Are your orgasms the same "intensity" with a partner as you have during "self pleasuring"?

Bignuf Bignuf
Is there some component of relaxation or lack of need to pleasure someone else that makes a solo orgasm more intense or perhaps is the fact you have a partner and are thus directly turned on and excited make partner sex the source of a more powerful orgasm....or is the "big O" the same, no matter what, to you?
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SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Orgasms are much more pleasurable with my partner than solo. He knows exactly what I want and always makes me cum harder.
09/08/2013
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife agrees with SecretKingsters - her orgasms with me are the best. But it's fair to say that some orgasms are 'routine' while others are knee-doubling - body quaking affairs.

Her frame of mind definitely plays the key role - although I need to be on my A-game for the best orgasms.
09/09/2013
wicked48 wicked48
Definitely better with my partner!
09/09/2013
Billie Bones Billie Bones
Mine are much better alone. No matter how good my communication is with my partners I'm the only person who knows exactly what I want.
10/11/2013
guppiefish guppiefish
More frequent alone, and usually satisfying. It's more rare with my partner, but when it happens, it's amazing. So I guess neither is perfect without the other?
10/11/2013
Edeneve Edeneve
oral is always better w/ a partner - hands down. but vaginal & G-spot O's are mostly as well as much better with my treasures.
10/11/2013
KittyGoesRawr KittyGoesRawr
Masturbating with a vibe is like WHOOMP THERE IT IS. But I'd take an orgasm with my girlfriend over that any day, even if it isn't as intense. It's much more fun to share that feeling, am I right?
10/15/2013
konicaguy konicaguy
Always better with a partner.
10/17/2013
symbiasin symbiasin
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Originally posted by Bignuf
Is there some component of relaxation or lack of need to pleasure someone else that makes a solo orgasm more intense or perhaps is the fact you have a partner and are thus directly turned on and excited make partner sex the source of a more powerful ... More
With a knowledgeable lover who doesn't just 'poke and git', but who takes the time to give me orgasms, the orgasms are more intense and more personal than a toy.
11/02/2013
Happy Kupple Happy Kupple
With partner(s).
11/02/2013
CinnamonNights CinnamonNights
In terms of sex, I haven't gotten O yet. In terms of masturbation in front of my boyfriend I find its about the same if not lessened in intensity on some occasions. I find that doing it in front of him embarrasses me and makes me a little anxious, so I tend to have a harder time finishing well.
11/02/2013
Nympho88 Nympho88
Sadly mine are normally more intense solo. But I think that only because I can focus more on me rather than him and I at the same time! But it feels great both ways so why worry!
Mar 15, 11:10 am
MissMandii MissMandii
This has actually changed for me in recent years. I've been having sex with my husband since we were literally kids, like 14 and 15. I've also been masturbating since I was about 8 years old. Suffice to say for a good long time masturbation was the way to go, I knew what I wanted, and the clumsy 15 year old boy did not. Over the years though sex between us has really turned into something worthy of novels. We've been doing it for 10 years now, so I guess we've had plenty of practice. He knows my body probably better than I do at this point, and these days my orgasms are phenomenal during sex. Marathon long, knee shaking, breath taking, sweat breaking, orgasms... while masturbation is still the same old same old. It's nice to be able to masturbate, and have a quick no hassle orgasm on occasion, but I'd take the kind I get from sex any day.
Mar 15, 12:22 pm
epiphanyjayne epiphanyjayne
I enjoy my orgasms more with my hubby. But they can be very similar in intensity. The best ones are with my hubby.
Mar 15, 5:27 pm
Eliza Eliza
I would say mine are "better" solo but more powerful/satisfying when I'm with my partner, if that makes sense.
Mar 16, 8:52 pm
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