I think having an orgasm from sex with my partner is as good as it gets in my opinion I have no romantic connection with any of my toys there for it's not my favorite approach tho I do orgasm every time I use them
On one hand, I feel so lucky because my best O's are during normal intercourse, though can be enhanced with toys, etc. On the other hand, since I'm incapable of having penetrative sex right now, this is a bit of a disadvantage.
i have been jealous of ladies orgasms and overall lack of worry about having them too soon. ladies can (and do) have all the orgasms they want while men are limited to one, or small half orgasms culminating in a big one.