Tips and advice for anal?

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Tips and advice for anal?

guard083 guard083
My boyfriend likes having anal every now and then. The past few times we have tried it has been uncomfortable and hurt. Is there any tips or advice that could make it easier and possibly more pleasurable?
07/30/2012
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Littleone7 Littleone7
I had this problem and what seemed to work was he got me off first with oral then we used baby oil as lube and it wasn't anywhere near as horrible as the first few times we tried and it actually felt kind of good. It seems like the more relaxed you are the better the more tense up the more it hurts so getting off first helps and a lube that has nothing in it that could burn or irritate hence the baby oil. Good luck.
07/30/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Go slow - start with a finger, then 2. Lube is also important - but baby oil my not be the best choice. I prefer silicone lube - others use premium water-based lube like Maximus.
07/31/2012
Chou Wang Chou Wang
Quote:
Originally posted by guard083
My boyfriend likes having anal every now and then. The past few times we have tried it has been uncomfortable and hurt. Is there any tips or advice that could make it easier and possibly more pleasurable?
Basically it means that you probably rush into the "business" too much and of course it's slightly uncomfortable. The tips that have been given in the posts above are great. I found that if you wear a butt plug like the Ryder just about 15-30 minutes before (of course you can wear it for a longer period) you will be more than prepared for it.

The other thing is that you could add some anal play when you have your solo "sessions", this way you will be able to find out how you like it, how much warm up you need and how you get off from it. Investing into a dildo like Blush UR3 or it's smaller cousins will certainly help on the way there.

If you have material concerns you should look at silicone dildos like the Spur. However I'm really more into realistic materials.
07/31/2012
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