Ladies, why do you enjoy anal?

<3BF <3BF
What makes anal sex an enjoyable experience? Or if you didn't like it or haven't had it, why not?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I enjoy anal sex
43  (73%)
I do not enjoy anal sex
11  (19%)
I have not had anal sex
5  (8%)
Total votes: 59
Poll is closed
02/25/2012
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JessCee JessCee
The only thing that makes it an enjoyable experience for me is knowing that my partner is beyond satisfied when we do it. Other than that, nothing!
02/25/2012
<3BF <3BF
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Originally posted by JessCee
The only thing that makes it an enjoyable experience for me is knowing that my partner is beyond satisfied when we do it. Other than that, nothing!
I should have put something like that as an option in the poll. That is one concern I have because I want my partner to enjoy it beyond the knowledge that I enjoy it; that's why I wanted to ask what women see in it.
02/25/2012
JessCee JessCee
Quote:
Originally posted by <3BF
I should have put something like that as an option in the poll. That is one concern I have because I want my partner to enjoy it beyond the knowledge that I enjoy it; that's why I wanted to ask what women see in it.
Oh, okay... I see where you're going now. LOL

I can think of only one time where it was somewhat enjoyable to me. For some reason that night I was really, REALLY relaxed and lucky for me, he was really, REALLY patient. It took what seemed like forever (probably around 10 minutes) to get comfortable for me, but taking it slow, being patient, and being able to stay super relaxed worked. For some reason that hasn't happened since... I think it's mainly me not being able to relax *shrug* but I dunno.

I know there are many other people here that can give you answers 10x better though!!! LOL
02/25/2012
dbm6907 dbm6907
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Originally posted by JessCee
The only thing that makes it an enjoyable experience for me is knowing that my partner is beyond satisfied when we do it. Other than that, nothing!
Same here! It doesn't really do anything for me, personally, but my partner loves it
02/25/2012
godweensatan godweensatan
ass sex is the future. learn to love it, or go extinct!!!
02/25/2012
Megan Jean Megan Jean
I enjoy it because it forces me to relax.
In order for me to enjoy anal sex, I have to force myself to be mentally and physically relaxed.
As a normally stressed out person, I enjoy this little break from stress
02/25/2012
freda freda
Quote:
Originally posted by <3BF
What makes anal sex an enjoyable experience? Or if you didn't like it or haven't had it, why not?
its not for me
02/25/2012
Rossie Rossie
I enjoy the psychological effects of anal sex more than the physical side of it - tabooed and erotic sex! To me, anal sex itself isn't as pleasurable as vaginal sex, I always need additional stimulation on my clit, or else I cannot climax. My husband will pick PIV sex over anal any day.
02/25/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by <3BF
What makes anal sex an enjoyable experience? Or if you didn't like it or haven't had it, why not?
It is amazingly intense. Very intimate and trusting. Probably a more "bonding" and intimate experience then vaginal sex in many ways. The feeling is incredible and my orgasms, when combined with clitoral and/or vaginal play is AMAZING. What is NOT to love???
02/26/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Rossie
I enjoy the psychological effects of anal sex more than the physical side of it - tabooed and erotic sex! To me, anal sex itself isn't as pleasurable as vaginal sex, I always need additional stimulation on my clit, or else I cannot climax. My ... More
It used to be a "taboo" psychological extra thrill" decades ago. Now it is part of our regular love life...so that is not a component. However, the TRUST needed for anal is far more then vaginal, so it IS a strong loving/bonding thing. I happen to find it different, but equally intense a feeling to vaginal penetration.
02/26/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by godweensatan
ass sex is the future. learn to love it, or go extinct!!!
I love anal play, however, this is just....odd. I dare say if all we did was ANAL, then we WOULD go extinct.
02/26/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Megan Jean
I enjoy it because it forces me to relax.
In order for me to enjoy anal sex, I have to force myself to be mentally and physically relaxed.
As a normally stressed out person, I enjoy this little break from stress
VERY well said. YES, this is part of it indeed. EXCELLENT point. Thank you.
02/26/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by JessCee
The only thing that makes it an enjoyable experience for me is knowing that my partner is beyond satisfied when we do it. Other than that, nothing!
If you are enjoying HIM enjoying it, then start to TELL him what to do for YOU, to make it enjoyable. Honest, it can be AMAZING for you too. There are SO many happy nerves back there!!!!!!!!!!!
02/26/2012
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by JessCee
Oh, okay... I see where you're going now. LOL

I can think of only one time where it was somewhat enjoyable to me. For some reason that night I was really, REALLY relaxed and lucky for me, he was really, REALLY patient. It took what seemed ... More
JessCee, I have to have an orgasm or more than one before I can have anal sex. It's relaxing and encourages me to have more while we're busy later. We also figured out (well, it was My Man's idea) to use a dildo or phallic vibe vaginally, which is not only comfortable, but helps stimulate the G Spot making it even more fun. Also, there's no chance that the penis will "pop back in" the vagina and contaminate it when something is already in there. These two tips, plus lots of good water based lube works very well for us.

I enjoy it because it feels good, it, of course has that "nasty" reputation and of course because he likes it. But, it feels good for me, too. The feelings, physically and emotionally, during this form of sex are so intense. I go into an altered state of consciousness. It's really hard to explain.
02/26/2012
Lucky21 Lucky21
She really likes it on occasion. She usually lets me know when she's ready.
02/26/2012
richsam richsam
Quote:
Originally posted by <3BF
What makes anal sex an enjoyable experience? Or if you didn't like it or haven't had it, why not?
I do not enjoy anal sex
03/01/2012
Apirka Apirka
I've only tried it a couple times, but I didn't particularly care for it.
03/06/2012
purple579 purple579
Quote:
Originally posted by <3BF
What makes anal sex an enjoyable experience? Or if you didn't like it or haven't had it, why not?
I have only ever enjoyed it once and I honestly could not explain to you how or why. Every other time besides that one experience has hurt like hell and those experiences were before and after with the same guy.
03/08/2012
Mwar Mwar
I like it but i have to be already WELL in the mood and have clitoral stimulation. It makes things more intense.
03/16/2012
godweensatan godweensatan
its awesome!
03/16/2012
Highmaintenancegirl916 Highmaintenancegirl916
i love it.its a great feeling.
03/20/2012
Brenard Brenard
My girlfriend loves it because it is a different feeling from vaginal.
03/20/2012
HannahPanda HannahPanda
I love it
03/20/2012
Trepier Trepier
My girlfriend and I are just beginners, but so far she is enjoying it. To her it has a different feel.
03/23/2012
Beck Beck
I LOVE it! I beg for it. I do it sololy and I do it regularly. Anal can be amazing.
03/23/2012
RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
I really like it. I wish I got it more often.

And... It feels amazing to be double stuffed!
03/23/2012
prettynpink prettynpink
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
It used to be a "taboo" psychological extra thrill" decades ago. Now it is part of our regular love life...so that is not a component. However, the TRUST needed for anal is far more then vaginal, so it IS a strong loving/bonding thing. ... More
i fully agree
03/29/2012
catsin catsin
I only enjoy anal when I know that it will be clean and considerate.
03/29/2012
Deeder Deeder
For me it's one of those things that gets more enjoyable the more I do it. At first I was pretty leery about it, but now I'm more along the lines of "Oh, HELL yeah!"

That, and (as gross as it sounds) sometimes when you're feeling "bound up" it really does the trick. Just sayin'.
03/30/2012
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