Ummm... I don't remember. It's been 6 years since we got together, but I remember the first time we really discussed it. It was a NO for both of us, but I believe we both were on the topic. Hell, I was just shocked into bliss when I realized he wasn't going to beg and threaten me with anal sex like every single other male on the planet I've ever been with. Ugh! What a relief. No anal sex pressure here!
But if I really had some interest in it, I'm sure he'd go through with it. We talk about butt sex, usually joking about it, but I doubt it's something we'll ever get into.