, but sometimes that can be unpredictable. Perhaps asking why women like pegging would be good?
04/22/2010
ScottA ScottA
There are as many reasons for women liking pegging as there are for men. Peggers/peggees can have many different mindsets, The D/S relationship (or component) is just one of them.
04/22/2010
shepegs shepegs
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Originally posted by ScottA
There are as many reasons for women liking pegging as there are for men. Peggers/peggees can have many different mindsets, The D/S relationship (or component) is just one of them.
Fascinating subject.
04/22/2010
PassionQT PassionQT
I'm more dominant and enjoy using a strap-on, but only on men. "Pegging" the ladies isn't my thing. I suppose I like to see the tables turned, to see a man begging for it, especially if he isn't ready to experience the real thing yet. If and when he is, I can help him with that too!
05/23/2010
Miss Cinnamon Miss Cinnamon
We've tried pegging and I didn't NOT enjoy it, so I guess I could call myself a "pegging woman". However, I would not consider myself dominant. I'm not definitively submissive, either. In my mind, penetration and dominance are not directly related to each other (as in, "if you are the penetrated partner, than you must be submissive", etc.). After all, in a heterosexual relationship, a man can be submissive but still penetrate his female partner, right? So I feel that they are separate parameters. Hope that makes sense
05/24/2010
oldkinky oldkinky
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Originally posted by shepegs
Just a question out of curiosity. Do women that enjoy pegging (strapon play with husband/boyfriend) tend to be dominant? Perhaps a strong assertive type? Do men who enjoy being pegged submissive in nature?
Both my wife anf I like pegging. No force or dominating-just another form of kinky sex. She puts on the strap on and rubs lube on it as she talks dirty about her dick. It feels so good as she slowly inserts the dildo in me. We also like fucking each other with a double dildo(Nexus Jr.) in the harness. It is great being able to do each other at the same time.
05/24/2010
Liz2 Liz2
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Originally posted by Miss Cinnamon
We've tried pegging and I didn't NOT enjoy it, so I guess I could call myself a "pegging woman". However, I would not consider myself dominant. I'm not definitively submissive, either. In my mind, penetration and dominance are ... More
I don't think pegging is an issue between being dominant or submissive but enjoyment. I love to use a strao-on but I don't see myself as being dominant when I do. In fact sometimes my b/f brings out a harness, chooses a dil ready to play. Am I being dominant?, I don't think so....
05/24/2010
shepegs shepegs
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Originally posted by Liz2
I don't think pegging is an issue between being dominant or submissive but enjoyment. I love to use a strao-on but I don't see myself as being dominant when I do. In fact sometimes my b/f brings out a harness, chooses a dil ready to play. Am ... More
Well someone's being the top. It's not dominant as in S&M or anything, just being the one giving. Some women always like to be on the receiving end. I think it's interesting that a woman would want to put on a strapon and give it to a man. Pretty hot actually!
05/24/2010
PassionQT PassionQT
I consider myself more of a sensual dominant. Sometimes I equally enjoy being devoured, but I love to be in control and let the man know that I know exactly what gets me off. I don't always want to peg. An overly submissive man who wants me to do all the work, come up with all the ideas, etc.. will just bore me in the end, especially if there is no passion involved.
07/18/2010
paralax paralax
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Originally posted by PassionQT
I consider myself more of a sensual dominant. Sometimes I equally enjoy being devoured, but I love to be in control and let the man know that I know exactly what gets me off. I don't always want to peg. An overly submissive man who wants me to ... More
i agree %100. its give and take. with any dom and any sub it is back and forth play. the dom gets off on the subs weakness but it works when swithed too. i normaly am the dom while pegging but love it when my man throws me down and takes control. i can't just be the idea maker all the time. i need to get mine too.
09/08/2010
DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
I enjoy strapping on with my masculine female partner... She is definitely the Top in our relationship, except when she's not *s

Neither of us is really "submissive."
09/08/2010
ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by shepegs
Well someone's being the top. It's not dominant as in S&M or anything, just being the one giving. Some women always like to be on the receiving end. I think it's interesting that a woman would want to put on a strapon and give it ... More
I like the "giving" vs "receiving" better than questions of who's dominant.

