How do you prepare for anal sex?

cujo467 cujo467
Love anal! Clean in shower
04/21/2011
Steve of Eden Steve of Eden
I am a gay guy and I am OCD about cleanliness... I have to have had a bowel movement, then light enema, then still a shower and or quick baby wipe clean up... and I expect the same from a partner...
06/28/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Liz2
For most of us, anal sex is not usually a spontaneous decision. To be pleasurable some thought and planning is entailed beyond lots of lube. Though I love anal intercourse, I am not always "just ready" for the experience.
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We don't do any real prep beyond making sure we are very "clean" and fresh from the shower. Of course, making sure your bowel is empty (recent bowel movement) will make sure that rectum is empty and never had a problem with "residual" anything coming out...in decades of doing anal. We love it...just lube, lube and then add more lube. Then, of course, add extra lube and then some more.
06/28/2011
robertk2380 robertk2380
If I suspect our activities later that day might include pegging, I will make sure to use a bulb enema once or twice a few hours before, followed by a good shower. Have to feel clean to really enjoy it. Of course going slow when we first start is essential.
06/28/2011
RedGoddess RedGoddess
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Originally posted by Alicia
I chose a lot of things..we joke that all the stars need to align justttt right for it to happen for us.
I agree to this! us too
06/29/2011
bayosgirl bayosgirl
I'm a female and I haven't had anal in several years, but I would just take a nice hot shower and scrub with soap. I also liked to "go" at least a few hours before. Never had any problems with leakage or diarrhea afterwards.

side note: why are enemas bad?
07/12/2011
ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by bayosgirl
I'm a female and I haven't had anal in several years, but I would just take a nice hot shower and scrub with soap. I also liked to "go" at least a few hours before. Never had any problems with leakage or diarrhea afterwards.

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There are some things that are known about enemas and some that are not known.

We know that putting chemicals in your colon can cause damage to it, and there are even some cases of people being put in the hospital because of a soap enema damaging their colon or the hyperosmotic "Fleet-type" enemas causing electrolyte imbalance. It's also known that if you absorb too much water you can have electrolyte imbalances the other way, but you'd have to take a pretty big enema for that. Plain water has also been shown in one study to cause observable changes to the colonic mucosa, but it isn't known what that means/what effects that has yet.

If you do enemas it's best to keep them as small as possible and consider using a saline solution. Routinely taking larger enemas can potentially mess up the body's "trigger".

In general there don't seem to be many large-scale studies about enemas, so the general attitude is "be careful just in case". Not that I really blame them for the lack of studies - it isn't the sort of field that gives you respect as a researcher, and finding subjects will be hard. "We're doing a study. We want to give you lots of enemas and then do a bunch of uncomfortable and embarrassing tests to see if they have any bad effects" isn't going to have me lining up.

That said, I usually take one before buttplay because I'm much more comfortable when I know I'm clean, and I know that I'm not always naturally clean there. I try to be safe and sane about it and haven't had any problems.
07/12/2011
Beck Beck
bm and a shower before anything like that.
07/13/2011
Powder Powder
Generally we try to get her to relax, and perhaps start with some kind of toy first.
09/04/2011
The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I make sure I use the restroom and clean up in the shower.
09/04/2011
nana.inuk nana.inuk
I'd want to do...all of the above..or something...but I just don't do anal
09/05/2011
Kayla&JJ Kayla&JJ
Usually for us, anal is a last minute decision.
09/05/2011
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Scrub-a-dub in the shower before anal
Jan 5, 1:36 am
LAndJ LAndJ
We've just started experimenting with anal play, so we're still trying things
Jan 9, 4:47 pm
Anjulie Anjulie
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Originally posted by Midway through
I think that a combination of the above is more appropriate for me. I don't do any one in particular.
Same here
Jan 9, 7:47 pm
BabyFace Squirter BabyFace Squirter
My old boyfriend and I hardly ever had to prepare, I was always just ready for it. But I'm just not interested in anal play with my new boyfriend.
Jan 9, 10:25 pm
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