Like it, or deal with it?

misterazor misterazor
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any women out there that love anal sex...or do you just take it to keep him happy?
11/25/2012
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deltalima deltalima
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Originally posted by misterazor
any women out there that love anal sex...or do you just take it to keep him happy?
I hate it and thankfully he doesn't seem into it but I would if he like it.
11/25/2012
kendra30752 kendra30752
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Originally posted by misterazor
any women out there that love anal sex...or do you just take it to keep him happy?
Oh dear. I could not imagine just "taking anal sex to make him happy" and I could not imagine HIM expecting or even wanting that of me. Anal is something that would be extremely painful for me. It comes along with serious risks (especially for someone with some issues already, making anal something that'd be more risky). No. I would not put up with something that painful and that risky just for some selfish person, and I highly doubt I'd have gotten with my partner in the first place if he was that selfish.
11/25/2012
misterazor misterazor
seems like a deal-breaker if the guy were to ask it of someone who really didn't want to. i mean, a deal-breaker for her.
11/25/2012
Martiniman Martiniman
My wife has never tried it, doesn't want to try it and says she will not try it. I'd love to try it, but I respect her wishes. To many other things to explore to obsess about it. And just a personal note...I'm happy that she isn't willing to take it in the ass to make me happy. If she's doesn't enjoy it I don't want to do it with her. Maybe I feel it would dampen my fun if I know she's not enjoying herself, but to many other things to do that we both mutually enjoy.
11/25/2012
geliebt geliebt
I love it Both my partner and I are really into anal, which makes us both really happy And he's damn good at working with my body, too! It's awesome
11/25/2012
Melani Melani
I usually enjoy it strictly for how it feels for me, but during the times I don't, I still enjoy it because I know he's loving it. Also, it has always been me suggesting it; he never asks for it.
11/25/2012
misterazor misterazor
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Originally posted by geliebt
I love it Both my partner and I are really into anal, which makes us both really happy And he's damn good at working with my body, too! It's awesome
thanks for being so honest. happy for you guys!
11/26/2012
Nympho88 Nympho88
I love it and am usually the one to suggest it!!! Its an amazing orgasm
02/07/2013
MK434 MK434
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Originally posted by Nympho88
I love it and am usually the one to suggest it!!! Its an amazing orgasm
Same here! I have noticed that now that I have started getting older and have had 2 kids I have a harder time with orgasms vaganily but anal never lets me down!
02/07/2013
melliegirl melliegirl
I do it to make him happy
03/07/2013
Nympho88 Nympho88
Some of these comments make me sad! You should never do something that makes you uncomfortable just to make someone else happy! There are other ways to please your man that you both can enjoy! If he loves you he would never ask you to do something that makes you uncomfortable.
Mar 14, 10:30 am
SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
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Originally posted by Nympho88
Some of these comments make me sad! You should never do something that makes you uncomfortable just to make someone else happy! There are other ways to please your man that you both can enjoy! If he loves you he would never ask you to do something ... More
I was having a similar thought. Too often people think that they need to engage in things just make their partner happy. Often times the very fact that they don't want or like those acts but still do it for the sake of their partners happiness leads to resentment.

I always ask people who bring this up to me, "would you want you partner doing something that absolutely hate just to make you happy?" I usually hear "No, that would be wrong." at which point I ask "Then why would you be willing to do the same?"

If your partner loves you, they will understand. Yes there are deal breakers (things that a person needs in their sexual life) those should be discussed openly and honestly, without any pressure being applied from either side.
Mar 14, 12:44 pm
Nympho88 Nympho88
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Originally posted by SaucyxGirl
I was having a similar thought. Too often people think that they need to engage in things just make their partner happy. Often times the very fact that they don't want or like those acts but still do it for the sake of their partners happiness ... More
Could not have said it better! If they love you they will lovingly understand and together you can both come up with new things to do that make you both happy!
Mar 14, 4:51 pm
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