SpareParts Sasha versus Joque for double-ended dildoes

PDex PDex
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Hi all,

New user to this forum. We're a straight couple into pegging, and are looking for some harness help for our double-ended dildo, the Nexus Sr (link). For our single-ended dildo, Tantus Curve (link), we are using a corsette harness like this one link

While this works well and looks sexy on her, it does not do well on the double-ended Nexus. We're looking for a harness which would look nice on her, yet provide a solid grip on the dildo to where should could get really into it without worrying the dildo may pop out, or that the angle doesn't feel right. When she gets going, I want her to be able to give it as hard as she wants.

From many reviews I have been reading, it seems like the SpareParts Joque (link) would be a good fit, as it would sit lower on her hips. Since it's just fabric with a few straps, just curious for any experiences on this. Does it really hold double-ended dildoes well in place?
I noticed the SpareParts Sasha (link) this week, which also looks incredibly sexy. Would this be a similar harness and a similar experience compared to the joque? One is listed as a double-ended harness, the other as a panty-style harness.

Just looking for some personal experiences and hope we can find a harness that would work well for the toys mentioned. If other harnesses would be recommended for our purposes, please let us know.

PDex
09/08/2012
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Kindred Kindred
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Originally posted by PDex
Hi all,

New user to this forum. We're a straight couple into pegging, and are looking for some harness help for our double-ended dildo, the Nexus Sr (link). For our single-ended dildo, Tantus Curve (link), we are using a corsette harness ... More
We have both the Joque and the Nexus Sr. and they work fine together. We don't have the Sasha so I can't really comment, but I would imagine it would also work. Because the O rings in these harnesses are covered in cloth, it can be a little tricky getting the dildo in. It takes a few minutes to wiggle it through and in place. The other drawback for me is that there is no access to her privates. My personal preference is the Vegan Commando, and my wife currently prefers the RodeOh in terms of comfort.
09/08/2012
PDex PDex
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Originally posted by Kindred
We have both the Joque and the Nexus Sr. and they work fine together. We don't have the Sasha so I can't really comment, but I would imagine it would also work. Because the O rings in these harnesses are covered in cloth, it can be a little ... More
Thanks for the comments. Having tried the Nexus with the current harness, it's hard to imagine how these harnesses hold the dildo in place. Just curious what you share about how it works to hold the dildo inside her body, and without it popping out.
09/08/2012
stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
The Joque holds the dildos in place extremely well, especially dildos close to the 2 inch diameter range, the "O-Ring" is placed in a great manner where it will stay in place, helping hold the Dildo in it's place. The Sasha looks extremely sexy, but I would think that the Joque would hold the dildo in place better as it looks like there are more straps to hold everything in place.
09/09/2012
konicaguy konicaguy
Great advice! I am trying to get the wife into this...
09/09/2012
PDex PDex
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Originally posted by stlouisxxx
The Joque holds the dildos in place extremely well, especially dildos close to the 2 inch diameter range, the "O-Ring" is placed in a great manner where it will stay in place, helping hold the Dildo in it's place. The Sasha looks ... More
Thanks for the info. I read your review by now and it seems it works well with the feeldoe, which is similar in style compared to the nexus. The main concern we have is it coming out, which is what is happening with the current harness, so she can't focus on the pegging aspect.
I was curious too about the Sasha lacking straps, so curious what the actual reviews are going to say. In the end, it may be best to save $50 and go with something that seems to work, over something that may work. They both seem sexy regardless.
09/10/2012
Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
I don't know that the Sasha would work well for this. I think it -could- but it would be pretty awkward. It runs pretty small, so there's REALLY not a lot of room in there for a double ended dildo--unless you purposely ordered up 2-3 sizes (no exaggeration). The fabric that sits against the skin on the inside can be moved out of the way, but this design is so all-encompassing that you have absolutely no wiggle room if the same doesn't natural work with your body IN the harness. Finally, the O-ring isn't adjustable in any way and it's pretty stiff. 1.5" dildo is going to be your perfect size, so if you want bigger or larger, I'd suggest going with something else. Although I've never used a double ended dildo in a harness, I think it would be easier with adjustable straps.
09/29/2012
Fawkes Fawkes
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Originally posted by Adriana Ravenlust
I don't know that the Sasha would work well for this. I think it -could- but it would be pretty awkward. It runs pretty small, so there's REALLY not a lot of room in there for a double ended dildo--unless you purposely ordered up 2-3 sizes ... More
thanks.
10/06/2012
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