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My boyfriend likes having anal every now and then. The past few times we have tried it has been uncomfortable and hurt. Is there any tips or advice that could make it easier and possibly more pleasurable?
Basically it means that you probably rush into the "business" too much and of course it's slightly uncomfortable. The tips that have been given in the posts above are great. I found that if you wear a butt plug like the Ryder
just about 15-30 minutes before (of course you can wear it for a longer period) you will be more than prepared for it.
The other thing is that you could add some anal play when you have your solo "sessions", this way you will be able to find out how you like it, how much warm up you need and how you get off from it. Investing into a dildo like Blush UR3
or it's smaller cousins will certainly help on the way there.
If you have material concerns you should look at silicone dildos like the Spur
. However I'm really more into realistic materials.