My wife has never tried it, doesn't want to try it and says she will not try it. I'd love to try it, but I respect her wishes. To many other things to explore to obsess about it. And just a personal note...I'm happy that she isn't willing to take it in the ass to make me happy. If she's doesn't enjoy it I don't want to do it with her. Maybe I feel it would dampen my fun if I know she's not enjoying herself, but to many other things to do that we both mutually enjoy.