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Is bigger always better?
Alright the funny part of this is my lady friend and I were talking about this the other day. Guys who tell you how big they are usually turn out to be pretty small and insecure. The guys who are packing tend to not say anything because they do not have any insecurity about it and don't feel the need to talk about it unless asked.
When you tend to be on the bigger size, you find out that it isn't always the greatest thing because if you are hurting your woman during sex that's no good at all. Because painful sex leads to NO sex.
I can tell you I am just a bit short of 8 inches on a good day which isn't huge but I am very girthy. Now some would think that sounds like a great time... Not so much... Here's the problem. Magnum XL's are more than enough for my length but hurt me because they are not wide enough. If I have the condom on long enough it literally hurts. Yet again... leads to no sex this time from my end.
OH THATS COOL! No its not at all... Especially if a girl will only have sex with you if you have a condom... that means no sex for you. (I know been there)
She can handle me pretty well but she has to be really warmed up to take all of me. If she is super wet and ready to go its not a problem, but we really have to take it easy if its a sudden type of thing or I will hurt her and I have several times. (BTW YAY! Im married no more condoms!!!)
ALSO... almost forgot... oral sex is not always great too. If you are so big that she cant comfortably go down on you she wont or she will but only for a short time. I am not a huge fan of oral because I was always getting nicked by teeth. If you had to go down on a guy and strain to keep your mouth as wide as it will go all of the time it would not be enjoyable. (Trust me)
From women friends of mine I have had a few tell me that every once in a while a big guy is great but only every once in a long while. Reason being they end up hurting or being sore for a day or two afterwords. Seems like a great idea before and during but afterwords not so much.
Would you believe that I actually broke a girls tailbone from rough sex that SHE initiated? (I know your going to call bullshit on that but it did happen... part of me is like IM AWESOME... the other part of me feels like an asshole for breaking it, truth of the matter is I feel more like the asshole then awesome.... still.)
Essentially, if you were huge and girls just wanted to use you as an oddity I am sure that would be cool in high school and college. But when you cant keep a relationship when you get older because of it not so good. (Cant say that was ever a problem for me but once again had to be very gentile)
Once again not saying I am that big or anything but a friends sister in college wanted to have sex with me just because of my size and made no bones about her not wanting a relationship with me. The guys in the locker room saw me and were joking about it in front of her one day and she wanted to see the proof. Never took advantage of it (I was in a relationship.. AND she was a distant buddys sister) but It kinda felt weird at the time to have a girl say she wanted to fuck me just to have a big guy then be done with me. (Should have railed her in retrospect)
However.... After saying its not always that great... that look you get when she takes you out and kinda heistates for a second is fucking great LOL.
The end all and be all is a guy who doesen't know that its not always the best to be big probably has never had someone complain about how big they are. I think you may also find that a girl who always says that bigger is better probably has never been hurt by a big guy or she just likes that sore feeling (I know some ladies do). Cant lie I like being sore after a good day of rough sex.
Just some food for thought.