We tend to preplan all our sexual fun. Have the right toys, the right lubes, the right lingerie on, etc. We discuss, often a day ahead, what we plan or hope to do, and then do it. Sounds "not romantic" to some,but for us, the planning is as much foreplay as anything, and discussing these things is a turn on as well. It also simply takes the stress off, knowing what is "planned" together. Of course. If one of us wants a morning romp, or things just "come up", during the day, they are not planed, but for the most part, we are "ready".
Anyone else pre plan their anal fun, or is it "if it happens, it happens"?