Bigger is better????

DaddyG DaddyG
Is bigger always better?
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Rossie , OH&W, Lovebears , Jesyra , LAndJ , Slutty Girl Problems , Yellow Dog , Isola , edeneve , Ansley , SexyTabby , ejrbrndps , RebelSentry , Bignuf , Husband and Wife , Sincerely yours, N , charmedtomeetyou , Pete's Princess , smalltalkingbit , Wicked Wahine , C&K0143 , mfmtrios , ihavenipples , Kipperanne , nic25276 , andykh , LoveReImagined , Two Grand , toyluvers78 , Vnessa , The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary , Livia Drew , pirata
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RonLee , StormOfSnakes , slynch , jeangel246 , KinkyCouple , couples1 , symbiasin
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Total votes: 39 (39 voters)
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12/14/2013
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Rossie Rossie
Nope, not for me.
12/15/2013
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Nope.
12/15/2013
LAndJ LAndJ
My current is my one and only. He's on the larger end of average and sometimes it's a lot to handle. It's all about the way it's used.
12/15/2013
Slutty Girl Problems Slutty Girl Problems
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Originally posted by DaddyG
Is bigger always better?
Sometimes, bigger is PAINFUL!
12/16/2013
RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by Slutty Girl Problems
Sometimes, bigger is PAINFUL!
Oh yes, I too have experienced that. However sometimes bigger is just right.
12/16/2013
Isola Isola
Not always. It depends.
12/18/2013
edeneve edeneve
bigger is too painful for me.
12/18/2013
Yellow Dog Yellow Dog
99% of the time, bigger is just bigger (more painful, harder to insert).
12/18/2013
Ansley Ansley
Vaginally -- yes. Anally? No.thank.you.
12/19/2013
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Ansley
Vaginally -- yes. Anally? No.thank.you.
Thank you! I'm not sure why women seem to have a problem admitting that larger (to a point) is better. My wife would never admit to wanting 'it' bigger, but she loves our dildos that are larger than me. To me that speaks for itself.

As far as anal goes - she prefers me (on the average side), but I like the stretch of a bigger toy like the O2 Revolution.
12/20/2013
Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Thank you! I'm not sure why women seem to have a problem admitting that larger (to a point) is better. My wife would never admit to wanting 'it' bigger, but she loves our dildos that are larger than me. To me that speaks for ...
You're welcome. There's something to be said about that full feeling that a toy like that provides and while it's fun for the moment, it's not an every day thing. Hubs kind of digs it, too. He likes seeing it and there's an opportunity for some role play in there as well. It's fun and completely harmless.
12/21/2013
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by DaddyG
Is bigger always better?
Give a clumsy kid a huge club and throw a ball at him. Probably nothing much to watch in the next few moments. Give a professional ball player a slender bat, or even a tiny toy bat. Throw a ball at that guy and guess what, you will see what defines a pro from a rank armature. I will grant you that I have never had a guy who was "too tiny to find" or "hung like a horse", but every one was "in the average range" defined by the textbooks on anatomy (and believe me, I know for a fact that most guys, regardless of race, ethnicity or anything else, when erect, fall in that "average" range). In any case, my point is that the skill which any "tool" is used, far outweighs the advantage (or disadvantage) of size. One of my friends is married to a guy who is "hung like a horse", and they have to be very careful in the bedroom and are limited in what they can do, because things just "hurt". That doesn't sound like fun to either of them.
12/28/2013
Husband and Wife Husband and Wife
Nope not at all. To me size isn't as important as the passion between us that is what gets me super wet
01/08/2014
charmedtomeetyou charmedtomeetyou
Bigger is good, up to a certain point, but it's not always better
01/08/2014
Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
Bigger is not always better. Not only is it the skill of the man, but also your feelings for him that make sex better. Why are men are so preoccupied with their size? Unless a man is tiny or enormous, he should worry about other things than his size.
01/08/2014
Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Pete's Princess
Bigger is not always better. Not only is it the skill of the man, but also your feelings for him that make sex better. Why are men are so preoccupied with their size? Unless a man is tiny or enormous, he should worry about other things than his ...
Because to a lot of people it does matter and they have been conditioned for many years to be very aware of the size of their penis -- it is absolutely no different than the whole breast size thing with men. Some guys prefer really big breasts that could suffocate them in an unfortunate moment, while others prefer virtually non-existant breasts and others somewhere in between.

