Who initiated the anal sex discussion?

libbyv libbyv
who brought up the subject of anal sex in your relationship? you or your partner
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SMichelle SMichelle
My partner brought it up.
K101 K101
Ummm... I don't remember. It's been 6 years since we got together, but I remember the first time we really discussed it. It was a NO for both of us, but I believe we both were on the topic. Hell, I was just shocked into bliss when I realized he wasn't going to beg and threaten me with anal sex like every single other male on the planet I've ever been with. Ugh! What a relief. No anal sex pressure here! But if I really had some interest in it, I'm sure he'd go through with it. We talk about butt sex, usually joking about it, but I doubt it's something we'll ever get into.
Rossie Rossie
I did!
toy review man toy review man
My wife did. I was surprised, but went for it .
nikki0668 nikki0668
my partner
Bullfroggy and Rose Bullfroggy and Rose
not sure but she likes it more than I do
Undecided Undecided
Usually it is my partner who brings it up
leanright69 leanright69
It was part of a conversation where we said maybe. But he brought it up first. Non verbally with finger play and rimming.
AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
I brought it up first but it's only in the past year or so that it's become something we do regularly and often.
Supervixen Supervixen
In every relationship I've been in where it's happened, I have been the instigator.
ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
I actually brought it up. When we first got together when we were 16, I said that was one thing I wouldn't ever do. He said ok and never brought it up again. About a year ago (maybe a little less?) I expressed interest in it. He was excited and we tried multiple times until recently when we were finally successful. He is not really huge about it like a lot of guys are, but he thoroughly enjoys it especially now!
LadyRelentless LadyRelentless
One of the first times we hooked up he said "you can touch me anywhere" and I thought oh good, and started touchin his butt, which is what he meant.
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