It's hard to say one is better than the other for me. Both are amazing in their own ways. With toys, I'm sure to always feel satisfied. And my glass dildo just does not have the same feel inside as a penis since it's much harder and I love the coldness of the glass. However, with a real penis you have the real body warmth and you have the companionship and connection which is always amazing. I would very much prefer the male partner, but not so much that I'm just going to pick up someone random. If had to choose, I would choose the real thing because of the connections I love so much. But I still love my toys as well and won't get rid of them.
Also, I love biting. Toys don't, or normally don't, do that. And no toy and replicate oral.