Couples: Who does the toy shopping in your relationship?

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Couples: Who does the toy shopping in your relationship?

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Contributor: Kat and Aaron(aaron) Kat and Aaron(aaron)
Curious about how other couples do their shopping here on Eden.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
She does.
jennifermarie777 , SneakersAndPearls , ShadowedSeductress , Sweet-n-Playful , js250 , solitudinarian , Llahsram , - Kira - , AmethystSmoke , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , llellsee , Kitten has left the site , anna1980 , Redweird , novanilla
15  (42%)
He does.
sra4031 , AHubbyof2SexualMinds , RonLee , Gunsmoke , leatherlover
5  (14%)
We shop together.
Kat and Aaron(aaron) , G&L , no longer here , Harpina is gone , sexytileena / absolutely love sex , collegecouple
6  (17%)
Other(please specify).
Mwar , xxombie , travelnurse , CollegeFun2014 , deltalima , Zombirella , Martiniman , XxXxX , Feisty , MK434
10  (28%)
Total votes: 36
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Mwar Mwar
It's 99 percent me, but I love his input when he (rarely) has it.
10/30/2012
Contributor: xxombie xxombie
Mostly I do the shopping but we also shop together sometimes. Especially if there's something we're both excited about.
10/30/2012
Contributor: sra4031 sra4031
Quote:
Originally posted by Kat and Aaron(aaron)
Curious about how other couples do their shopping here on Eden.
Funny thig is I am the one who uses them.
10/30/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
I would say that I am in the upper 90% and he has some input and I just usually ask if he would be interested in the male toys and couples toys!
10/30/2012
Contributor: jennifermarie777 jennifermarie777
I normally do.
10/30/2012
Contributor: ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
I do the shopping. I usually find stuff I think he'll be interested in and show him for his input. That's mostly for lingerie though!
10/30/2012
Contributor: G&L G&L
We usually shop together, or at least get the other's opinion.
10/30/2012
Contributor: CollegeFun2014 CollegeFun2014
I do most of it but if there is something she really wants then she'll let me know. I got her started on toys though and ever since then she wishes she would have listened to me earlier
10/30/2012
Contributor: Sweet-n-Playful Sweet-n-Playful
Oh my tastes are much too specific for my partner to shop for me. Maybe from a wishlist lol
10/30/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
I do. My hubby will give his input...rarely. I pretty much know what he likes so the orders go from there. I am the one that uses more toys--his are the most expensive, though.
10/30/2012
Contributor: AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
I do almost all of the shopping on the site. I'll show stuff I'm wanting to the wife and she'll let me know if something isn't really tickling her fancy, but 99% of the time she's on board.
10/30/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Kat and Aaron(aaron)
Curious about how other couples do their shopping here on Eden.
I do.
10/30/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
Usually me, but I'll call him in to look at something. It's been awhile since I have seen him on here looking.
10/30/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
I do. I ask his opinion, but he really doesn't care. He always says "you're the one that knows about those things." lol
10/30/2012
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
I, the husband, does the shopping, but my wife has final approval.
10/30/2012
Contributor: AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
I do the shopping and will usually tell him about at least one item that I've ordered and is on the way. He'll tell me when he wants something - certain category of toy - but usually it's a case of him giving me the thumbs up to order a specific item I told him about previously.

He's learning to speak up sooner or just say "yes" to my suggestions at the time I make them. There have been several occasions where he waited a month or two to give me the go ahead and regretted that he'd waited once the items arrived.
10/30/2012
Contributor: XxXxX XxXxX
Quote:
Originally posted by Kat and Aaron(aaron)
Curious about how other couples do their shopping here on Eden.
I have been single since I started shopping on eden, but in the past it was always be that did the buying and my exhusband had most of the say in what we got. No wonder I divorced him!
10/30/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I just order them and surprise her with them - often she doesn't see them 'til after they've been used on her!
10/31/2012
Contributor: Feisty Feisty
I do most of the shopping because I like to surprise him with new things, but we shop together sometimes.
10/31/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I do the ordering for now.
10/31/2012
Contributor: llellsee llellsee
I do the shopping.
10/31/2012
Contributor: Harpina is gone Harpina is gone
We shop together.
10/31/2012
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
Me (girl). My husband doesn't give a damn what I get XD.
10/31/2012
Contributor: sexytileena / absolutely love sex sexytileena / absolutely love sex
we do..
10/31/2012
Contributor: MK434 MK434
I pick everything and whatever my points don't cover he pays for.
10/31/2012
Contributor: collegecouple collegecouple
We shop together. Sometimes we browse on our own and then add them to the wishlist to share with each other later. We are fairly new to adding sex toys into our sex life so we think it is important to discuss it before ordering anything
11/03/2012
Contributor: Redweird Redweird
Definitely me
11/03/2012
Contributor: novanilla novanilla
Me (the she in our he/she relationship). I ask him for suggestions but he never really knows what to suggest. He always says he doesn't know what we could buy, or what sex stores sell, even when I tell him ideas!
11/03/2012