How long did it take you from your beginning anal play until you were ready for anal sex? I'm still just thinking about it, but I'm starting to wonder if I'm really missing out? Also feel free to share how much time and how often you engaged in anal play before you were ready.
How long did you take from your beginning anal play until you were ready for anal sex?
Slickdick
Wouldn't that depend upon, the size of the cock you're going to be fucked by?
Many years ago I dated a guy who was HUGE. We were both relatively inexperienced and didn't use near enough lube. I thought that I'd prepared enough, I hadn't... it REALLY hurt. Learn from my mistake. Lube, lots of lube and dilation. Your partner should help, that's part of the fun!
Many years ago I dated a guy who was HUGE. We were both relatively inexperienced and didn't use near enough lube. I thought that I'd prepared enough, I hadn't... it REALLY hurt. Learn from my mistake. Lube, lots of lube and dilation. Your partner should help, that's part of the fun!
Feb 15, 9:18 pm
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My first real lover was very gentle and I trusted him well before then. Once, when we were alone, with lots of time, he started playing with my tush, then turned me over and kissed/licked it for half an hour. I actually asked him to "have sex with me there, please", I was so hot. I had read about anal sex in the little "Forum Letters" magazine and it was obvious he could school me. He spent another half hour using his finger and lots of lube in me, while bringing me off twice with his tongue on my clit.
Originally posted by
Gracie
How long did it take you from your beginning anal play until you were ready for anal sex? I'm still just thinking about it, but I'm starting to wonder if I'm really missing out? Also feel free to share how much time and how often you engaged in anal
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How long did it take you from your beginning anal play until you were ready for anal sex? I'm still just thinking about it, but I'm starting to wonder if I'm really missing out? Also feel free to share how much time and how often you engaged in anal play before you were ready.
When he finally penetrated my anus, it was slow, gentle and easier then my first vaginal penetration...and I REALLY enjoyed it.
I have been an anal fan ever since.
My darling hubby was likewise schooled by some woman who KNEW what they were doing and so when we met and started dating, we were both big into oral/anal/vaginal play and the rest, as they say, is history.
Feb 16, 9:00 pm
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It was less then thirty minutes between his tongue in my butt to his finger in my butt to his cock in my butt and indeed, once he WAS in there, he moved SO slow, SO gently and I was SO well lubed and relaxed (NO alcohol or drugs), that it was...amazing.
Originally posted by
Gracie
Thanks for the answers y'all! I really didn't expect anyone to chose the first 2 responses, but I decided to put them in just in case. I am glad I did. I guess I am kind of clueless still. I guess it doesn't take as long to get ready as I
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Thanks for the answers y'all! I really didn't expect anyone to chose the first 2 responses, but I decided to put them in just in case. I am glad I did. I guess I am kind of clueless still. I guess it doesn't take as long to get ready as I thought!
Feb 16, 9:01 pm
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That is the key. TONS of lube. More then you ever think you need...then extra.
Originally posted by
Rossie
It took me a few days to go from using fingers and anal plugs, to actually have anal sex. Please take your time to get comfortable with fingers and toys first, do not rush into anything. AND don't forget plenty of lube!
Feb 16, 9:02 pm
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Yes, you are missing out...but as I have posted here a hundred times, DON'T buy into the DOGGY STYLE hype of porn. YES, a lot of folks here DO enjoy it that way, but for ME it never has worked. I know others too, who enjoy anal, but ONLY if laying on their left side or missionary with legs WAY up (over his shoulders). Best done if HE is standing by side of bed (thus stable) and you are at edge of bed, butt right at edge and legs up.
Originally posted by
Gracie
How long did it take you from your beginning anal play until you were ready for anal sex? I'm still just thinking about it, but I'm starting to wonder if I'm really missing out? Also feel free to share how much time and how often you engaged in anal
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How long did it take you from your beginning anal play until you were ready for anal sex? I'm still just thinking about it, but I'm starting to wonder if I'm really missing out? Also feel free to share how much time and how often you engaged in anal play before you were ready.
USE THICK lube...and twice as much as you THINK you might need...then use more. This is all about LUBE. Also, FORGET the porn movie thrusting stuff. GO SLOW. YOU control his movements. In fact, often he should go a TINY bit..then just STOP until YOU say "go". It is still incredibly intimate and tight for him...so he won't mind.
Enjoy.
Feb 16, 9:06 pm
I don't know, my experience is kind of weird.
I played with a dildo anally, briefly, at age 16. Three years later (give or take) I had anal sex for the first time. I can't remember if he rimmed me before or after. There was definitely no toy insertion for those three years, which makes me surprised I could take a cock with so little pain.