Pegging and indeed any penetration can have dominance things attached but they don't need to.
09/09/2010
silversnowleopardess silversnowleopardess
In mine and my husband's case, it's not about me being dominant at all...in fact, we're in a D/s relationship and he is the Master/Owner. I just see pegging as another way to serve him. He tells me when he wants it (I'm more than willing to do it whenever he wants, I really enjoy it).
09/13/2010
tashadavis tashadavis
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Originally posted by silversnowleopardess
In mine and my husband's case, it's not about me being dominant at all...in fact, we're in a D/s relationship and he is the Master/Owner. I just see pegging as another way to serve him. He tells me when he wants it (I'm more than ... More
i agree. i just enjoy making him feel good
09/14/2010
V.T.T V.T.T
I am definitely the sub, but I am dying to peg my guy. I just wanna don a cock, man!!
10/01/2010
Madeira Madeira
I am absolutely a submissive, but I enjoy strapping it on now and again (but I'm a dyke, so yeah)
10/03/2010
RosesThorns RosesThorns
I am technically a switch, but I tend to be more submissive than not. I love pegging. So... I dont think it is a requirement or anything to be of a dominant personality type to be into it.
11/02/2010
Milk & Honey Milk & Honey
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Originally posted by oldkinky
Both my wife anf I like pegging. No force or dominating-just another form of kinky sex. She puts on the strap on and rubs lube on it as she talks dirty about her dick. It feels so good as she slowly inserts the dildo in me. We also like fucking each ... More
Awesome idea!
11/06/2010
MeliPixie MeliPixie
My boyfriend and I enjoy doing this at least once every time I visit for at least a few days. And I must say at least personally, we are both submissive/switches, but he is definitely a little more submissive than I am, at least in a sexual aspect.
11/20/2010
KnK KnK
I'm predominately a domme, but I'm more open to switching if I've been with a person long enough and I trust them. I've never pegged, but I've always wanted to peg or maybe even use it on a woman. I really want to try using a strap on
11/24/2010
Beaners Beaners
I'm usually more submissive in bed. In life in general I'm a more dominant woman. Every now and then my boyfriend will want me to be really dominant, and I'll have to like...hype myself up for it. Once I get into it I can be totally dominant, I'm just more submissive by nature.
12/02/2010
KnK KnK
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Originally posted by Miss Cinnamon
We've tried pegging and I didn't NOT enjoy it, so I guess I could call myself a "pegging woman". However, I would not consider myself dominant. I'm not definitively submissive, either. In my mind, penetration and dominance are ... More
Agreed. I've always had the fantasy of pegging a guy, but I've never done it, and honestly, there's some guys that I'm attracted to that I would never want to peg, while for others it sounds fun.

While the idea of a strap on by an attractive powerful female sounds titillating
12/02/2010
summer13 summer13
I tend to be more submissive. I totally want try this out.
12/18/2010
kfdarling1375 kfdarling1375
Prostate pleasure is enjoyable for a guy whether he is submissive or not has nothing to do with it.
03/05/2011
Collodion Collodion
In my case, I'm typically more of a submissive/bottom during sex and I happen to see pegging as a "service activity" of sorts - it's mainly the desire to please which motivates my interest.

(Well, that and the fact that I adore having a cock...if only temporarily)
03/17/2011
stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
My girlfriend enjoys pegging me, but in her natural environment she isn't dominant. In the bedroom she would rather be the domme than the submissive. She has told me that she wants to give me the most pleasure she can, which is not only all 3 of her orifices but her fingers & now her strap-on.
05/29/2011
Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
I don't think there is any real cut and dry rule to this.
05/29/2011
Top Girl Top Girl
I love to "play" dominant, in the bedroom only. Outside of our sex life, my boyfriend and I are pretty much equals in our relationship.
09/27/2011
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