How do you know when it happens?

Illusional Illusional
So, I've been with this same guy for three years. He's amazing, loving, patient and amazing. I've sorta as of late, gathered what that orgasm-ish feeling is, it comes from using a toy or a bullet and I get all tingly and warm... and then I stop cause I'm scared. So, he feels kinda down that I don't have an orgasm, but there's been times when I've like cried out during sex and my thighs get real wet... did I have an orgasm? Or am I just really wet? I'm not sure, everyone gives me a different ideal on an orgasm.
09/29/2010
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ScottA ScottA
The physical hallmark of an orgasm is rhythmic muscular contractions in the genital/pubic area, including the PC muscle (the "Kegel" muscle).

If you don't think you've had one yet then you might want to play with the toys some more. Don't stop - you're not going to break anything (do play on a folded towel or something you can wash because you might discover you're a squirter).

Really wet is a good sign.
09/30/2010
mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
there are woman that go through their adult lives not being able to achive an orgasm...
09/30/2010
Illusional Illusional
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
The physical hallmark of an orgasm is rhythmic muscular contractions in the genital/pubic area, including the PC muscle (the "Kegel" muscle).

If you don't think you've had one yet then you might want to play with the toys ... More
Yeah, there's a lot of pulsing, throbbing and I can barely pull the toy out.
09/30/2010
newcomer newcomer
Keep going when it feels like you want to stop. I had my 1st orgasm at age 29 even though I'd played with a penis shaped vibrator before. It wasn't till I tried a clit vibrator and said, "ok. I'm going to power through this too-intense feeling till I come." It worked. My problem was that I had previously identified the response that says I'm on my way to an orgasm as bad feelings. Now I know when I'm on my way: I get hot, then my vulva itches, then my vagina itches, then the wave of orgasm comes over me. The throbbing/pulsing is unmistakable.
10/04/2010
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