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Because to a lot of people it does matter and they have been conditioned for many years to be very aware of the size of their penis -- it is absolutely no different than the whole breast size thing with men. Some guys prefer really big breasts that
Because to a lot of people it does matter and they have been conditioned for many years to be very aware of the size of their penis -- it is absolutely no different than the whole breast size thing with men. Some guys prefer really big breasts that could suffocate them in an unfortunate moment, while others prefer virtually non-existant breasts and others somewhere in between.
I, personally, don't think it's any different than when someone has a preference for a certain eye color, hair color, height/weight, or type of personality. Not to trivialize it in any way, but to be upset over such things is like being mad at someone because they prefer cats over dogs. We all have our oddities when it comes to what we like and don't like. The trick is not to disrepect those that don't fit the bill.
Exactly!!! "The trick is not to disrespect those that don't fit the bill." And you're absolutely right about that, too. I wish every difference and preference was equally as accepted. I have such a problem with making someone feel less than because of anything to do with their physical appearance, ugh!
We are all wired somewhat differently, so there is no telling for sure just by looking at them what will feel good or just hurt. I have been working on accommodating larger toys in hopes of being better prepared for whatever size I happen to come across in real life
Sort of a fitness program, lol, just in case. If I didn't have the time to do all the warm up necessary, I would not even go near a larger size...I'd run the other way. Smaller feels terrific to me and larger usually hurts. With the warm up (we're talking at least an hour), the larger does feel good, too, but I have to be so careful even then. From looking at me, you'd never guess I would react this way as I'm not a petite flower. I think there is someone to "fit" you out there and it really is how you & they perform the entirety of the act that makes the difference. I liked Bignuf's analogy with the bat, it's so true. And after all, there are hands, mouths and toys, too, so there are plenty of options to pleasure each other.