So, I've been with this same guy for three years. He's amazing, loving, patient and amazing. I've sorta as of late, gathered what that orgasm-ish feeling is, it comes from using a toy or a bullet and I get all tingly and warm... and then I stop cause I'm scared. So, he feels kinda down that I don't have an orgasm, but there's been times when I've like cried out during sex and my thighs get real wet... did I have an orgasm? Or am I just really wet? I'm not sure, everyone gives me a different ideal on an orgasm.