I played with a dildo anally, briefly, at age 16. Three years later (give or take) I had anal sex for the first time. I can't remember if he rimmed me before or after. There was definitely no toy insertion for those three years, which makes me surprised I could take a cock with so little pain.
Feb 17, 1:43 am
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Bignuff I really appriciate all your encouragement and advice! Thank you!
Originally posted by
Bignuf
Yes, you are missing out...but as I have posted here a hundred times, DON'T buy into the DOGGY STYLE hype of porn. YES, a lot of folks here DO enjoy it that way, but for ME it never has worked. I know others too, who enjoy anal, but ONLY if laying on
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Yes, you are missing out...but as I have posted here a hundred times, DON'T buy into the DOGGY STYLE hype of porn. YES, a lot of folks here DO enjoy it that way, but for ME it never has worked. I know others too, who enjoy anal, but ONLY if laying on their left side or missionary with legs WAY up (over his shoulders). Best done if HE is standing by side of bed (thus stable) and you are at edge of bed, butt right at edge and legs up.
USE THICK lube...and twice as much as you THINK you might need...then use more. This is all about LUBE. Also, FORGET the porn movie thrusting stuff. GO SLOW. YOU control his movements. In fact, often he should go a TINY bit..then just STOP until YOU say "go". It is still incredibly intimate and tight for him...so he won't mind.
Enjoy.
USE THICK lube...and twice as much as you THINK you might need...then use more. This is all about LUBE. Also, FORGET the porn movie thrusting stuff. GO SLOW. YOU control his movements. In fact, often he should go a TINY bit..then just STOP until YOU say "go". It is still incredibly intimate and tight for him...so he won't mind.
Enjoy.
Feb 17, 5:23 pm
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Just calling it the way I see and experience it. You are SO welcome. We really enjoy anal as part of our regular love life and I will be honest, we are not at ALL into "pain"...so it has been all about PLEASURE from the get go. Anal sex is amazing and can make me GUSH, a real "anal orgasm" some times. Just take it at YOUR own speed. YOU control the show and you can then BOTH enjoy what may be the MOST "intimate" of "secrets" and the most intense and trusting love gift you can give him (or he to you). Enjoy!!!!
Originally posted by
Gracie
Bignuff I really appriciate all your encouragement and advice! Thank you!
Feb 17, 11:37 pm
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If I ever had pain, we STOPPED whatever it was and switched gears. We are simply NOT into pain at all. For ME the key is getting the right position. When that is right, anal is simply an amazing, intense sexual thrill ride.
Originally posted by
bayosgirl
I don't know, my experience is kind of weird.
I played with a dildo anally, briefly, at age 16. Three years later (give or take) I had anal sex for the first time. I can't remember if he rimmed me before or after. There was definitely no toy ...
I played with a dildo anally, briefly, at age 16. Three years later (give or take) I had anal sex for the first time. I can't remember if he rimmed me before or after. There was definitely no toy ...
I don't know, my experience is kind of weird.
I played with a dildo anally, briefly, at age 16. Three years later (give or take) I had anal sex for the first time. I can't remember if he rimmed me before or after. There was definitely no toy insertion for those three years, which makes me surprised I could take a cock with so little pain.
I played with a dildo anally, briefly, at age 16. Three years later (give or take) I had anal sex for the first time. I can't remember if he rimmed me before or after. There was definitely no toy insertion for those three years, which makes me surprised I could take a cock with so little pain.
Feb 17, 11:38 pm
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In my opinion, I will never force myself; it depends on whether or not a woman wants the experience or not!! I am more of a cunnilingus expert! And I know I can satisfy the woman!
Originally posted by
Gracie
How long did it take you from your beginning anal play until you were ready for anal sex? I'm still just thinking about it, but I'm starting to wonder if I'm really missing out? Also feel free to share how much time and how often you engaged in anal
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How long did it take you from your beginning anal play until you were ready for anal sex? I'm still just thinking about it, but I'm starting to wonder if I'm really missing out? Also feel free to share how much time and how often you engaged in anal play before you were ready.
Feb 18, 12:16 am
lisasharrer
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Originally posted by
Gracie
How long did it take you from your beginning anal play until you were ready for anal sex? I'm still just thinking about it, but I'm starting to wonder if I'm really missing out? Also feel free to share how much time and how often you engaged in anal
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How long did it take you from your beginning anal play until you were ready for anal sex? I'm still just thinking about it, but I'm starting to wonder if I'm really missing out? Also feel free to share how much time and how often you engaged in anal play before you were ready.
Apr 17, 12:52 am
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