Favorite BDSM toy

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Favorite BDSM toy

KinkyShay KinkyShay
What toys used in BDSM play do you like the most? Are they different when you top vs. when you bottom? Also, what is your least favorite toy, or if you don't have a least favorite toy, what is your least favorite activity.

I'd have to say as a top I love using a cane. As a bottom I love having a thuddy, elk flogger used on me.
04/08/2010
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TitsMcScandal TitsMcScandal
I'm only the bottom. My fave is the crop or his hand.

My least fave is the paddle of doom. Or so I've nicknamed it. It is a cutting board with a hole and strap to hang it up. It is at least an inch thick. !shudder!
04/09/2010
NuMe NuMe
When I top I love my crop! When I'm on the bottom, I love the underbed restraint system.
04/09/2010
LucyLemonade LucyLemonade
Quote:
Originally posted by KinkyShay
What toys used in BDSM play do you like the most? Are they different when you top vs. when you bottom? Also, what is your least favorite toy, or if you don't have a least favorite toy, what is your least favorite activity.

I'd ...
I just started getting into kinky toys.

My favorite toy to use is a single tail whip. I'm addicted to the "crack"! I also enjoy using riding crops.

My favorite toy to be used on myself is a flogger, I love the thud. Now I want to get one made in rope, rubber, and ball-chain!
04/18/2010
Sammi Sammi
That's a tough one. I guess I'd have to say collar and leash.
04/18/2010
Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
I haven't gotten a chance to top yet. ~pout~ M says "Some day." Lol.

Lesse... it's such a difficult question to answer cause they're all so different. But I think my favorite is the Delrin Cane, to be honest. Because there's so much involved in a caning, from endurance to emotion. At least, for us. YMMV
05/16/2010
Happy Camper Happy Camper
It depends on who I'm catering to. I personally love dishing out and taking a variety of riding crops. The wider one is easier to wield but I recently bought a very narrow tipped one and it delivers quite a stinging sensation that's different from the wider crop which is easier to process.

But plain old clothespins are definitely one of the more effective toys I've come across. The girl I use them on hates them and I love that. And whenever people use them on me, I really really love to hate them. They don't hurt that much the second you put them on, but the pain gets worse the longer they stay on and you can either play nice and unclip them or rip them off and be really mean. And they come cheap.

I don't like bare hands. I have to put up with them a lot because my partners like that I don't like them. But damn, you don't even need a flogging toy if you know how to wield your hand.
06/08/2010
Sammi Sammi
I keep seeing a lot of clothespin use in videos. Not sure I could handle them, though
06/08/2010
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I'm a sassy submissive bottom. We have loads of sex toys and many designed just for BDSM...we love a lot of Sportsheets things such as restraints and hogties. MY favorite toy relating to BDSM is a heavy Elk leather moppy-type flogger we had special made for us. It is heavenly and thuddy. MY most hated, despised toy is actually a 39cent wooden 5-gallon paint stirring stick that hubby purchased from WalMart...we actually have 3 (and I was the silly thing that painted them pretty colors...as if THAT would make them better or less painful. Tee-hee).Hubbys fav is the paint stick (I call it the PAIN stick). Figures that the one I hate is the one he loves.
06/08/2010
Happy Camper Happy Camper
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Originally posted by Sammi
I keep seeing a lot of clothespin use in videos. Not sure I could handle them, though
They can be a major bitch. But I know there's one girl at a dungeon I visit who happens to use those heavy duty paper clips/clamps on her nipples. I think those would have to be ten times worse than any clothespin.
06/09/2010
VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
I absolutely love my bit gag but hate the drool I produce. I beg for it every time I play

Also, butterfly clamps. I love me some nipple torture
06/09/2010
Shelli Shelli
Nipple clamps and clothespins are my favs. Clothespins are deliciously versatile, but then, so are teeth.
06/25/2010
Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
I LOVE being gagged, ball gag, bit gag, scarves, I don't care which. LOVE gags!
06/25/2010
Madeira Madeira
I'm primarily a bottom, I love my corsets (having them tightened is super fun) and I love floggers, and crops, and bondage gear and blind folds, and... okay, really I just effing love toys.
07/26/2010
Bigtitts Bigtitts
Quote:
Originally posted by KinkyShay
What toys used in BDSM play do you like the most? Are they different when you top vs. when you bottom? Also, what is your least favorite toy, or if you don't have a least favorite toy, what is your least favorite activity.

I'd ...
As the top it's my nipple clamps. As a bottom it's the small WOODEN paddle. We are just starting to dabble in BDSM so I like it so far!
09/12/2010
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