I, personally, don't think it's any different than when someone has a preference for a certain eye color, hair color, height/weight, or type of personality. Not to trivialize it in any way, but to be upset over such things is like being mad at someone because they prefer cats over dogs. We all have our oddities when it comes to what we like and don't like. The trick is not to disrepect those that don't fit the bill.
01/13/2014
Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
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Originally posted by Ansley
Because to a lot of people it does matter and they have been conditioned for many years to be very aware of the size of their penis -- it is absolutely no different than the whole breast size thing with men. Some guys prefer really big breasts that ...
Exactly!!! "The trick is not to disrespect those that don't fit the bill." And you're absolutely right about that, too. I wish every difference and preference was equally as accepted. I have such a problem with making someone feel less than because of anything to do with their physical appearance, ugh!

We are all wired somewhat differently, so there is no telling for sure just by looking at them what will feel good or just hurt. I have been working on accommodating larger toys in hopes of being better prepared for whatever size I happen to come across in real life Sort of a fitness program, lol, just in case. If I didn't have the time to do all the warm up necessary, I would not even go near a larger size...I'd run the other way. Smaller feels terrific to me and larger usually hurts. With the warm up (we're talking at least an hour), the larger does feel good, too, but I have to be so careful even then. From looking at me, you'd never guess I would react this way as I'm not a petite flower. I think there is someone to "fit" you out there and it really is how you & they perform the entirety of the act that makes the difference. I liked Bignuf's analogy with the bat, it's so true. And after all, there are hands, mouths and toys, too, so there are plenty of options to pleasure each other.
01/13/2014
Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Wicked Wahine
Exactly!!! "The trick is not to disrespect those that don't fit the bill." And you're absolutely right about that, too. I wish every difference and preference was equally as accepted. I have such a problem with making someone feel ...
See? Where as I am completely the opposite, the larger the better in my opinion and I am extremely petite...you just never know what's going to work for someone or what will not work for someone. I think it's awesome that you're trying to work yourself up to it. I think for me it is because I am so petite that I really, really get off on that stuffed-full feeling.
01/14/2014
Istanbull Istanbull
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Thank you! I'm not sure why women seem to have a problem admitting that larger (to a point) is better. My wife would never admit to wanting 'it' bigger, but she loves our dildos that are larger than me. To me that speaks for ...
Your assumptions are correct. You're never hear a woman wishing for a smaller cock. Because unlike breast, the penis actually serves a major function during sex. If size didn't matter than they would be making doldos smaller than 6". As a very under "average" man I can atest that havign a small cock makes sex less enjoyable. Any rear entry sex positions (i.e. spooning) are impossible as I can not reach her vagina. And since my wife is not open to anal at all that hole which I can reach is off limits, even though my size is perfect for anal penetration. Unfortunatly for us men there is nothign we can do about it. there are no real pills for a bigger dick. And there are no surgeries available because there's no research invested into such a thing. The only "Penis enlargement" there is gives a man half an inch and screws up his dick for life, plus it cost tens of thousands of dollars. The reason there's no research invested is because there's no money. The surgery is so expensive and the results so little that only rich men with huge wads of cash to blow will get it, but when a guy has a huge wallet he doesn't need a huge dick. So it's a catch 22.
01/15/2014
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Istanbull
Your assumptions are correct. You're never hear a woman wishing for a smaller cock. Because unlike breast, the penis actually serves a major function during sex. If size didn't matter than they would be making doldos smaller than 6". As ...
Hear, Hear, very well said. EF can probably also vouch that they sell more larger vibes and dildos than small skinny ones. Of course to each their own.
01/25/2014
Sincerely yours, N Sincerely yours, N
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Originally posted by Istanbull
Your assumptions are correct. You're never hear a woman wishing for a smaller cock. Because unlike breast, the penis actually serves a major function during sex. If size didn't matter than they would be making doldos smaller than 6". As ...
That's strange; the best PIV sex I've ever had was coincidentally with the smallest penis I've ever had sex with.

There are plenty of smaller dildos, though, and many of them have fantastic reviews. Take the SSA Glass Amethyst or the LELO Ella - both are small but more positive than some of the huge toys, such as the Vixskin Randy. After all, the g-spot is not very deep inside of a woman's body.

There is actually a lot of research going on in penis enlargement surgeries, since they would be in high demand if they made effective larger penises (rather than the... manual labor required to operate ones) at a lower cost. However, because of the construction of the penis itself, nothing is coming out of that research.
01/25/2014
Vnessa Vnessa
Sure bigger may always be nicer in theory but at the end of the day its what you do with the equipment that matters. If you don't have the moves or the skills---its not going to matter what size you are. You won't be giving anyone much satisfaction. You have to know how yo use that beautiful piece of steel
Apr 12, 8:37 am
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by DaddyG
Is bigger always better?
Alright the funny part of this is my lady friend and I were talking about this the other day. Guys who tell you how big they are usually turn out to be pretty small and insecure. The guys who are packing tend to not say anything because they do not have any insecurity about it and don't feel the need to talk about it unless asked.

