Bigger is better????

DaddyG DaddyG
Is bigger always better?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Rossie , Oriental husband and wife , Jesyra , LAndJ , Slutty Girl Problems , Yellow Dog , Isola , edeneve , Ansley , SexyTabby , ejrbrndps , RebelSentry , Bignuf , Husband and Wife , Sincerely Yours, N , charmedtomeetyou , Pete's Princess , smalltalkingbit , Wicked Wahine , C&K0143 , mfmtrios , ihavenipples , Kipperanne , nic25276 , andykh , LoveReImagined
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RonLee , StormOfSnakes , slynch , jeangel246 , KinkyCouple
5
Total votes: 31 (31 voters)
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12/14/2013
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Rossie Rossie
Nope, not for me.
12/15/2013
Oriental husband and wife Oriental husband and wife
Nope.
12/15/2013
LAndJ LAndJ
My current is my one and only. He's on the larger end of average and sometimes it's a lot to handle. It's all about the way it's used.
12/15/2013
Slutty Girl Problems Slutty Girl Problems
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Originally posted by DaddyG
Is bigger always better?
Sometimes, bigger is PAINFUL!
12/16/2013
RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by Slutty Girl Problems
Sometimes, bigger is PAINFUL!
Oh yes, I too have experienced that. However sometimes bigger is just right.
12/16/2013
Isola Isola
Not always. It depends.
12/18/2013
edeneve edeneve
bigger is too painful for me.
12/18/2013
Yellow Dog Yellow Dog
99% of the time, bigger is just bigger (more painful, harder to insert).
12/18/2013
Ansley Ansley
Vaginally -- yes. Anally? No.thank.you.
12/19/2013
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Ansley
Vaginally -- yes. Anally? No.thank.you.
Thank you! I'm not sure why women seem to have a problem admitting that larger (to a point) is better. My wife would never admit to wanting 'it' bigger, but she loves our dildos that are larger than me. To me that speaks for itself.

As far as anal goes - she prefers me (on the average side), but I like the stretch of a bigger toy like the O2 Revolution.
12/20/2013
Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Thank you! I'm not sure why women seem to have a problem admitting that larger (to a point) is better. My wife would never admit to wanting 'it' bigger, but she loves our dildos that are larger than me. To me that speaks for ... More
You're welcome. There's something to be said about that full feeling that a toy like that provides and while it's fun for the moment, it's not an every day thing. Hubs kind of digs it, too. He likes seeing it and there's an opportunity for some role play in there as well. It's fun and completely harmless.
12/21/2013
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by DaddyG
Is bigger always better?
Give a clumsy kid a huge club and throw a ball at him. Probably nothing much to watch in the next few moments. Give a professional ball player a slender bat, or even a tiny toy bat. Throw a ball at that guy and guess what, you will see what defines a pro from a rank armature. I will grant you that I have never had a guy who was "too tiny to find" or "hung like a horse", but every one was "in the average range" defined by the textbooks on anatomy (and believe me, I know for a fact that most guys, regardless of race, ethnicity or anything else, when erect, fall in that "average" range). In any case, my point is that the skill which any "tool" is used, far outweighs the advantage (or disadvantage) of size. One of my friends is married to a guy who is "hung like a horse", and they have to be very careful in the bedroom and are limited in what they can do, because things just "hurt". That doesn't sound like fun to either of them.
12/28/2013
Husband and Wife Husband and Wife
Nope not at all. To me size isn't as important as the passion between us that is what gets me super wet
Jan 8, 10:47 am
charmedtomeetyou charmedtomeetyou
Bigger is good, up to a certain point, but it's not always better
Jan 8, 11:47 am
Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
Bigger is not always better. Not only is it the skill of the man, but also your feelings for him that make sex better. Why are men are so preoccupied with their size? Unless a man is tiny or enormous, he should worry about other things than his size.
Jan 8, 10:59 pm
Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Pete's Princess
Bigger is not always better. Not only is it the skill of the man, but also your feelings for him that make sex better. Why are men are so preoccupied with their size? Unless a man is tiny or enormous, he should worry about other things than his ... More
Because to a lot of people it does matter and they have been conditioned for many years to be very aware of the size of their penis -- it is absolutely no different than the whole breast size thing with men. Some guys prefer really big breasts that could suffocate them in an unfortunate moment, while others prefer virtually non-existant breasts and others somewhere in between.

