I'm a bisexual girl, I've only ever been with another girl. I love anal. Somethimes I masturbate that way, I'm saving up for a nice anal toy. My girlfriend isn't so into giving me anal; when she does it, she's doing it for me. People always seem to think that the penetrating partner wants it more and that "women/bottom gay guys are just doing it for their lovers." I'm not saying that being pressured into anal isn't a problem--it totally is, and my friends talk about it and it horrifies me--but who else really, really likes something inside their butt and doesn't do it for their partner?