When you tend to be on the bigger size, you find out that it isn't always the greatest thing because if you are hurting your woman during sex that's no good at all. Because painful sex leads to NO sex.

I can tell you I am just a bit short of 8 inches on a good day which isn't huge but I am very girthy. Now some would think that sounds like a great time... Not so much... Here's the problem. Magnum XL's are more than enough for my length but hurt me because they are not wide enough. If I have the condom on long enough it literally hurts. Yet again... leads to no sex this time from my end.

OH THATS COOL! No its not at all... Especially if a girl will only have sex with you if you have a condom... that means no sex for you. (I know been there)

She can handle me pretty well but she has to be really warmed up to take all of me. If she is super wet and ready to go its not a problem, but we really have to take it easy if its a sudden type of thing or I will hurt her and I have several times. (BTW YAY! Im married no more condoms!!!)

ALSO... almost forgot... oral sex is not always great too. If you are so big that she cant comfortably go down on you she wont or she will but only for a short time. I am not a huge fan of oral because I was always getting nicked by teeth. If you had to go down on a guy and strain to keep your mouth as wide as it will go all of the time it would not be enjoyable. (Trust me)

From women friends of mine I have had a few tell me that every once in a while a big guy is great but only every once in a long while. Reason being they end up hurting or being sore for a day or two afterwords. Seems like a great idea before and during but afterwords not so much.

Would you believe that I actually broke a girls tailbone from rough sex that SHE initiated? (I know your going to call bullshit on that but it did happen... part of me is like IM AWESOME... the other part of me feels like an asshole for breaking it, truth of the matter is I feel more like the asshole then awesome.... still.)

Essentially, if you were huge and girls just wanted to use you as an oddity I am sure that would be cool in high school and college. But when you cant keep a relationship when you get older because of it not so good. (Cant say that was ever a problem for me but once again had to be very gentile)

Once again not saying I am that big or anything but a friends sister in college wanted to have sex with me just because of my size and made no bones about her not wanting a relationship with me. The guys in the locker room saw me and were joking about it in front of her one day and she wanted to see the proof. Never took advantage of it (I was in a relationship.. AND she was a distant buddys sister) but It kinda felt weird at the time to have a girl say she wanted to fuck me just to have a big guy then be done with me. (Should have railed her in retrospect)

However.... After saying its not always that great... that look you get when she takes you out and kinda heistates for a second is fucking great LOL.

The end all and be all is a guy who doesen't know that its not always the best to be big probably has never had someone complain about how big they are. I think you may also find that a girl who always says that bigger is better probably has never been hurt by a big guy or she just likes that sore feeling (I know some ladies do). Cant lie I like being sore after a good day of rough sex.

Just some food for thought.
Apr 12, 12:30 pm
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Alright the funny part of this is my lady friend and I were talking about this the other day. Guys who tell you how big they are usually turn out to be pretty small and insecure. The guys who are packing tend to not say anything because they do not ...
Last thought... Lucky for her.. if she is sore... I love going down on her so I am happy getting off other ways after I have made her cum another way.

Just sayin...

Oh and there's nothing like having a girl say no sex without a condom (Which I would not do anyway but still...) you tell her you don't have a condom so she says dont worry I have one a busts out a regular blue package trojan...
Its like what the hell am I going to do with that... Its like adding insult to injury LOL!
Apr 12, 12:34 pm
Inquisitor Inquisitor
I think all that you have said is true IT Guy. It should be noted though, where is the larger item going? Is it going in the mouth, vagina or anus? I suspect some people might be more willing to accept a larger tool in various places.
Apr 12, 2:05 pm
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Last thought... Lucky for her.. if she is sore... I love going down on her so I am happy getting off other ways after I have made her cum another way.

Just sayin...

Oh and there's nothing like having a girl say no sex without a ...
You hit on another very valid point. Size also hurts. Very true indeed. And it can be a mouthful for sure lol. Both of which could = mood busters after a long period.
Apr 12, 8:18 pm
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
I think all that you have said is true IT Guy. It should be noted though, where is the larger item going? Is it going in the mouth, vagina or anus? I suspect some people might be more willing to accept a larger tool in various places.
If we're talking huge, long, girthy and monstrous size I say definitely no anus lol.
Apr 12, 8:20 pm
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
I think all that you have said is true IT Guy. It should be noted though, where is the larger item going? Is it going in the mouth, vagina or anus? I suspect some people might be more willing to accept a larger tool in various places.
Completely right! I was only speaking of the vagina. She does like larger things else were Although... that kind of has to be pre-meditated as well.
Apr 12, 9:49 pm
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Vnessa
You hit on another very valid point. Size also hurts. Very true indeed. And it can be a mouthful for sure lol. Both of which could = mood busters after a long period.
Exactly!
Apr 12, 9:49 pm
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