I, personally, don't think it's any different than when someone has a preference for a certain eye color, hair color, height/weight, or type of personality. Not to trivialize it in any way, but to be upset over such things is like being mad at someone because they prefer cats over dogs. We all have our oddities when it comes to what we like and don't like. The trick is not to disrepect those that don't fit the bill.
Jan 13, 1:14 pm
Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
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Originally posted by Ansley
Because to a lot of people it does matter and they have been conditioned for many years to be very aware of the size of their penis -- it is absolutely no different than the whole breast size thing with men. Some guys prefer really big breasts that ... More
Exactly!!! "The trick is not to disrespect those that don't fit the bill." And you're absolutely right about that, too. I wish every difference and preference was equally as accepted. I have such a problem with making someone feel less than because of anything to do with their physical appearance, ugh!

We are all wired somewhat differently, so there is no telling for sure just by looking at them what will feel good or just hurt. I have been working on accommodating larger toys in hopes of being better prepared for whatever size I happen to come across in real life Sort of a fitness program, lol, just in case. If I didn't have the time to do all the warm up necessary, I would not even go near a larger size...I'd run the other way. Smaller feels terrific to me and larger usually hurts. With the warm up (we're talking at least an hour), the larger does feel good, too, but I have to be so careful even then. From looking at me, you'd never guess I would react this way as I'm not a petite flower. I think there is someone to "fit" you out there and it really is how you & they perform the entirety of the act that makes the difference. I liked Bignuf's analogy with the bat, it's so true. And after all, there are hands, mouths and toys, too, so there are plenty of options to pleasure each other.
Jan 13, 2:51 pm
Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Wicked Wahine
Exactly!!! "The trick is not to disrespect those that don't fit the bill." And you're absolutely right about that, too. I wish every difference and preference was equally as accepted. I have such a problem with making someone feel ... More
See? Where as I am completely the opposite, the larger the better in my opinion and I am extremely petite...you just never know what's going to work for someone or what will not work for someone. I think it's awesome that you're trying to work yourself up to it. I think for me it is because I am so petite that I really, really get off on that stuffed-full feeling.
Jan 14, 4:13 pm
Istanbull Istanbull
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Thank you! I'm not sure why women seem to have a problem admitting that larger (to a point) is better. My wife would never admit to wanting 'it' bigger, but she loves our dildos that are larger than me. To me that speaks for ... More
Your assumptions are correct. You're never hear a woman wishing for a smaller cock. Because unlike breast, the penis actually serves a major function during sex. If size didn't matter than they would be making doldos smaller than 6". As a very under "average" man I can atest that havign a small cock makes sex less enjoyable. Any rear entry sex positions (i.e. spooning) are impossible as I can not reach her vagina. And since my wife is not open to anal at all that hole which I can reach is off limits, even though my size is perfect for anal penetration. Unfortunatly for us men there is nothign we can do about it. there are no real pills for a bigger dick. And there are no surgeries available because there's no research invested into such a thing. The only "Penis enlargement" there is gives a man half an inch and screws up his dick for life, plus it cost tens of thousands of dollars. The reason there's no research invested is because there's no money. The surgery is so expensive and the results so little that only rich men with huge wads of cash to blow will get it, but when a guy has a huge wallet he doesn't need a huge dick. So it's a catch 22.
Jan 15, 2:07 am
Oriental husband and wife Oriental husband and wife
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Originally posted by Istanbull
Your assumptions are correct. You're never hear a woman wishing for a smaller cock. Because unlike breast, the penis actually serves a major function during sex. If size didn't matter than they would be making doldos smaller than 6". As ... More
Hear, Hear, very well said. EF can probably also vouch that they sell more larger vibes and dildos than small skinny ones. Of course to each their own.
Jan 25, 10:06 pm
Sincerely Yours, N Sincerely Yours, N
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Originally posted by Istanbull
Your assumptions are correct. You're never hear a woman wishing for a smaller cock. Because unlike breast, the penis actually serves a major function during sex. If size didn't matter than they would be making doldos smaller than 6". As ... More
That's strange; the best PIV sex I've ever had was coincidentally with the smallest penis I've ever had sex with.

There are plenty of smaller dildos, though, and many of them have fantastic reviews. Take the SSA Glass Amethyst or the LELO Ella - both are small but more positive than some of the huge toys, such as the Vixskin Randy. After all, the g-spot is not very deep inside of a woman's body.

There is actually a lot of research going on in penis enlargement surgeries, since they would be in high demand if they made effective larger penises (rather than the... manual labor required to operate ones) at a lower cost. However, because of the construction of the penis itself, nothing is coming out of that research.
Jan 25, 10:26 pm
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