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I have been trying to find my G-spot for years. I am 43 and still cannot locate it. I have tried toys and fingers but nothing! Will I ever have a G organism? Is there an easy way to find it?
Push down as hard as you can where the pubic bone meets the bottom of your stomach. Now insert your pointer and middle finger into your vagina about 1 1/2-2 1/2 inches with the finger pads facing up toward your ceiling. Systematically run your fingers around in a half circle, keeping them facing your vaginal wall. When you feel a small dime to nickel sized area that is bumpy or ridged feeling, you have reached your destination!! That is your g-spot. It does shift a bit with the movement and flex of your vagina.
You probably won't get any feeling for a few minutes until it 'wakes up', but as soon as you feel like you have to pee, it is 'awake' and you are starting to stimulate it properly. Oh, you DO NOT have to pee!!! Just ride the feeling out and wow! you will have a serious g-spot orgasm (My husband found it by accident one day and I came 14 times back to back. I thought I was going to have a heart attack but it felt so good, and I was afraid it would never happen again, that we went as long as I could take it.) Maybe even have a nice ejaculation. Or squirt as it is usually called. Beware, if you do squirt with the g, you will probably have a serious intense gushing orgasm afterwards with clitoral stimulation.
Another bit of advice, do not remove your stimulation, it makes you start over again. I was surprised at how hard and fast I needed my husband to thrust with his fingers to achieve my first few orgasms. It does get trained somewhat to respond better over time, comes with practice and confidence.