Is it best to keep up the pace, or pace it out??

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Is it best to keep up the pace, or pace it out??

 
 
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JesseTX JesseTX
I have only had anal from my lady now for about a year, maybe longer.
Earlier on we would do it maybe once a month...while we were having sex on average 4-5 times a week. At this rate it seemed that it was not getting any easier.
More recently, there have been times we have done anal 2-3 times a week at our normal rate of having sex. It seems a lot easier now, but there is one thing playing at the back of my mind.
Is it becoming easier because she is physically more adapted to it....or might it be from her mental attitude towards it?
Jan 22, 12:38 am
Elnoa Elnoa
Both. Why not talk to her about it? It's important to know whether she really likes it and it's becoming easier, or perhaps she's just going along with it to please you?
Jan 22, 12:55 am
JesseTX JesseTX
To your later suggestion I would say not. She consents very willingly and really gets into it...ie- pushes back, moves with me, talks dirty.....
Talking about it though seems to become an awkward discussion with us, because she has a hard time putting words to her thoughts.
She does tell me she enjoys it more, and that it seems easier now than when we started.
Jan 23, 12:14 am
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by JesseTX
I have only had anal from my lady now for about a year, maybe longer.
Earlier on we would do it maybe once a month...while we were having sex on average 4-5 times a week. At this rate it seemed that it was not getting any easier.
More recently, ... More
Both, plus the anal sphincter, like any muscle in the body, can be trained and she has learned to "relax it". I know it worked that way for me and my hubby, years ago.
Jan 23, 9:09 pm
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